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OkYou're in a relationship, and you're not feeling it. You've grown complacent and aren't really on it, but the feeling isn't strong enough for you to end it. It's just "convenience" keeping you with someone.You meet someone else.How far do you progress things with someone else before you take any action with your current?Do you play it by ear and then when things start geting heavy end it with the old one?Or do you not even entertain the idea of the new partner before you have cut ties with your old partner.Answer honestly.The answers will form the base of my followup question.I have FAO'd this for Women particularly, as I can't really think of a case where a man does this. They usually end it no questions. Welcome to answer though.

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girls always go for quantity rather than quality therefor she will always have a contingency plan AKA plan B on the side waiting.girls hate to be alone

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Your still on this chick?
:D Not when I found out no.But from what I see, either it's just me or this is really, really commonplace with women.I'd be a d*ckhead to get involved. Same thing would just happen to me further down the line.
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Possibly yes.But Yea this sort of thing seems to be commonplace, as Big Boss said Women won't generally leave one man without having someone lined up, now it depends on the progress of that Plan B, it could be in the initial stages or it could be straight into the 'go to them for comfort' stage depending on how long they've known eachother / her lack of virtue.I have been in this position several times. It does seem to happen a lot.

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Nowhere drastic.Was round mine, body language was saying yes. Overly in my personal space. Touchy etc.Had a prior engagement so asked her to leave which in retrospect probably upped the attraction.Now she's all up about coming round to cook for me and watch some film with me.How did the outcomes end for you?

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Marlon, currently in your position albeit, less feelings caught.Do the current BF a favour. Goad the girl, into thinking you're getting together, to the point she actually breaks up with him. Then leave her high & dry...Be an agent of chaos.

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Marlon, currently in your position albeit, less feelings caught.Do the current BF a favour. Goad the girl, into thinking you're getting together, to the point she actually breaks up with him. Then leave her high & dry...Become an agent of chaos.

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LMAO , agent of chaos you know.The outcomes? I deaded/left the situations, simply because I saw, as you did, that 1. It could happen to me and 2. I was doing it more out of boredom & arousal not out of genuine emotional attatchment, so I wasn't gonna f*ck somebody else over for that.One of the girls, is now 2 weeks away from giving birth to her mans child, all obviously hormonal and gooey talking about how great it is, 'me and the baby are going to take a shower, me and the baby are tired' 'my man asked me when im gonna give him another child'As if I couldn't have beaten her, slipped, and that child be mine. About telling me how she dreaming about us f*ck*ng and sh*t, pmsl.Couple of the others are still on hold, if I get real bored I'll bring them in I suppose.One of them infact (similar to your position) if it were not for this, would seem wifey. Inm just about every way possible.

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LOL @ MKI see you Cipher.I'm gonna play this one by ear. I'm starting to shift away from the "1 rule no exceptions" mentality. Don't ask me why. Just have to tread it careful.

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i play it by earbreak up with the old one before i sex the new onebut thats all air anyway, mi depon a nex flex rightchanow

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Had a similar situation and yeah i knew the girl wanted that full commitment of knowing we were gonna be together before she ended it with her man.But lol @ her getting that commitment from me, could not take her seriously as a GF no matter how much i was feeling her.Just fizzled out in the end without much physicality going on.

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women are like monkeysthey dont let go of 1 vine til they firmly got their grip on another

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women are like monkeysthey dont let go of 1 vine til they firmly got their grip on another
lol thats not how monkeys swing (no monkey)
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allow being with someone because its 'convenient' that's mental prostitution imo

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women are like monkeysthey dont let go of 1 vine til they firmly got their grip on another
them slow/handicapped monkeys there
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To the guys saying you can take a girl seriouslt that breaks up with her man for you. Haven't you considered that you just might be the better option for her ? /Been there. Couldn't let go of one to persue the other. Liked the option. Ended up losing both. :D

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women are like monkeysthey dont let go of 1 vine til they firmly got their grip on another
i swear they jump from one branch to the nextno monkey expert
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allow being with someone because its 'convenient' that's mental prostitution imo
if u look around youthere are a lot of people in relationships of conveniencea lot
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LOL this reminds me of a scenario in my past. Timescales as follows (all times are approximates): -(Club)12midnight - Finish set.1.30am - Approach Charlene.2am - Get the number.(Whip)3.30am - Ask her if she got home safe.(Home)11am - "Let's do lunch"(Pizza Hut)1pm - Charlene: "I'm not happy, I love him, but he doesn't make me happy. I'm not going to do anything with you unless your my man, I'm not a hoe, so I'm gonna leave him for you."1.30pm - Colin: "Let me know when you've told him it's over"(Charlene's home - a week later)7pm - Sex10pm - Colin: "Gotta go"1pm the next day - *Colin switches sim for evermore*

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LOL this reminds me of a scenario in my past. Timescales as follows (all times are approximates): -(Club)12midnight - Finish set.1.30am - Approach Charlene.2am - Get the number.(Whip)3.30am - Ask her if she got home safe.(Home)11am - "Let's do lunch"(Pizza Hut)1pm - Charlene: "I'm not happy, I love him, but he doesn't make me happy. I'm not going to do anything with you unless your my man, I'm not a hoe, so I'm gonna leave him for you."1.30pm - Colin: "Let me know when you've told him it's over"(Charlene's home - a week later)7pm - Sex10pm - Colin: "Gotta go"1pm the next day - *Colin switches sim for evermore*
[DENZEL WASHINGTON] MA MAN!!!!!
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LOL this reminds me of a scenario in my past. Timescales as follows (all times are approximates): -(Club)12midnight - Finish set.1.30am - Approach Charlene.2am - Get the number.(Whip)3.30am - Ask her if she got home safe.(Home)11am - "Let's do lunch"(Pizza Hut)1pm - Charlene: "I'm not happy, I love him, but he doesn't make me happy. I'm not going to do anything with you unless your my man, I'm not a hoe, so I'm gonna leave him for you."1.30pm - Colin: "Let me know when you've told him it's over"(Charlene's home - a week later)7pm - Sex10pm - Colin: "Gotta go"1pm the next day - *Colin switches sim for evermore*
*spuds*
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LOL this reminds me of a scenario in my past. Timescales as follows (all times are approximates): -(Club)12midnight - Finish set.1.30am - Approach Charlene.2am - Get the number.(Whip)3.30am - Ask her if she got home safe.(Home)11am - "Let's do lunch"(Pizza Hut)1pm - Charlene: "I'm not happy, I love him, but he doesn't make me happy. I'm not going to do anything with you unless your my man, I'm not a hoe, so I'm gonna leave him for you."1.30pm - Colin: "Let me know when you've told him it's over"(Charlene's home - a week later)7pm - Sex10pm - Colin: "Gotta go"1pm the next day - *Colin switches sim for evermore*
*spuds*
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Colin is a beast.

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Colin is a beast.
You say that like it's a bad thing, lol.
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