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Keeping in touch with your Ex?

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Do you, or have you in the past, kept in touch with your Ex boyfriend or girlfriend after the break up has happened?Ive split up with my girlfriend just over 3 weeks ago and at first there wasnt any contact, then we text a little bit then again back to no contract (i was the one who wasnt making any contact) then earlier in the week we got a message from her asking how i was, then woosh.. back to talking on facebook and over texting. Its bate that she doesnt want to loose contact with me and if im being honest i dont want to loose touch wit her, but in the long run is there any point to it? Can it only lead to one of us wanting that person back (undoubtably this will eventually happen if it hasnt already) and then lead to more hurt?

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It's long.If you really didn't care about the relationship and was just passing time, then it's cool.But if there were strong feelings, then allow it, don't be friends.Think, would you mind if your new mrs was friends with her ex???Would you think your new mrs would be happy with you being friends with someone you loved???NO!!!!!!!So, you should tell her f*ck off.My ex who I was in a long relationship with tries to keep in contact with me, but she gets air, all trying to add family members of mine and sh*t but got them to lock the slag off.Pissed thing is that she works next door to where I work so on weekends I see her and when she's done with work, she comes in my shop and 50% of the time comes to me about stuff, hoping I'd talk afterwards, but all I do is walk off without saying anything.Be a man JDC, air her.

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i tend to not want to do itbt some always want to n i dont want to come off like some huge c*nt so i just go along withthe last chick doe, she was working with the devil and she wants us to go back to being friends tryna talk to me on some normal sh*t like she didnt do some f*ckery

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Friends with most of my exes. But there has to be a period where you don't talk so you can both get over each other. Some say that period should be the same length of time as the relationship.

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'Friends' with mine. Kinda a gd and bad thing. Mainly gud though. Felt wierd speaking to my last one after breaking up. so had to distance myself for a while and just never hollered unless they did lol

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eX is X. none of that link up for good time bollocks. It only leads back to one thing. I have only kept contact with one of my ex's and that because their was unfinished business. I saw one of my Ex's a few weeks ago and it was one of the most awkward moments have experienced in a while . I kept it short & sweet and just glad my swag was in check that day. I

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wait till u've both moved on. then talk to her about your new girl. if she cant handle it, u cant b friends.

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The ex's i didn't give a sh*t about i'll respond to their txts or facebook msgs but thats where it stops... Cos i never cared to begin with i can chat to them cos i dont care... The ones who i have loved i will air all day every single day.. Allow lettin someone stir ur sh*t... an ex is an ex for a reason JDC if u keep chattin to her ur guna get f*cked and not even the good kind

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I'm on war terms with every single one of my exesDon't think a relationship has ever ended amicably with me.

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Only X i was in touch with was one who we pretty much grew up together, seen him when i was back home and nights out with School friends. Until recently, He's in prison now and i think when he comes out this time Im going to try make sure i dont turn up to events/nights out that he might be at. I had thought it wasn't complicated and that we were friends and everything was cool, but i was being gullable on that note and he still held feelings and it actually made it complicated for him!

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Most times, people (and when I say people, I mainly mean females), are just inflicting pain on themselves by keeping in touch. I suppose, it all depends on how you break up.

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never. unless they start dialogueit wont benefit me in any way so why do it?

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I'm on war terms with every single one of my exesDon't think a relationship has ever ended amicably with me.
lmao i know th efeelingworse is when they wer in the wrong n proper f*cked u over then come over on some white flag shitf*ck OFFF
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neverthey all hate me differently

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I still love my last girlfriend, so due to the fear of doing something stupid, no.

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I still love my last girlfriend, so due to the fear of doing something stupid, no.
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see i understand what Angelo, Trip X and Efifs are saying, i dont speak to any of my other ex's, i never ended amicably, but this latest one did and thats why i asked the question, this is new to meat the moment im seeing how things go, i know that it cant last forever and in order to get over this one i need a new one but its never easy when your close to some1 is it!dilemma

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Nope don't talk to them but my recent ex finally poured out how she felt and wants to meet up and talk, I'm willing to do so, but others nah.

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Nope don't talk to them but my recent ex finally poured out how she felt and wants to meet up and talk, I'm willing to do so, but others nah.
Nooo!!No no no no noooo
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Nope don't talk to them but my recent ex finally poured out how she felt and wants to meet up and talk, I'm willing to do so, but others nah.
Nooo!!No no no no noooo
Stat, What are you thinking?!?!
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Nope don't talk to them but my recent ex finally poured out how she felt and wants to meet up and talk, I'm willing to do so, but others nah.
Nooo!!No no no no noooo
Stat, What are you thinking?!?!
He can't help it manAs much as it may be an illogical and potentially dangerous and heartbreaking move, the guy obviously loves herCommon sense goes out the windowAll due respect by the way, not trying to par it at all.
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Nope don't talk to them but my recent ex finally poured out how she felt and wants to meet up and talk, I'm willing to do so, but others nah.
Nooo!!No no no no noooo
Stat, What are you thinking?!?!
He can't help it manAs much as it may be an illogical and potentially dangerous and heartbreaking move, the guy obviously loves herCommon sense goes out the windowAll due respect by the way, not trying to par it at all.
This is the thing, I've had my time to think and I've heard what everyone has said to me from friends to family to even you lot on here but in the end you can't help how you feel for that person. She may have suggested we meet up but everything is on my terms. I know I should walk away but when you love someone you just can't help it. I don't want to turn this in to a topic about me, I explained enough on the situation, if anyone wants to take it up with my send through a PM.
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She's an EX for a reason. EXIT HER. f*ck keeping an ex around listening to the same ol' rigmarole

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this is trueWHO is that woman in your avi?

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Swear down guys are turning into bitches.Stat trice, COME ON NOW SON YOU ARE MOVING MOIST!!!Men need to man up.My ex try chat to me today.SMH @ her.

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