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Her Friends/My Night of Fail Thread

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Warning: Long ReadSo I'm getting close to closing with one girl I've been dealing with the last 2 weeks or so. Seen her twice.Met one of her friends the first time I saw her after getting back from a drink, and got on like a house on fire, so no problems there.2nd time, we were going for a meal. I arrive at the meet, she rings and tells me to hurry to hers coz she wants me to meet her friends before they go out.I get there and there's like 5 chicks who have obviously all been clued up on me. Eyeballs boring a hole through my skull. That burning feeling Eks mentioned in some other thread.So I make the best impression in 5 minutes that I can being put on the spot, they roll out and offer us to go with them coz they've got tickets for some event. For the sake of being polite, I say I don't mind but I'd rather spend the evening getting to know this girl - could tell she didn't wanna go so just called it and said "No, but thanks. You have a good evening".So I'm jamming in this chicks bedroom while she's getting ready. All trying clothes and sh*t for me asking me what I like. Was looking forward to the evening at this point.So we hit the restaurant. Going well, get some drinks, conversations flowing, she's hinting like a motherf*cker and I'm feeling it's a wrap.She then gets a call from her friends, who didn't get in coz this place was oversold. They ask if they can join us.:/She looks at me, cringes, closes her eyes, then reluctantly says "Yeah ok" to be polite.They arrive about 20 minutes later, but there's no room in this place so after 5 minutes of me being polite and pretending it's nothing, they leave and go back to the flat. The flat I thought we would have to just me and her.We leave the restaurant, and I'm racking my brains trying to think of somewhere at this hour that would be decent to have a good night, without her damn friends. Somewhere I could divert to.She then INSTANTLY gets another call. A group of 5 blokes have just moved into the flat next door to theirs. They're all chatting/socialising in the hallway, and they tell us to come and jam.I'm pretty close to ripping my d*ck off at this point.We get back, by this time I've forgotten all her friends names, so just mumble mmrrr and hope for the best. Start chatting to the guys that have moved in. All students, and all fairly sound guys.In this time, she's talking to her friends, glancing over at me all the time, and every so often coming over and asking me if I'm ok. Now I'm not a fag so I'm not about to turn round and go "NO I WANTED TO SPEND IT WITH YOU" coz it's not about spitting the dummy out, so I just acted like everything was cool, and chatted to her new neighbours who wouldn't f*ck*ng stop talking.The night ended sometime around 4 the next morning when everyone was too f*cked to stay awake. I'd done all the fake smiling and socialising I could hack for one night, while the possibility that all of that time could have been taken up by f*ck*ng was building a slow rage inside me. She was f*ckED. Falling asleep in the corridor so there was no way anything was gonna happen. Actually carried her to her bed paraletic, put her to bed, and crashed on the couch inches away from her bed next to it. One of the biggest fails of my life.I'm up at 9 coz I had to get to work. Trying to slink away and she wakes up. Tells me to stay for breakfast and she can make tea etc. Just declined it, said goodbye, and walked out.I like this chick but I can't be dealing with her friends about all the time. Flatmates are fine, but they're all the most pally pally "lets do everything together" people in the world. I thought it might have been a case of "ensuring her friends are around because she's not interested like that" but after consideration on what was said/the impression I got, I'm pretty sure it's just circumstantial, and coincidence that the couple of times I've seen her, it's been interrupted by bare people everywhere.All I want is some time alone, f*ck*ng hell. Wasn't really sure where I was going with this thread, just wanted to protest my annoyance. If anyone has any smart ideas regarding avoiding the friends/meet ideas, feel free. Similar stories will also stop me going insane.

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brb lettme take a sh*t b4 i read this feel like ill reply in an essay aswell

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I'd say you've probably done the hard work now. She should appreciate the effort and her pals probably think you're an OK guy.

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I don't understand... Does she sleep in the living room? Why when you go to hers can't you go to her room?Think you need to tell her that you wanna get to know her before you get to know her friends. Either that or just keep hoping they're not there when you turn up which sounds pretty unlikely.

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I don't understand... Does she sleep in the living room? Why when you go to hers can't you go to her room?Think you need to tell her that you wanna get to know her before you get to know her friends. Either that or just keep hoping they're not there when you turn up which sounds pretty unlikely.
Nah she sleeps in what would be the living room - so the doors have glass and sh*t on them. It's a pretty open flat too so people just drop round in other rooms whenever and anyone who walks past can pretty much see into her room. Think she has a curtain but I've peeped while walking past (no pervert) and you can see in.
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I'd say you've probably done the hard work now. She should appreciate the effort and her pals probably think you're an OK guy.
tbhNext time just try hinting for her to lock off her phone for a couple hours so that you have no distractions. I know a few girls are probably gonna fly in with the (if a man told me to lock off my phone, kmt, gun finger to the back of his head, eddiyatt* but if your subtle and drop it nicely, bingoand like eks said just let her know you want some me and you timeEven though its obvious that how things have been going would start to become annoying, I swear you have to spell these sort of things out with females. Otherwise they just carry on oblivious and delusional not even suspecting somthing could be up
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You might have to take her to a nightclub fam. I never condone this, did it once and it felt weird but it's the only way you can hopefully get back to hers and her housemates will be asleep. Then you can have your way.Or (better idea) go see a film at like 11 then go Tinsletown after. Then you can get back to hers late. I'm assuming you drive.

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Driving ain't really an option, she lives about 30 seconds from Oxford Circus.I'm gonna ring her shortly and organise a night but just drop something like "thinking maybe just you and me this time" then polishing it with something about her friends being tight but me wanting to get to know her better and not feeling like I can fully do it blah blah.Hmmm

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Update:Just called and she's trying to get me to go out tonight with her new buddies next door and all her friends. Told her I couldn't make it but arranged a date next week.Followed it with "I was thinking just you and me this time". Cue a *GASP* from what sounded like numerous females.f*cks sake. I WAS ON SPEAKER PHONE.Just soldiered through with "Nah nah let me explain. You're friends are a scream - everyones tight but I feel like I wanna get to know you better before your friends. Don't get the wrong impression." (safe eks).Exchanged a few more pleasantries, said I'd be in touch to confirm details etc.As I was saying goodbye, it really did sound like about 3 people were laughing/holding in laughter. All in all not really the friends free conversation I wanted.:D

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On loudspeaker!? That's a violation right there! How old is she!? SMH. Don't even answer that.Her p*ssy better be sweeter than mango juice bruv! (no bowcat, I mean figuratively sweet)

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nah nah nah that cant be happeninat least ur findin all this out before u close on her tbh

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On loudspeaker!? That's a violation right there! How old is she!? SMH. Don't even answer that.Her p*ssy better be sweeter than mango juice bruv! (no bowcat, I mean figuratively sweet)
lmfaoNah when I rang she was like "Maarrlooooonn!" and I heard in the background people go "OH IS THAT MARLON!?".They all said hello so I just went "Hello everyone" in the lamest trying-to-sound-enthusiastic way I could.She must have put me on loudspeaker when I said that.
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On loudspeaker!? That's a violation right there! How old is she!? SMH. Don't even answer that.Her p*ssy better be sweeter than mango juice bruv! (no bowcat, I mean figuratively sweet)
This.Thats an immature thing to do if you axeing me.I'd play along for a bit since it would be a waste to abandon after the work you've put in, but be wearly as her conduct hasnt exactly made the best impression
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argh........feel for u brogood self control to hold it down after finding out u were on loudspeakerbe careful next week it'll be a three way call and then ur gonna have the whole road knowing ur business thats what these kinda women are like they cant help themselves.

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On loudspeaker!? That's a violation right there! How old is she!? SMH.
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On loudspeaker!? That's a violation right there! How old is she!? SMH. Don't even answer that.Her p*ssy better be sweeter than mango juice bruv! (no bowcat, I mean figuratively sweet)
lmfaoNah when I rang she was like "Maarrlooooonn!" and I heard in the background people go "OH IS THAT MARLON!?".They all said hello so I just went "Hello everyone" in the lamest trying-to-sound-enthusiastic way I could.She must have put me on loudspeaker when I said that.
lmfao
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On loudspeaker!? That's a violation right there! How old is she!? SMH. Don't even answer that.Her p*ssy better be sweeter than mango juice bruv! (no bowcat, I mean figuratively sweet)
This.Thats an immature thing to do if you axeing me.I'd play along for a bit since it would be a waste to abandon after the work you've put in, but be wearly as her conduct hasnt exactly made the best impression
Rly?
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