When you suspect your boy has a crush on your girl

[Guest Intervention]

[Goddaz]

man dem shouldnt be askin about sex wit ur CHICK still.

THIS.

[Guest Yilmaz]

You guys going on about getting manipulated, let that sh*t happen. Top priority with a girl is always letting her know how indifferent you are to sh*t. Once you've drummed this into her, she won't try a thing. Besides you guys need to start caring less about stuff, it's all this 'caring' that makes you look insecure. When your missus blatantly knows you don't give a crap and will standardly dump her should she 'mis behave', she'll know the levels. Not even a special thing, just set out your rules to her, even if they don't relate to your issues, just let her know you have 'rules', she'll start wondering about everything else, that's how you keep her on her toes. Once you stop keeping your gf on her toes, you're done. Obviously if you're one of those guys who fall into a routine and let your guard down, you become way prone to slipping.Golden rule, never care too much about sh*t, you'll get yourself worried and it'll show. Best way the OP could have dealt with this was to just let laugh at it, if a guy says he wants to mash your chick, bring it up with her and mock him subtly. Don't even give it a second thought tbh.

This.

[Gordon Gekko]

ur boy is a snake confront him or it gonna get worse

This./You're obviously not respected by him highly enough for him to be doing these things, would've caught a backhand off me just for the firing blanks line tbh.

[Guest TimeBomb]

no way can a friend of mine say that to my girl.

[streets.]

dont let paranoia destroy your friendship

[Guest Medic]

This

[Lieutenant]

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[Guest Intervention]

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[Em Dott]

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[Hernandez Balcazar]

not ur boy brokill him/cut him off

[Dipset]

dont let paranoia destroy your friendship or relationship

paranoia is a evil thing

[Skenghis Khan]

peak.and can ppl stop adding moisture to that quote please, safe.

[Jam]

lol thts not being paronoid tho.paronoid would be if they are jus talkin a lot or suttin (even tho i wouldnt really have that)this guy is pissing in ur face. how does it taste?

Lol Kavanagh >>

[Bacardi_Up]

There is some real advice in here and some downright dumb sh*t.First I am gonna address a few things:My girl is something truly naive. She is inexperienced with guys, infact I am her first boyfriend so I know she ain't f*cked him.Despite knowing him longer they are not especially close anymore, they have drifted apart. My issue isn't that my girl will cheat on me, she won't because she is in love with me. It is more that I don't appreciate a friend talking that way and I am suspicious of it.I won't deny I am not the most trusting guy. Perhaps it is paranoia. Perhaps there is nothing to it.In the end I have decided to stop caring. I know my girl loves me. I know she is loyal to me and it doesnt matter me and her are strong. I don't care who potentially fancies her. She is mine and she knows it. She is mine and that is the way she wants it.Now to address some other stuff:Some people on her coming with some backwards mentality. I am my woman's king but likewise she is my queen.I tell her that I love her and she tells me that she loves me and we both mean it.I won't hide sh*t that bugs me nor play mind games because in the end this is a relationship I am serious about. Not something based solely on sex. So I will be myself, open and honest.That is the way she and I both want it. That is how a serious relationship is formed and maintained. Why pretend, deceive and play mind games for control? You know when you feel you have to resort to them kind of actions your relationship won't be a lasting one.I know she won't play games with me because I am her man. AND even IF she were to play games with me I am no sucker. I would and can put her straight in her place.

[Angelo]

There are so many things wrong with what you just said but I'm going to agree to disagree with you for the sake of this turning into a DMF type showdown.Good luck to you.

[Guest Intervention]

Did you have a tear rolling down your cheek as you wrote that brother?Time will come after you have finished singing ayie aye will always love you that you are gonna realise we were so right we made the bnp look liberalYour post could have come straight out of the end of Titanic or (someone confirm- I haven't seen it) Brokeback MountingI won't rejoice in your downfall though when the sh*t hits the propellers you will wonder bra, why didnt I listenMay i direct you to verse 4 of 'Bitches Aint sh*t' by Snoop Dodgy Dogg

[Phil Brooks]

man dem shouldnt be askin about sex wit ur CHICK still.

I think your an idiot, but 100% agreed with this statement. If it's a link then that's minor, but lol at asking about each others woman./All about having a woman that wants to be with you 24/7 tbh.

[RaiKkoNen]

Lol at Brem, even I ain't that naive. Don't worry, you'll get hurt and learn.Good to see you're on about not caring about minor sh*t like this though.

[Phil Brooks]

wanting a woman to want to be with ur 24/7 is a bit needy imo

But seeing it in a positive view, shes on the case. If a girl doesn't want to be with you = fail.

[Goddaz]

Did you have a tear rolling down your cheek as you wrote that brother?Time will come after you have finished singing ayie aye will always love you that you are gonna realise we were so right we made the bnp look liberalYour post could have come straight out of the end of Titanic or (someone confirm- I haven't seen it) Brokeback MountingI won't rejoice in your downfall though when the sh*t hits the propellers you will wonder bra, why didnt I listenMay i direct you to verse 4 of 'Bitches Aint sh*t' by Snoop Dodgy Dogg

:lol:Cipher>>>>>>>>>>____

[Angelo]

lmfao.biggest turnoff in the world if she wants to drop everything to be with me.want someone who's independent, has ambition, and lives her own life.

[R1.]

My issue isn't that my girl will cheat on me, she won't because she is in love with me.

You really believe that

[Grafter]

VIP2 is really the last place to come an look for adviceno one here is an expert but everyone talks like as if they are, and theres a bunch of people who try an push their own insecurities and offkey perspectives on life on other peopleBrem you've just ended up comin back here havin to defend yourself and your relationship against the opinion and advice of a bunch of youtssee how many of them are in successful long lasting relationships, all the advice ur gettin is off people who have had negative or no experience of ur situationthis place becmes a frenzy of negativity at any opportunity

[Phil Brooks]

lmfao.biggest turnoff in the world if she wants to drop everything to be with me.want someone who's independent, has ambition, and lives her own life.

Who said about dropping everything or having no ambition or even having her own life? Is that what you associate with a woman wanting you all the time? If so, then that is not good thinking.