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MovesLikeJagger

Case of the EX......

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First and foremost, I am new to VIP2 and I have been advised by a friend to try it out as he believes that the people on here have the answer to the perils of life. At a first glance I thought, 'I might aswell give it TRY'....(blah, blah, blah....Now that bits over...)

I recently started talking to this dude (who moved to me in on Valentines Day)...

He has taken me out ALOT, and even filled my tank (BONUS)

He seems to be a serious and I think his an alright kinda guy, But I would rate him much more if he STOPPED banging on about his EX!

Its obvious that he came out of his relationship to spread his so called 'wings', but prehaps he didnt realise that his wings had been clipped!

He make comments about her ALL the time. I try to care but in my head im thinkin STFU and go back to her already....So i try come from the why don't you call her angle! But he just shrugged it off!

As a girl I feel that if a guy has got a good wifey now....he should keep her regardlesss, as there are noooooooo GOOD GIRLS left! trust me on that one!!!!!

And as much as I want to tell the dude to keep it moving...he is a bit clingly (calling every night) and he also has money and he does not mind spending it....

In that case I do not mind being the rebound!

But I know it wrong! DONT JUDGE ME!

whats the best way of dealing with ish like this....from a guys perspective

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llow it tulse.

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your being a prick because u know hes on u....and from what u said ur not on him at all...only coz hes helping financially and hes nice to you, you feel a way about the situation.

You care more about the perks of what you're getting from him rather than him himself.

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I know. But realistically speaking he is not stupid...why give so much if you know you are not emotionally stable.

He will just get the call divert from now on! because as soon as he is back with his girl...I will be a thing of the past!

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why you gotta be a prick about it just tell him

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5 days ago? Is it really a dear Deirdre situation already?!

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I know. But realistically speaking he is not stupid...why give so much if you know you are not emotionally stable.

He will just get the call divert from now on! because as soon as he is back with his girl...I will be a thing of the past!

he wants to believe hes ready....and proving to himself more than anything and you're taking advantage of the situation. Thats all it is.

you ask him where u stand init.....u aint givin up the p*ssy and he aint even attempted so therefore there is emotions there....dead, you dont want anything with him just lock it now and stop being selfish.

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5 days ago? Is it really a dear Deirdre situation already?!

Trust me.

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whos Deidre?

and yeh to be honest I am being pretty selfish im just going to bite the gun and tell him.

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Is there a problem here? You answered all your own questions.

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lol at telling him, guy is a sucker just keep collecting that gwap and getting them free lunches if that suits your character and you have a clear conscience

he's hung himself with his own rope

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cant take the cling

Tell him Goddaz has the right technique.

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cant take the cling

Tell him Goddaz has the right technique.

LOLOL

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bubz y u doing me like this

pm me so we can sort u out with another tank :P xoxo

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