Your kids

[Goddaz]

Why is it mad though? My wife is/was blessed with it.

Think logically for a second. Take the emotions & this 'trust' thing out of it then maybe you won't think it's so mad.

[KayGee]

Thats just it though, in a serious relationship or marriage where your gonna decide to have children emotions and trust are everything.

[JLovely]

Why is it mad though? My wife is/was blessed with it.

Think logically for a second. Take the emotions & this 'trust' thing out of it then maybe you won't think it's so mad.

Logically you're correct, the only way to be certain is to test. However, I'm curious as to what's led you to want to DNA test all three children with your wife? And was this all of them at the same time or after each were born?

[O Fenomeno]

thats kinda mad testing the child of the woman you married

if youre marrying her there should be no doubt

That's what I'm thinking.

[Guest M12]

im slightly with goddaz tbh. but id do it more slyly, quick snip of the youts hair and mine, nobody has to know.

On a real though i dont trust anyone enough to give them a 100% free pass like that wife or not. I'm a logical person more than an emotional one. if theres a 5% chance its not mine id wanna know. if you have nothing to hide theres no reason to be upset

[JLovely]

What would result in a 5% chance of doubt though?

And you're correct if you've got nothing to hide then it shouldn't matter, however you are forgetting emotions are part of who we are. I would be hurt if my husband proposed a DNA test and it would probably affect our relationship going forward.

Question: Did you ever mind your partner looking through your phone,emails etc

[O Fenomeno]

Why would your partner attempt to look through your phone/emails?

Total disrespect

[Goddaz]

Why is it mad though? My wife is/was blessed with it.

Think logically for a second. Take the emotions & this 'trust' thing out of it then maybe you won't think it's so mad.

Logically you're correct, the only way to be certain is to test. However, I'm curious as to what's led you to want to DNA test all three children with your wife? And was this all of them at the same time or after each were born?

Technically I haven't tested all of them because our fourth & last isn't here yet. As you may recall J we broke up for a year or so, when we eventually got back together. We decided to be a 100% honest with other which meant literally nothing was left unsaid or asked. They weren't all tested together, different times & ages.

[Guest M12]

What would result in a 5% chance of doubt though?

And you're correct if you've got nothing to hide then it shouldn't matter, however you are forgetting emotions are part of who we are. I would be hurt if my husband proposed a DNA test and it would probably affect our relationship going forward.

Question: Did you ever mind your partner looking through your phone,emails etc

thats a privacy issue, theres things on my phone/e-mail that could bait up my friends and family. its not right that people can be sending me things in confidence and someone else reading them.

However i'd let her on my e-mail or into my phone if there was a specific reason for her being there. but not just to randomly snoop.

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to give a real life example. my ex had a pregnancy scare round a period where we'd hardly been having sex. Her 1st thought was how has this happened im using contraception and we haven't had sex that much. My 1st thoughts were, have you been using the contraception properly and is this really mine. I dont think my mentality on this kinda stuff will ever change. i think logically over emotionally nearly every time

[JLovely]

Same reason of surety. But I guess just because you don't find anything doesn't mean there's not something going on. Bit different to a DNA test.

[JLovely]

So would you test your last baby also?

[Goddaz]

lol

My wife & I go through & use each others phones, e-mails, fb etc all the time.

It's snuffin

[Kurtis]

Uncle Goddaz got a forth on the way yeah? congrats, swear you just had one recently?

[JLovely]

I agree it is nothing.

Just put it out there to see if your stance was different.

[Goddaz]

So would you test your last baby also?

Honestly as it stands & how we've NEVER left each others side since our honeymoon in JA last year I have absolutely no real reason to do it this time round.

[Goddaz]

Uncle Goddaz got a forth on the way yeah? congrats, swear you just had one recently?

Yep!! Thanks jal. Well if 2 and half years ago is recent then yeah lol

[JLovely]

Fair enough. Congrats as well

[KayGee]

Wow 4, Congratulations.

[JOHN DOE]

@goddaz was it a conscious desicion to have another kid

do u still beat ur wife with a dom/contraception or is it like boy if you get preggo u get preggo - we are married 'i got this'

[Goddaz]

Thanks J & K.

Soon it will be two of each & it's a wrap.

[KayGee]

boy if you get preggo u get preggo - we are married 'i got this'

[Goddaz]

@goddaz was it a conscious desicion to have another kid

do u still beat ur wife with a dom/contraception or is it like boy if you get preggo u get preggo - we are married 'i got this'

Yeah. We've always planned to have four.

We'll be taking all precautions to ensure it doesn't happen but IF it does then yeah, it would be a ting of ''we are married 'i got this'

[KayGee]

Spare seat in the 7 seater anyway..

[Goddaz]

Lol funny enough I've been researching mpv's this week. I've got just under 2 months to buy one.

[JOHN DOE]

marrying someone you love and having kids with them must be the shit

i genuinely wish you the best and i can only hope my future will end the same