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How many of you believe in the dream.

 

Finding someone falling in love and staying with them long term, if not happily ever after.

 

 

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*raises hand*

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Yea, my mum and dad are still together after more than 30 years, 3 kids.

 

Wasn't always easy and aslong as you know that there is hard work involved and some hard times likely then no reason why your dream can't become reality.

 

 

Choosing the right chick is imperative though, in this society that task seems alot harder than in my parents day.

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Oh and to those of you in relationships now, do you see yourself with your partner forever?

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I just see failed* relationships everywhere. Dont know that many people my age whose parents are still together

 

I think its possible but less so now than in the past.

 

In generations before us, people expected less and were more grateful for what they got. 

 

And this applied to all areas of life.

 

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*not the best word.  does a relationship 'fail' just coz it ends before someone died?  I guess thats another topic.

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Been single a year and after much back and forth with my ex I had to nip it in the bud on Monday. I tried but I give up now. Looking around at my age thinking... Will I meet someone like that again without baggage?

And I don't just wanna 'settle'

Might buy a cat

*clears up moisture from post*

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trust. dont wanna just settle

 

im not even gonna force it

 

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you should call your cat lewis

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in all honestly i just dont give a shit

 

all this love and relationship crap is just a distraction to me

 

wehter it exists or doesnt aint gonna stop the sun from shinning or the rain from falling so i just dont care, i just get dragged along for the ride

 

maybe its just the mood im in, i just dont care for this shit

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There will always be some shit in any relationship, no matter how long a length.

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Oh and to those of you in relationships now, do you see yourself with your partner forever?

 

Yeah, I think I was fortunate to be around certain people with a similar mindset, all had wifey's from young and thought it was about making them early moves.

 

All had a strong idea of what wifey was aswell, everyone rubbed off on each other I think.

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Been single a year and after much back and forth with my ex I had to nip it in the bud on Monday. I tried but I give up now.

 

Why you give up?

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Oh and to those of you in relationships now, do you see yourself with your partner forever?

 

89% no

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That's why i don't even get started.

I think can i really be with this for a year let alone, a lifetime.

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I'm Nigerian, infidelity is the norm and divorce is a taboo, go figure. Pure unhappy couples, but they seem to just stick it out man, I don't know if thats the dream seems more of a nightmare.  But todays society is conducive to destructive and short term relationships, nothing around me encourages me into thinking these 40-50 year relationships of old are a genuine possibility nowadays, sad shit.

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used to laugh at these guys who got a wife from back home

 

but im 26 now and ur rite

 

all chicks are boshes or got baggage

 

the dream would be a educated olive skinned light eyed ethnic with her own money and from a good family

 

seems a distant dream to me though these days when im mired in porn and promiscous snowflakes and my tormented mindset

 

i look at my parents married since 73 and i honestly envy them in that they grew up in an innocent age 

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I believe in it, even though I don't think it will work out for me. But for decent people - yeah, why not?

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Hes always going to be in my life cuz we have a child together. And we discussed this child for three long years prior, so the reality is we choose to make a lifelong bond with each other. And we can choose to be happy in that. My dad is married to a bi sexual, he is so smitten, its been 13 years. When u recognise ur blessed nothing stop u.

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I don't believe in the honest age

 

Think the same things happened back then, swinging 60's and the 80's

 

Shit even my Dad went Ibiza at 21

 

Bad excuse for finding the wife IMO

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I just see failed* relationships everywhere.

In my last relationship omg did i beleive lol

Now booyy. I reckon if it works one or both parties is/has put up wiv a lot of fuckry. A lot

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Been single a year and after much back and forth with my ex I had to nip it in the bud on Monday. I tried but I give up now.

Why you give up?

Felt like a bit part in her life.

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I'm Nigerian, infidelity is the norm and divorce is a taboo, go figure. Pure unhappy couples, but they seem to just stick it out man, I don't know if thats the dream seems more of a nightmare.  

 

cs

 

i aint forcing shit

 

a wife aint an entitlement 

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