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good question
i know the guy is talking about girls but im going to talk football(my time as a CF as this was when confidence was most needed) as its the same
sometimes i had zero confidence and guys were giving me all the encouragement putting me into positions to score but I was just out of step not making the runs or backing up looking for the easy tap ins where i couldnt miss
i might score 2/3 goals but in my head id tell myself they were anything anyone could of done that, i got lucky...even if it was a worldy (slef doubt)
but in contrast there was other times where i would step onto the pitch thinking i am Maradona, dropping deep picking up the ball, spraying it out to my team mate, having a nice little one two before putting him clean through and smiling to myself thinking you know that goal, that was all me...even if no one else acknowledges it I KNOW....I KNOW, other times id step up and do something outrageous like wtf you doing getting criticised in the process by people taking things too serious and then only getting props after the game is done, stepping up for pens and free kicks like its nothing and always bagging a winner.
but the thing is if i start the game/night low in confidence thats how it ends and vice versa no matter what happens and i have no idea WHERE IT COMES FROM OR GOES
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right now about 8
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Speculate
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Kurtis
havent got a fuckin clue where mine comes from
especially if its learned behaviour, cause in my childhood i was raised by women
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Yardie 2.0
depends on the season. usually peaks to bout 8-9 in summer
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Mame Biram Diouf
8/9 when I want it to be c/s Dave really
Where it comes from, I wouldn't want to 100% say yeah that is it.
But I agree with what the Dalai Lama said about confidence coming from motivation
More motivated you are to do something less anxious you will be off the possible negative consequences such as failure, others opinions of you changing
For example a presentation, you know you have to pass, you have no choice but to go hard, so the motivation behind that would give you the confidence to do so
If in your mind you are 100% motivated to do something, nothing will stop you from not having the confidence to go through with it and do it
I'd say biology also has a strong contribution to the mix, for example if you extroverts would be deemed to have more confidence on the outside as they are louder an more outgoing where as those who inherited more of an introvert personality would appear less confident and more anxious
Plus obvious other mixers in the cocktail like your upbringing and experiences
No one shoe fits all
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Mic Man
11
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Flat Eric
it can be 10 some days and 5 other days really all di pends
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Vtec
Stopped caring too much.
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Gordon Gekko
9
Mines pretty stable
I personally think confidence comes from within, or it should do, as opposed to having people knock it.
Mine particularly comes from experiencing new situations, new tasks and new challenges and feeling within that I've succeeding in them
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Wavant
7/8.
Comes from personal appearance and extracurricular activities I partake in.
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Speculate
improving though
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time_bomb
On the outside im showing a 9, inside could be as low as 6, i can get very nervous but i put up a good front.
My confidence comes from my previous successes
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Heero Yuy
Fluxate's between a 6-8, recently it's been an 8 as my gym work has been on point, which radiates confidence, which essentially rubs off on potential targets. My group helps alot, we're all pretty competitive, not just in women, but jobs, general success, football and gym. But mainly i'm self motivated and my confidence comes from the will to get stronger, become better and be the best.
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Lieutenant
Not to get too technical but there is state and trait confidence.
State confidence is having confidence in one particular area of your life e.g. You may be an excellent pianist and have all the confidence in the world when you sit behind that piano but lack confidence in all other areas
Trait confidence is when you're just a naturally confident person in all/most areas of life.
I believe I've got trait confidence that comes from my dad. He's a cocky motherfucker and that's defo rubbed off on me.
In general I'm a 8/9 outta 10
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imhim
2-4
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