The 20 Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make In Your 20s

[Benicio del Toney]

if it happens it happens i reckon

 

i dont get how the article can claim such a bossly position but not be able to handle something as routine as a long term relationship 

 

most people crave companionship in one way or another, banging loads of escorts isn't going to propel you towards that at all, if anything it's going to drstically lower your opinion of women and make it even harder to find the wife

 

I pos'd you on the rest but the yellow.

 

Naaaahhhh

 

 

You can't treat that like winning on a scratchcard bro.

 

 

Mans dem need to be on the prowl constantly.

 

If I weren't in a relationship I wouldn't be wasting time with links, it would be like I was speed dating, if I ain't feeling then it's onto the next one no wasting time.

 

 

Not tryna worry man out there but the pool of decent, respectable girls that look decent is pretty low, it gets smaller by the second.

[Supermalt]

So when do you start looking for one?( even though you shouldn't be looking for it)

[O Fenomeno]

It's always been small

So Toney you suggesting forgetting about having multiple options(links) but instead date one at a time and see if she becomes the wife or not

[local]

Not tryna worry man out there but the pool of decent, respectable girls that look decent is pretty low, it gets smaller by the second.

 

knjsdjlewnnehjwq i feel the panic closing in around me and ive got a mrs

 

being happy in a relationship but still feeling u aint tasted enough is hard work

 

i wana sack her off but i dont at all

 

hard knock life

[Benicio del Toney]

It's always been small

So Toney you suggesting forgetting about having multiple options(links) but instead date one at a time and see if she becomes the wife or not

 

Yeah, me personally I woulda been on the prowl proper by latest 25/26.

 

Can't afford nonsense girls to be wasting mans time, time that could be better spent looking for your future missus.

[O Fenomeno]

You can't be looking for her cuz

When you know you know

[Benicio del Toney]

If this were the movies I would agree with you.

 

The fact I know people in their 40's single tells me that magic moment don't happen for everyone.

[Kurtis]

if it happens it happens i reckon

 

i dont get how the article can claim such a bossly position but not be able to handle something as routine as a long term relationship 

 

most people crave companionship in one way or another, banging loads of escorts isn't going to propel you towards that at all, if anything it's going to drstically lower your opinion of women and make it even harder to find the wife

 

I pos'd you on the rest but the yellow.

 

Naaaahhhh

 

 

You can't treat that like winning on a scratchcard bro.

 

 

Mans dem need to be on the prowl constantly.

 

If I weren't in a relationship I wouldn't be wasting time with links, it would be like I was speed dating, if I ain't feeling then it's onto the next one no wasting time.

 

 

Not tryna worry man out there but the pool of decent, respectable girls that look decent is pretty low, it gets smaller by the second.

 

i dont think he means just sit and wait for it

 

do what youre doing but searching for a partner should be a peripheral not a core processing function of your life OS

[Afroman]

You can't be looking for her cuz

When you know you know

what is this talk

[Benicio del Toney]

Yeah course it should be on the peripheral but I notice a lot of guys say they ain't looking or they ain't ready.

 

That usually means they have closed themselves off to a relationship right now, even if only subconsciously, just be open at all times is what I'm saying.

[time_bomb]

its mad u know cos the one girl i thought could be my soul mate turned out to be an escort, an as u can imagine its something i couldnt get past, even though i know she had issues that made her go down that route i could no longer respect her and i didnt wanna touch her, id cuss her on a daily basis even when she changed and became islamic, in the end i dashed her but all the girls i have met since none have the same connection. A shame really but it is what it is, im not in no rush for wifey these things usually happen when u least expect it.

[O Fenomeno]

You can't be looking for her cuz

When you know you know

what is this talk

If a chick your seeing could be your wife or not

You can't be looking or forcing the issue

[O Fenomeno]

It will happen naturally

[dom dom bullets]

its mad u know cos the one girl i thought could be my soul mate turned out to be an escort, an as u can imagine its something i couldnt get past, even though i know she had issues that made her go down that route i could no longer respect her and i didnt wanna touch her, id cuss her on a daily basis even when she changed and became islamic, in the end i dashed her but all the girls i have met since none have the same connection. A shame really but it is what it is, im not in no rush for wifey these things usually happen when u least expect it.

 

So you found out she was an escort, stayed seeing her, she converted, then you decided nah?

[time_bomb]

its mad u know cos the one girl i thought could be my soul mate turned out to be an escort, an as u can imagine its something i couldnt get past, even though i know she had issues that made her go down that route i could no longer respect her and i didnt wanna touch her, id cuss her on a daily basis even when she changed and became islamic, in the end i dashed her but all the girls i have met since none have the same connection. A shame really but it is what it is, im not in no rush for wifey these things usually happen when u least expect it.

 

So you found out she was an escort, stayed seeing her, she converted, then you decided nah?

 

i was seeing her, i clocked she was an escort, she stopped, she was muslim gone wild but became more islamic, despite her change i couldnt get over the fact and dashed her

[Guest chap44uns]

its mad u know cos the one girl i thought could be my soul mate turned out to be an escort,

 

fuckin ell

[dom dom bullets]

ah so you still gave it a go after finding out? props for trying, personally I don't think I could. How did you find out? What was she pretending to be doing workwise?

[Benicio del Toney]

 

its mad u know cos the one girl i thought could be my soul mate turned out to be an escort, an as u can imagine its something i couldnt get past, even though i know she had issues that made her go down that route i could no longer respect her and i didnt wanna touch her, id cuss her on a daily basis even when she changed and became islamic, in the end i dashed her but all the girls i have met since none have the same connection. A shame really but it is what it is, im not in no rush for wifey these things usually happen when u least expect it.

 

So you found out she was an escort, stayed seeing her, she converted, then you decided nah?

 

i was seeing her, i clocked she was an escort, she stopped, she was muslim gone wild but became more islamic, despite her change i couldnt get over the fact and dashed her

 

That's real bad luck, wouldn't wish that on anybody.

 

Some man woulda carried on because some men can take that but I feel you, cos I don't think I could.

[Esquilax]

testament to ur character that u gave it a go after discovering, cant imagine that was easy to hear

 

@toney yeah like dave said, i didnt mean just sit back and wait for the pum to roll in, more that if you're anxious to find a mate then your panicked state wont be conducive for the relationship to blossom properly 

 

it's not a race like

[JOHN DOE]

man continued to deal with a ting that was escorting while she was dealing with him 

 

if its a 'testament to his character' than its defo a negative one still

 

escort is just a nicer way of calling her a prostitute

 

she was a prozzie 

 

just be happy u didnt have any kids with her

[O Fenomeno]

[dom dom bullets]

man continued to deal with a ting that was escorting while she was dealing with him 

 

if its a 'testament to his character' than its defo a negative one still

 

escort is just a nicer way of calling her a prostitute

 

she was a prozzie 

 

just be happy she didn't put clippers to barnet

[JOHN DOE]

ahh ffs this guy wont let me live 

 

dominic can i live?

[time_bomb]

na it werent really a giving it a go thing at all, i left, she was obviously still contacting me and showing me she changed and turned her life around, i would just cuss her whenever she contacted me but deep down it upset me cos i knew she was a nice person and we got on well, its not nice to see someone u actually like breaking down and crying all the time but i knew being who i am i could never accept it and there was no future.

 

What im saying is now im meeting other girls, some real decent girls who would make good wives, but i dont feel the same connection. Like i said it is what it is just gotto keep it moving.

[JOHN DOE]

sad thing is that prozzie experience for you has prob fucked u up big time 

 

if u never trusted a girl before - u defo aint trusting them now