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Pre-nups can work in this country, just lawyers find loopholes.

If you are going to go that route. My suggestions would be...

Get a lawyer to draw it up.

Show your wife.

Tell her to take it to a lawyer herself, not your lawyer either. Infact probably best that its a firm better than your firm and specialist in pre-nups. Problem is a lawyer with a brain will tell her not to sign it... and its majorly unromantic process.

Make sure she's had that meeting, then have your lawyer get her to sign it, and countersign that she has had independent sound advice and understand fully.

Should you divorce it will be then be very difficult for her lawyer to argue she didnt know what she was signing... and again don't mix your money ever. Don't let her pay anything for that home.

If you later have kids, well sh*t gets tougher as they have entitlements for 18 years and the mother like it or not is there real guardian, so she'll ride that train.

I will follow this action to the letter

I need to protect my assets

 

Good idea. Written by a legal expert and all

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Pre-nups can work in this country, just lawyers find loopholes.

If you are going to go that route. My suggestions would be...

Get a lawyer to draw it up.

Show your wife.

Tell her to take it to a lawyer herself, not your lawyer either. Infact probably best that its a firm better than your firm and specialist in pre-nups. Problem is a lawyer with a brain will tell her not to sign it... and its majorly unromantic process.

Make sure she's had that meeting, then have your lawyer get her to sign it, and countersign that she has had independent sound advice and understand fully.

Should you divorce it will be then be very difficult for her lawyer to argue she didnt know what she was signing... and again don't mix your money ever. Don't let her pay anything for that home.

If you later have kids, well sh*t gets tougher as they have entitlements for 18 years and the mother like it or not is there real guardian, so she'll ride that train.

I will follow this action to the letter

I need to protect my assets

 

Good idea. Written by a legal expert and all

 

When did you need to be a expert to give advice, as you can quite clearly see he'll pay for all the legal advice he'll need.

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In a real household the woman handles the bills anyway, its up to you how you let her have that money but I think that delegating that to the wife is necessary, aint got no time fo that

 

 

I know a guy that has this same attitude, he also asks his wife for money everyday to go work smfh, and she questions him on it. You might think thats fine, but she doesnt work and she spends all day using his money...

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Yeah porchy is dreaming, there is nothing realistic there espesh in these times when catholics and muslims get divorced like its nothing...

Tf is more sitting pretty right now but can get very sticky in later life as you never know about future laws etc...

If you don't plan on having kids and getting married you best be prepared to change woman every decade

Personally I couldn't have my woman sitting at home all day spending my money whilst I'm out earning a buck but neither could I allow my wife to earn more pz then me and if she is the mother of my children she can't be working 40 hours.

Shits hard to get right, that's why so many man lose there mind.

Unless my tings a multi millionaire then ill be a HAB no problem

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Pre-nups can work in this country, just lawyers find loopholes.

If you are going to go that route. My suggestions would be...

Get a lawyer to draw it up.

Show your wife.

Tell her to take it to a lawyer herself, not your lawyer either. Infact probably best that its a firm better than your firm and specialist in pre-nups. Problem is a lawyer with a brain will tell her not to sign it... and its majorly unromantic process.

Make sure she's had that meeting, then have your lawyer get her to sign it, and countersign that she has had independent sound advice and understand fully.

Should you divorce it will be then be very difficult for her lawyer to argue she didnt know what she was signing... and again don't mix your money ever. Don't let her pay anything for that home.

If you later have kids, well sh*t gets tougher as they have entitlements for 18 years and the mother like it or not is there real guardian, so she'll ride that train.

I will follow this action to the letter

I need to protect my assets

 

Good idea. Written by a legal expert and all

 

When did you need to be a expert to give advice, as you can quite clearly see he'll pay for all the legal advice he'll need.

 

Point I'm trying to make pal is unless I'm mistaken I don't think you're the best person to ask for advice when talking about pre-nups. I could be wrong though

 

What women doesn't want to get married? Really. This is like their pinnacle in life. Are you gonna tell us you know a few of those too?

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@TF I didn't say all the money, just the bills, if she needs more she asks me? Joint account no, joint savings account yes

Tbh u lot are talking about european and modernised she bitch women so, your kind of fucking yourselves by even dealing with that and wanting to stay macho

I got myself a woman that will be dedicated to me fo life, don't want a woman that works so picked myself one that is happy not to but is also enterprising so when I open a shop etc I can plonk her in there instead of hiring someone

U lot are marrying for the wrong rreasons, love, what's love? Some fical fancy that can sway any time.

The reeason I'm marrying is for necessity, I need a women to look after my place,food, bills, birth my children

She is also marrying for necessity, she needs a man that will look after her and give her a home and a family, quite possibly even improve the living conditions of the rrest of her family

The fact I really enjoy her company, love her sex and basically find her a very good subservient women is all a benefit

Keep it real

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Point I'm trying to make pal is unless I'm mistaken I don't think you're the best person to ask for advice when talking about pre-nups. I could be wrong though

 

What women doesn't want to get married? Really. This is like their pinnacle in life. Are you gonna tell us you know a few of those too?

 

Nobody has to take anyone advice, but they can use it as a point of direction, I think you know this but your just being a pedantic yute.

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That is so long , just don't get married

 

Exactly.

This is the best way it seems tbh.

 

But i swear the womans family would not rate you one bit if you did that, im talking about if she comes from a decent home

 

Yeah and then I'd start making comments like - Father of the bride pays out here... They would soon jam.

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That is so long , just don't get married

 

Exactly.

This is the best way it seems tbh.

 

But i swear the womans family would not rate you one bit if you did that, im talking about if she comes from a decent home

 

Nothing even the woman's family, the woman herself

 

Think you'll struggle to find a woman in a serious relationship who won't want to be married at some point

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Woman want security.

 

They connect marriage with security.

 

If a woman can be led to believe she has that same security with or without marriage they won't care, lol its just a piece of paper fam.

 

Other than that, the only problem you really have is them not having the same surname as there kids...

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lol at bein with a bird that's gona try and take ur money when u finish with her

 

Even if she ain't that type of bird all it takes is a suggestion by a lawyer to what she is entitled to, a remark by a friend then you have a problem on your hands.

 

That's a gravy train that only an incredibly successful woman is definitely not boarding.

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Woman want security.

 

They connect marriage with security.

 

If a woman can be led to believe she has that same security with or without marriage they won't care, lol its just a piece of paper fam.

 

Other than that, the only problem you really have is them not having the same surname as there kids...

 

Real talk.

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@TF I didn't say all the money, just the bills, if she needs more she asks me? Joint account no, joint savings account yes

Tbh u lot are talking about european and modernised she bitch women so, your kind of f*cking yourselves by even dealing with that and wanting to stay macho

I got myself a woman that will be dedicated to me fo life, don't want a woman that works so picked myself one that is happy not to but is also enterprising so when I open a shop etc I can plonk her in there instead of hiring someone

U lot are marrying for the wrong rreasons, love, what's love? Some fical fancy that can sway any time.

The reeason I'm marrying is for necessity, I need a women to look after my place,food, bills, birth my children

She is also marrying for necessity, she needs a man that will look after her and give her a home and a family, quite possibly even improve the living conditions of the rrest of her family

The fact I really enjoy her company, love her sex and basically find her a very good subservient women is all a benefit

Keep it real

 

BASICALLY

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Woman want security.

 

They connect marriage with security.

 

If a woman can be led to believe she has that same security with or without marriage they won't care, lol its just a piece of paper fam.

 

Other than that, the only problem you really have is them not having the same surname as there kids...

 

Tell me you don't really believe this?

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@TF I didn't say all the money, just the bills, if she needs more she asks me? Joint account no, joint savings account yes

Tbh u lot are talking about european and modernised she bitch women so, your kind of f*cking yourselves by even dealing with that and wanting to stay macho

I got myself a woman that will be dedicated to me fo life, don't want a woman that works so picked myself one that is happy not to but is also enterprising so when I open a shop etc I can plonk her in there instead of hiring someone

U lot are marrying for the wrong rreasons, love, what's love? Some fical fancy that can sway any time.

The reeason I'm marrying is for necessity, I need a women to look after my place,food, bills, birth my children

She is also marrying for necessity, she needs a man that will look after her and give her a home and a family, quite possibly even improve the living conditions of the rrest of her family

The fact I really enjoy her company, love her sex and basically find her a very good subservient women is all a benefit

Keep it real

 

 

In a real household the woman handles the bills anyway, its up to you how you let her have that money but I think that delegating that to the wife is necessary, aint got no time fo that

Also I would like to state that I have renounced satan and am importing a colombian to marry, just need to wait for her to turn 18

 

lol

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