Girl wants to abort, guy doesn't- what now?

[Lens]

however You put it, the guy wants a child and the woman is killing it in this scenario

 

I am not involved, even slightly. it is over.

 

The joke is I got resentment from the girl for "not supporting" her.

 

Had her fam phoning me calling me a bastard for "making her go through that alone".

[Lens]

I think a couple should always be aware of what they would do in the event of a pregnancy.

 

And if the girl would abort, she should prevent the pregnancy from happening (guys will get mad at an abortion, but not at their girl for being on the pill)

[Benicio del Toney]

Personally I dont think anybody, male or female, can 100% say they are READY for kids.

 

True.

 

But you can look around and see people who were definitely not ready for kids.

[TF S4DK]

Yes this is true.

[time_bomb]

Yes over.

[O Fenomeno]

Truss

[Heero Yuy]

In reality guys are forced into that journey daily, might aswell change the word nobody to no woman. 

 

That's why i said (where possible)

 

If you're having unprotected with random chicks for example and one of them ends up pregnant and keeping it then you already forfeited your choice with your actions.

[Davicious X]

Every woman I've been with long term has wanted to drop a yute, so its hard to imagine a woman not wanting to do that for me.

 

However if I were adamant about keeping the child and the woman was truly against it I'd want to understand why, especially if I believe that I can handle all the responsibilities that come with it. Only after understanding her reasons for not wanting a child/your child should you be making a decision about staying with her.

 

If she's talking about "Not right now" then I feel abortion can be gotten past fairly easily depending on your demeanour. But if she's talking about "I don't want YOUR child." then its clearly time to bounce.

 

 

Opening post didn't have this information so the scenario is something pointless to comment on without said information.

[Bruno Di Gradi]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zoaCCUha9fY

[Guest TRAGEDY]

Abortion is a no-no IMO

She should of practiced safe sex if she wasn't ready to have a baby

That's a life

its murder

[Yoshie]

Can say there's a 95% chance I wouldn't keep it if she fell pregnant now.

[Benicio del Toney]

Unfortunately the guy doesn't have much say in the matter either way.

[JOHN DOE]

sadly enough

[Lens]

that's why I have zero sympathy for mothers who get left alone with a child