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New single & video - Tru Trilla "End the Day" ft Ruste Juxx & Julius Luciano of Shoe Gang
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C/s being self critical
A lot of people can't take criticsm at all, get defensive and try personally attack you in retaliation when you're just being constructive.
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ag.
i think criticism hurts the most when u recognise in yourself what's being thrown at you. by the sounds of it tho, the guys u, (flojo), were dealing with, don't even seem to have the emotional maturity to reflect in that way, and seem more like the type to respond to any criticism, even if constructive, with blanket defensiveness
i agree with u toney about being disillusioned by the people dem we're surrounded by. i'm good at taking criticism in a professional environment and will do the required shit like nod at the right time, say the right buzzwords etc, altho working in a call centre last year on my gap year, (hated the place), this woman supervisor pulls me up on a wknd for pulling out my phone to tell my sister i couldnt talk, which she accepted she heard me say. i flip and start going off about how literally everyone has their phones out on weekday shifts when no1 rule is keep em away for data protection shit. she knew i was in the right but got my own team leader to warn me about speaking out of line or some shit...rather than accept that its unfair to have one rule for di office top dowgz n another for yung buckz, she tries to reassert authority by drawing for someone that has authority over me, who she has authority over
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Dicree tee see zem
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ag.
u tekin dee michael mate
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Flojo
This is me right now, I genuinely cannot believe the way some people have responded to fair and reasoned opinions on what they could do better.
I've been self employed for a long time so I'm naturally very self critical, there isn't an opportunity for me to pass the buck to anyone so when shit hits the fan what I did tends to be the be all end all. I forgot how much I hated working in a group environment due to the number of people that need their ego stroking, certain situations dictate that there isn't time for that shit.
This is what's become very clear, there are a number of valuable people that have already left the project because they felt that their views and concerns weren't being taken seriously. I knew this when I got on board but my thinking was that the way in which it happened would have maybe made people take stock and reflect a little, I was wrong in a massive way. It's sad to see opportunity after opportunity squandered through for the sake of inflated egos.
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Flojo
How do you find this impacts your performance as a sportsman?
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time_bomb
My personally, i think it has a negative affect, ill start over thinking and trying to hard.
Its something u do have to accept though, from the coach, team mates, people who pay to watch. Like i said i hate it even though i know theyre usually right.
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Flat Eric
yh stop being a bitch about it
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YFSD
I will take criticism from those who are authority or higher than me
Anyone else it gets the straight discard
Basically if I don't rate you then lol
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Wavant
I love it
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PopT
Depends who its coming from
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Simply D
think its all about delivery tbh
you could be told the same thing by two different people, but the way its broached discussed can have a completely different outcome on your mindset
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Lens
I like criticism if an area for improvement is offered, or if the criticism is detailed so I know exactly what it is that is being criticised.
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Illusion
It's mad when even your close friends and family can't take friendly advice. You literally have no agenda but love for these people and they just have to know better.
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Guest Chelsea Jack
the truth hurts more time
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