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The Red Flags

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What are the red flags you look out for in the screening process

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2 phones

Frequent social media

typing in any form of slang

"Last seen" errday past 4am

A "dancer" , make up artist, Di beautisharn

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Single parent household/missing father.

 

Uncouth mannerisms.

 

"Girls are bitches, I prefer talking to boys".

 

Popular on social media for nothing.

 

"Can you speak African?"

 

Returns message on another messaging platform.

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2 phones

Frequent social media

typing in any form of slang

"Last seen" errday past 4am

A "dancer" , make up artist, Di beautisharn

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Popular on social media for nothing.

 

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Single parent household/missing father.

 

Uncouth mannerisms.

 

"Girls are bitches, I prefer talking to boys".

 

Popular on social media for nothing.

 

"Can you speak African?"

 

Returns message on another messaging platform.

 

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Single parent household/missing father.

 

Uncouth mannerisms.

 

"Girls are bitches, I prefer talking to boys".

 

Popular on social media for nothing.

 

"Can you speak African?"

 

Returns message on another messaging platform.

especially if u got an african mum. never been taking some chick that sounds like vybz kartel to meet my momzz

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'I don't do boyfriends'

When you tell her where your from and she starts saying 'do you know...*about 50 guys names here*' ?

Last man/current man is in prison

Asks if your a drug dealer expectently

Unemployed

Or

Full time mother and out raving on a weekday

Has password on her phone

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Good topic

 

- Using her phone around you a lot, but on top of that, trying to position her phone out of view from you

- Not being in a long-term relationship before

- Followers on social media

- Does she/how she responds to compliments on social media

- Does she air her business/bad moods on social media

- If she seems over materialistic 

- Slang

- Amount of male friends, especially if more than 0

- Her views on morality/life

- If she is a big drinker/smoker/raver, moderation is fine with me, but all that ''turn down for what'', out every week and twice a week and too drunk, no thankyou

 

Loads more subtle things tbh, but its stuff you just discover after a few months of talking seeing each other naturally mostly

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"Can you speak African?"

 

 

:lmao: :lmao:

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Loads more subtle things tbh, but its stuff you just discover after a few months of talking seeing each other naturally mostly

 

its the subtle shit that gets me more than the obvious flags

 

from selfishness to not listening to instructions

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Loud

"I prefer males, they're less bitchy"

Raves often

Needy

Heavy on social media

Craves attention

High maintenance red bottom and LV handbag tings

Can't/won't/don't cook

Anything other than immaculate hygiene

Unkept nails

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Loads more subtle things tbh, but its stuff you just discover after a few months of talking seeing each other naturally mostly

its the subtle sh*t that gets me more than the obvious flags

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Fan of Celebrity Relationships

Can't Cook

Lack of acknowledgement towards Africa

Raves

Mutiple babyfathers

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Circle of friends. Single mums.

 

but yeah most of what MBD said

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i mean if u are linking a girl and she has a password on her fone isnt that ok...?

 

(need to see what this girls password is tbh... saw a tex on her main screen from a 'Si' ...) wonder who this Si guy is... his/her response was 'xxx'

 

but trusay the girl has no twitter/instagram and all that just facebook / from what i can see doesnt really go out that much tbh

 

BUT YOU NEVER KNOW... YOU JUST NEVER KNOW

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lol password doesnt mean anything

 

Ice is trolling as usual 

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Fan of Celebrity Relationships

Can't Cook

Lack of acknowledgement towards Africa

Raves

Mutiple babyfathers

So would you get with a chick who already has 1 child from a previous if she met the rest of the criteria porchy?

Genuine question.

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Cant wife a girl with a youth. 

Could beat but that ends there.

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Fan of Celebrity Relationships

Can't Cook

Lack of acknowledgement towards Africa

Raves

Mutiple babyfathers

So would you get with a chick who already has 1 child from a previous if she met the rest of the criteria porchy?

Genuine question.

 

 

Actually my bad, I read porchy's post wrong, no need to answer.

 

 

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Question was valid, what if it was one baby father..?

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