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Is putting on too much weight unacceptable in a relationship?

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So this chick I know got dumped by her man because she piled on a lot of weight. All her female friends rallied round talking about she looks good. 8-)  (why do chicks lie to each other?)  When in reality she looked frankly disgusting. She had hovered around size 14 before expanding out to the size of a blimp. I'm surprised her man stuck around as long as he did.

 

It happens a lot when a couple is past the first stage of their relationship and they get comfortable with each other. I introduced my missus to certain foods when we first got together that did us both no good, late night chicken and pizza. Luckily we ditched that crap and both eat a hell of a lot healthier now.

 

So in relationship terms is piling on the pounds mostly through eating acceptable? I know men can get away with looking sloppy and it is a double standard. But a sloppy looking woman just looks nasty.

 

 

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If I go gym then she gotta go gym too

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not even a question 

 

hell no

 

could be even taken as a sign she doesn't rate you to switch her

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If I go gym then she gotta go gym too

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Would tell her to hit that treadmill no qualms 

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Would tell her to hit that treadmill no qualms 

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do you say qualms on road yoshiee

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I tell females quite openly, not maintaining your appearance to the extent you did when you were looking for a man is fraud.

 

This ain't Maccy D's, I expect the burger in the box to look like the picture on the advert.

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do you say qualms on road yoshiee

 

I do.

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Got a colleague who doesnt like having sex with her partner because of her weight. Shes prob a size 20/22 and hes quite a gaunt/skinny looking guy. She seems to think a gastric band will be the answer to her problems smh. 

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I make it very clear from the start I see weight gain as letting go and won't accept it. I would very much break up over it.

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could be even taken as a sign she doesn't rate you to switch her

 

C/s

 

If you don't want to look good for your partner you don't rate them

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C/S

My girl is 5 day a week gym goer so no problem herre but yeah, some of these girls drop the majiin buu transformations in reverse after 6/7 months in.

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C/S

My girl is 5 day a week gym goer so no problem here but yeah, some of these girls drop the majiin buu transformations in reverse after 6/7 months in.

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We be gymming in tandem yo

The ass to waistline ratio is crazy

I'm a happy man :)

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what would you man do in the situation your bm never lost her pregnancy weights

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Leave that bitch and the yout

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what would you man do in the situation your bm never lost her pregnancy weights

Tbh, Some girls can carry the mummy weight well.

But if it's constant weight gain and she is making no effort to keep it under control, I dunno how long I would be chilling for.

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what would you man do in the situation your bm never lost her pregnancy weights

My wife is losing hers

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Guys like to feed up a woman too look fat so no-one will look at her

 

subconsiously u all do it, buy her chocolates, take her for meals etc when i was in a relationship my ex used to feed me up we wud

constantly be eating but put loads of weight on because of her

 

like any woman wud purposly put on weight, its ur fault for feeding her up

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what would you man do in the situation your bm never lost her pregnancy weights

My wife is losing hers

You have a wife and kid??

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Baby weight is the hardest to lose and the most unpedictable. Seen size 8 chicks rocket to size 12 post motherhood. It aint ordinary bruh

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