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Now this has always been on my mind so lets get cracking...

1) how many of you (state your race) who live at home give your parents monthly rent/keep/support?

I understand family is important obviously but when parents say you have to give me/us money to stay here it just makes me think... (you had us so why are we paying fpr that?)

My mum said she knows a lot of parents in good joswhere their children give them money (somehow i dont believe that).. If parents have a good job, why would they ask their kids for money?

Tbh i never known any of my white boys to do this... I dont even think asians do this just blacks???

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lool i swear  from my experience its only white people that do this

certain white guys i know been paying board since like age 16/17 when they first got jobs

 

can never imagine coming to my mums house n her being like 'oh you need to pay me money to live here'  :/

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Thats where im trying to come from... Like how can you say that to your children. Yeah i can buy shopping etc but giving 3/4bills when you are still in the same roof as me is a bit...

Mums be like 'youll be paying a landlord rent so why cant youpay here?'

Because ill have my own space.

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Standard tbh

Cant be working and not breaking bread with ur family. Selfish attitude what do you think all them utilities and toiletries are cheap

Them ppl will only understand their parents hardships when they move out and body lotion,toilet paper and toothpaste finish simultaneously when mum used to just replace them with no qualms

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Only know black people that do this tbh

Never known a white or Asian family to do it

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Not talking about hand outs every month for utilities, talking full rent money, half of earnings type rent if not you are out the house

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Niggas want a grand plus in the bank every month from work but cant fling mumzie 3-4 bill

Its annoying but standard procedure

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And that's why Asians find it easier getting into the property ladder

Realistically how are you ever supposed to get a deposit together when you are paying all that rent a month to just live at home

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Think its cross racial tbh

Examples of both white and black counter parts suffering from this dilemma

My mum used to pissed me off. Used to open my pay slips and shit :lol:

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brruv im in this situation now i pay 150-200 a month.

 

apart of me is thinking why am i doing this....then i realize my mum is terrible with money

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My mum used to pissed me off. Used to open my pay slips and sh*t :lol:

 

this is my mum!!!

 

pay slips and bank statements, only way i found out was because my little sis told me 

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My mum used to pissed me off. Used to open my pay slips and sh*t :lol:

this is my mum!!!

pay slips and bank statements, only way i found out was because my little sis told me

Fam its the worst :lol:

niggas was asleep on my bunk bed

Shes all asking me questions about my bank card and sums shes looking to withdraw :rofl:

Im like yeah yeah take it

Wake up go to westfield to buy some bits i check my bank slip after and i got one measly sum remaining :lol:

Never been so vex in my life. The deception was a lot to absorb

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My mum used to pissed me off. Used to open my pay slips and sh*t :lol:

this is my mum!!!

pay slips and bank statements, only way i found out was because my little sis told me

Fam its the worst :lol:

niggas was asleep on my bunk bed

Shes all asking me questions about my bank card and sums shes looking to withdraw :rofl:

Im like yeah yeah take it

Wake up go to westfield to buy some bits i check my bank slip after and i got one measly sum remaining :lol:

Never been so vex in my life. The deception was a lot to absorb

 

brrrrrruuvvvvvvv

 

 

the worst is when shes asking when and how much u getting paid to analyze how much she should get 

 

got to the point i snapped, that what lead me to start paying 150-200 a month after i give her that, leave me alone!!!

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My mum used to pissed me off. Used to open my pay slips and sh*t :lol:

this is my mum!!!

pay slips and bank statements, only way i found out was because my little sis told me

Fam its the worst :lol:

niggas was asleep on my bunk bed

Shes all asking me questions about my bank card and sums shes looking to withdraw :rofl:

Im like yeah yeah take it

Wake up go to westfield to buy some bits i check my bank slip after and i got one measly sum remaining :lol:

Never been so vex in my life. The deception was a lot to absorb

brrrrrruuvvvvvvv

the worst is when shes asking when and how much u getting paid to analyze how much she should get

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cuz :rofl:

We might have the same mum

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I remember this situation mumzie was onto we when it was pay time

 

she used to clock to see if went out shopping and the wage slips

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Mumzie in the mini van bumping this on payday

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I wonder what mumzie spent the pees on???

 

thats my grievance

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how can you be 18 + in a full time job and not willing to give some of your earnings to the people that raised you 

 

unless your parents are balling then there should be no issues with giving some of your pay to your parents 

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My mum used to pissed me off. Used to open my pay slips and sh*t :lol:

this is my mum!!!

pay slips and bank statements, only way i found out was because my little sis told me

Fam its the worst :lol:

niggas was asleep on my bunk bed

Shes all asking me questions about my bank card and sums shes looking to withdraw :rofl:

Im like yeah yeah take it

Wake up go to westfield to buy some bits i check my bank slip after and i got one measly sum remaining :lol:

Never been so vex in my life. The deception was a lot to absorb

brrrrrruuvvvvvvv

the worst is when shes asking when and how much u getting paid to analyze how much she should get

!

cuz :rofl:

We might have the same mum

 

u no were gonna end up having money issues when we have kid's right

 

 

either end up being a tight c*nt, thinking everyone got a hidden agenda with your money 

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Mumzie in the mini van bumping this on payday

:rofl:

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I'm not talking about guys who pay 1/2 bills a month I'm talking about the parents that take 5/6bills

Could never do that to my child when me and my wife and bringing in very comfortable money, would only do it as a way of saving it for them

The world is hard enough as it is, why make it even harder for them to catch up when you don't even need to

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My mum used to pissed me off. Used to open my pay slips and sh*t :lol:

this is my mum!!!

pay slips and bank statements, only way i found out was because my little sis told me

Fam its the worst :lol:

niggas was asleep on my bunk bed

Shes all asking me questions about my bank card and sums shes looking to withdraw :rofl:

Im like yeah yeah take it

Wake up go to westfield to buy some bits i check my bank slip after and i got one measly sum remaining :lol:

Never been so vex in my life. The deception was a lot to absorb

brrrrrruuvvvvvvv

the worst is when shes asking when and how much u getting paid to analyze how much she should get

!

cuz :rofl:

We might have the same mum

u no were gonna end up having money issues when we have kid's right

either end up being a tight c*nt, thinking everyone got a hidden agenda with your money

100%

Deffo planted the seed of stingyness in me

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I think if you are an adult earning then you should make some form of contribution

I had to switch on donny last time I was livin there tho. 2 weeks after i landed a TEMP job she Talkin about I must pay ex amount of hundreds to sleep on the sofa. Eff that particularly when she knows im trying to save up to move out ASAP an if I gave the money she was trying to demand that would have been impossible. Shes then sayin im selfish an happy to go an pay rent to a stranger. Yh donny but not to sleep im someone's living room with 0 privacy

Its not to say I didn't contribute either. I regularly bought food an cooked for everyone. I even bought a tv

Joke ting

I had to hide when I was looking for a place until I actually found it cos she would act like I'm the worst offspring for it

SelFish. She has this weird attachment thing with me an I dnt like it

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I've actually known parents that have told their children that rent is due, the difference is that while the parent is taking the money, they are actually saving it for their children without them knowing, so when the children get to a more responsible age there is a nice lump sum for them to utilise for a house or a car or something sensible like that.

 

I should be in position to do this for my children in the next 18 months if things continue along the current trajectory.

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I'm not talking about guys who pay 1/2 bills a month I'm talking about the parents that take 5/6bills

Could never do that to my child when me and my wife and bringing in very comfortable money, would only do it as a way of saving it for them

The world is hard enough as it is, why make it even harder for them to catch up when you don't even need to

bloody hell who does this 

 

you sure your are not exaggerating 

 

imo 250 is the max a parent should ask from thier  child

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I think if you are an adult earning then you should make some form of contribution

I had to switch on donny last time I was livin there tho. 2 weeks after i landed a TEMP job she Talkin about I must pay ex amount of hundreds to sleep on the sofa. Eff that particularly when she knows im trying to save up to move out ASAP an if I gave the money she was trying to demand that would have been impossible. Shes then sayin im selfish an happy to go an pay rent to a stranger. Yh donny but not to sleep im someone's living room with 0 privacy

Its not to say I didn't contribute either. I regularly bought food an cooked for everyone. I even bought a tv

Joke ting

I had to hide when I was looking for a place until I actually found it cos she would act like I'm the worst offspring for it

SelFish. She has this weird attachment thing with me an I dnt like it

you are the son she never thought she had...

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