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so my boy invites me to a whatsapp chat with him and his girl so I can be introduced

 

I chat to them, then he says he's going bed

 

I type "cool, I'm gonna come out the chat, not about being alone in a chat with Your girl"

 

somehow this message is being seen as disrespectful, anyone able to explain how?

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slightly related, slightly not, but I didn't wana make a topic

 

so my boy invites me to a whatsapp chat with him and his girl so I can be introduced

 

I chat to them, then he says he's going bed

 

I type "cool, I'm gonna come out the chat, not about being alone in a chat with Your girl"

 

somehow this message is being seen as disrespectful, anyone able to explain how?

 

That is a weird fucking situation.

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Its not but you should of exited without saying a word

Your his friend not hers so you have no business talking to her when he isn't around apart from a quick hi and bye.

which was why the need to exit as soon as he did, and I'm sure an exit with no words would have led to "why did You leave our convo?"

The fact that u said you shouldn't be alone with her implies you can't be trusted tbh.

You sure your mate wasnt trying to prep a threesome?

no, it shows I'm making sure I don't get accused. if I'm not in the convo, I can't chat to her

 

would rather that, than "my girl said You 2 carried on talkin last night"

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  • 5 months later...

Bedrins ex keeps calling me and texting why im not answering her calls for

Last time i see her i ended up in a scrap

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Why does she have your number?

:/

What's wrong with that?

It happens

This one of main reasons why

I wouldn't like my cousins girl text nonsense to my phone let alone an ex

We don't have any business having each other's numbers

Only talk to a couple and only small WhatsApp talk because of knowing each other before

Have five of my boy's misses numbers

Rest just sit in my phone from random occasions

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Why does she have your number?

:/

What's wrong with that?

It happens

This one of main reasons why

I wouldn't like my cousins girl text nonsense to my phone let alone an ex

We don't have any business having each other's numbers

Only talk to a couple and only small WhatsApp talk because of knowing each other before

Have five of my boy's misses numbers

Rest just sit in my phone from random occasions

I don't know

I keep it everything face to face

For example we only speak at gatherings plus I am not that guy they can turn to if they are having relationship problems plus what are we going to talk about?

They can't give me advice

Wouldn't want to find myself in the same position Lens found himself in

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