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Moving On/Breaking Up

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What do you guys do?

 

How do you initiate/tackle this?

 

im saying this as someone who has never REALLY had a relationship...

 

and im looking at all my friends who ARE in relationships and who have had MULTIPLE relationships over the years...

 

I just wondered how do you lot lock it off etc? What do you say?

 

 

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Something I struggle with.. Not even in an attachment way, I'm just naturally possessive (could say jealous in that regard), if i stop linking a girl because I don't like her anymore then I see her linking someone else it bothers me

I get past it by completely cutting people off if I don't fux with them anymore, no friendships

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Something I struggle with.. Not even in an attachment way, I'm just naturally possessive (could say jealous in that regard), if i stop linking a girl because I don't like her anymore then I see her linking someone else it bothers me

I get past it by completely cutting people off if I don't fux with them anymore, no friendships

 

 

B B B B BRAAAAAAV

 

THAT IS EXACTLY IT lol.. im def selfish

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Something I struggle with.. Not even in an attachment way, I'm just naturally possessive (could say jealous in that regard), if i stop linking a girl because I don't like her anymore then I see her linking someone else it bothers me

I get past it by completely cutting people off if I don't fux with them anymore, no friendships

B B B B BRAAAAAAV

THAT IS EXACTLY IT lol.. im def selfish

Could be seen as insecure.

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Better yourself.

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Pretty much ghost them from my life, don't talk, see them, no social media connection, delete their number, remove photos etc.

Keep myself busy, gym, work, friends, even something as small as getting into a new TV/Box set series.

All about staying determined, keeping your mind occupied with other things.

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so i recently had a brief but very intense relationship 

 

now its over i have deleted their existence

 

I've started playing golf

 

I'm concentrating on gym and work

 

excelling in other domains

 

delete tinder and delete women from your life for a good 2-3 months before you consider dipping you toes back in the water

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Multiply thy fands

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It's only hard when the box is lit

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Something I struggle with.. Not even in an attachment way, I'm just naturally possessive (could say jealous in that regard), if i stop linking a girl because I don't like her anymore then I see her linking someone else it bothers me

I get past it by completely cutting people off if I don't fux with them anymore, no friendships

B B B B BRAAAAAAV

THAT IS EXACTLY IT lol.. im def selfish

Could be seen as insecure.
Don't think it's insecurity as I'm a very confident person but im definitely far more emotional than your average male..with anger I can switch on someone very quick.. With sadness, certain slowjams/films hit me more than they would someone else.

As for breaking up and moving on the best thing for me was always the gym, the kinda sessions I was having the first 5 months after my break up was nuts.. Could zone out and runs for miles up on top of miles ..

Worst thing IMO is getting straight back out there with other girls, that's when the compassions from your old girl happen and if you're still feeling her then the new girls will never be up to par regardless of appearance..

Need that time alone to clear your head and move forward in positive ways, surround yourself with friends and family, stay active

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Are you man talking about cancelling a bitch or getting your contract terminated?

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Better yourself.

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Are you man talking about cancelling a bitch or getting your contract terminated?

:rofl: big difference
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Pretty much ghost them from my life, don't talk, see them, no social media connection, delete their number, remove photos etc.

Keep myself busy, gym, work, friends, even something as small as getting into a new TV/Box set series.

All about staying determined, keeping your mind occupied with other things.

 

that is definitely important

 

when you are constantly thinking of someone... but you dont WANT THAT kinda relationship - need to be busy etc

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Are you man talking about cancelling a bitch or getting your contract terminated?

You can be the 1 to walk away and still be pissed that it's over..

It's not always black and white like that

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Are you man talking about cancelling a bitch or getting your contract terminated?

I get computers puting, i don't get puted

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Yo Afgoon where are you playing golf, still near Harrow way?

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Multiply thy fands

stop this

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Yo Afgoon where are you playing golf, still near Harrow way?

I'm down for a round, Horsenden Hill, 9 holes, let's go

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Yo Afgoon where are you playing golf, still near Harrow way?

 

occasionally

 

sometimes the golf course on the hill or stanmore

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Yo Afgoon where are you playing golf, still near Harrow way?

I'm down for a round, Horsenden Hill, 9 holes, let's go

top golf ting

Anytime

I'm the goat

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Bit different wacking balls at Top Golf and actually playing a few rounds.

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Apparently tiger woods learnt all he knows at tops golf watford

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:lol:  :lol:  :lol:

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Dealing with this now.

 

I'm doing the whole 'focus' on myself ting but the real challenge is, should I still be seeing next chicks or go solo for a minute.

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