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PascalMoriarty

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She said she was on the pill. Now, She's pregnant.

I told her its not the right time. She agreed.

Three days later - "I know this isn't what you want to hear but i don't think i can get rid of it"

Someone, anyone, tell me that I'm more than entitled to feel ginalsed here.

To top it off - I talk her round to seeing sense and receive this response.

"One of us kinda wants this baby and one of us doesn't. I'm not an idiot, I can't force you to have a baby you don't want to have. So I'll do what you want and get over it"

I was the victim, now I'm that guy who's trying to get her to abort. Am i a c*nt, or is she mentally deficient? 

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White ting?

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prob need to apply some positive pressure and massage her sense of entitlement

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Happened to my boy end of last year 

 

Talking didn't work, threats neither. Wasn't willing to go through with violence 

 

Due to be a father in the next couple of months 

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10 minutes ago, Drift said:

White ting?

Black!

2 minutes ago, Zizouz said:

prob need to apply some positive pressure and massage her sense of entitlement

I'm fuming that she's put me in this position tbh.

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Put it on her that if she wants you 2 to work that now isn't the right time but you can look at it again in a few months.

 

Then once she agrees to abort run for the hills.

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She career orientated or ends? 

 

Former you can spin stunting career opportunities, travelling, working abroad for a bit, can't save for a house in London etc. Stats on women who have children young in work etc. Latter, congratulations on becoming a father 

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if it's your girl make her see this fetus kills the amazing life you guys would have together, cause the time aint right

if it aint, make her see that this fetus kills her chance of finding the 'Mr. Right' she deserves as well as missing out on having that dream nuclear-family setup

either way gotta sell her the dream

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On 6/13/2016 at 5:06 PM, Zizouz said:

if it's your girl make her see this fetus kills the amazing life you guys would have together, cause the time aint right

if it aint, make her see that this fetus kills her chance of finding the 'Mr. Right' she deserves as well as missing out on having that dream nuclear-family setup

either way gotta sell her the dream

:rofl: duno why but :lmao: 

 

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She's career orientated and thats why this has become more of a shock. The hormone imbalance is fucking with her ability to reason, of this i am sure. As it stands she said she's going to abort, she has the appointment on thursday. But how do i guarantee this shit??

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im not condoning violence but the only way that fetus should be coming out of her is in a bodybag 

channel your inner malcolm x - by any means necessary

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Congratulations brother. Name that boy Chidubem.

She's keeping that. She's tired of that 9-5 hustle and wants a kid like all her friends.

 

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5 minutes ago, Seydou said:

Congratulations brother. Name that boy Chidubem.

She's keeping that. She's tired of that 9-5 hustle and wants a kid like all her friends.

 

Low me, this is not an option atorrrrr

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Literally one of my worst nightmares.

Making sure im using doms forever now, fuck that.

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55 minutes ago, PascalMoriarty said:

Black!

I'm fuming that she's put me in this position tbh.

step into my office bro

is she aff or carribean 

how old is she

how serious was your 'relationship' 

does she want to be with you long term 

do you knwo if she has had any previous abortions 

who else knows (from her side) of this predicament 

 

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46 minutes ago, PascalMoriarty said:

She's career orientated and thats why this has become more of a shock. The hormone imbalance is fucking with her ability to reason, of this i am sure. As it stands she said she's going to abort, she has the appointment on thursday. But how do i guarantee this shit??

BROTHER 

IF YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE DAY OFF WORK MAKE SURE YOU GO WITH HER 

 

under no circumstance allow this girl to do this on her own 

 

once that abortion is done she can go fuck herself tbh 

 

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50 minutes ago, Zizouz said:

if it's your girl make her see this fetus kills the amazing life you guys would have together, cause the time aint right

if it aint, make her see that this fetus kills her chance of finding the 'Mr. Right' she deserves as well as missing out on having that dream nuclear-family setup

either way gotta sell her the dream

wisdom. 

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Cosign JD

 

You need to be taking the day off work brother

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this is why i stay strapped at all times

cant tross dese o's

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2 hours ago, Mame Biram Diouf said:

Happened to my boy end of last year 

 

Talking didn't work, threats neither. Wasn't willing to go through with violence 

 

Due to be a father in the next couple of months 

the devil is a liar

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pascal take that fucking day off and go

and thought i had stress

rather lose this money than a child right now, i would honestly be finished

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Think acting the victim is the least of your worries bro,

 

Let her have it if it means you get your way 

 

There is no use for any pride in this scenario 

 

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believing a girl when she says she's on the pill :/

should not be bussin into anyone You don't want kids with.

can I ask why not have a child now?

if she doesn't go through with it this Thursday, don't see it as Your last chance, continue showing her Your stance on this. 

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2 hours ago, JOHN DOE said:

BROTHER 

IF YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE DAY OFF WORK MAKE SURE YOU GO WITH HER 

 

under no circumstance allow this girl to do this on her own 

 

once that abortion is done she can go fuck herself tbh 

 

trust, say you're going there with her for support or she might just flip it and say shit like dont you trust me bla bla

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