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nope, never been to Napa.

I don't know why when people here "Midlands" they think Birmingham, lol. I'm from the East Midlands, between Northampton and Leicester I guess, extremely lame ends.

student visas are expensive so I thought I would see how London is. I'm moving to Toronto in April but I've been here since the end of '08.

lol at "white ting", is there any evidence of this back off you speak of?

cheers, I hate drum & bass but I might check it out.

Yo Yo on a Thursday will defo be your thing. Swear you were in the US on a working tip? no I was in film school, I live in London now. I was there from '06-'08 lol, it's been a while. Thursday where??

a lot's changed since I used to be on this thing; I'm back from NY, living in London. what's good with you?

hii!yeah you were called Da Luv Doc in my day.

Same sh*t different day.. What brings you here?We have had 3 generations post rwd days.wow 3 generations!? yeah I think I was 16/17 when I was on here all the time, I'm 23 now, so yeah. I don't know really, just contemplating my life in London and it reminded me of when I used to chat on here, pre everything. I was under the impression I'd move to London and grime would be everywhere, but I think it died before I got here. long live 2004.

well howdy, what's new?

say hi if you're from the RWD days and still post in here. k cheers bye.

someone please tell me where's decent to go out in London to hear hip hop or grime. I've been living in London for two years and I've never had a decent night out. 0_o

yesssssss, got my tix

being black has kind of gone against him because people are all hype about it and are focussing on that rather than THE CONTENT OF HIS CHARACTER.. which people of colour have been fighting for since how long? and the same people are hyping over his colour? Hmmm, smart.he's a forward thinking man who has smart ideas and is passionate about changing the state America's in, it's his sincerity and honesty which makes me want him as president, not because he's black. i think it helps him relate to more people because he's mixed, but it's worrying when people don't look beyond his race because they under-rate how great he is, McCain is old-school.. and problems have stemmed from presidents with that mentality, that's why it's important we give Obama a chance. well.. not us, America.Most of middle America will be backing McCain anyway because they're guna stereotype Obama because he's black.. if McCain wins there's guna be riots, people are guna be PISSED. Obama's not perfect but he's a lot more trustworthy than McCain, he doesn't ignore the important issues and IMO he's just more about making change for the people than just being in control of a country.

i don't see it like that.. i think people make us fear God so we'll act a certain way, but at the end of the day common sense tells me my morals and my values and how i treat people is what God cares abouthow conwenient that yr 'common sense' can modify the creator to fit yr own agenda,not being sarcastic just wow how fortunate thats all wat a stroke of luck for you thats fantasticplusclear something up for me hereu say u only sleep with ppl you are in love with yet claim to have slept with both men and womenyet claim to have never been in love with a manhow fascinating,im excited about your life,its some breakthru stuffwhen did i claim i've slept with men and women? i haven't slept with a man.. and we all have our own belief systems on how we live our lives, so it's not convenience.. i fit my life around my beliefs. i was sharing how i view God, i don't think everyone's relationship with God and faith is the same because we're all different and handle things in different ways.. but that doesn't mean i can't share my opinion.

i have good taste in men and women

i don't see it like that.. i think people make us fear God so we'll act a certain way, but at the end of the day common sense tells me my morals and my values and how i treat people is what God cares about

i do believe in God.. i just don't believe reproduction is all he cares about, i think he loves us individually

I don't think ''God'' or whatever other terminology for our conscience and faith views homosexuality as black and white and narrow-minded as the bible claims. I feel the presence, guidance and support of God every day and I know that who and what gender I choose to share my love and my body with is definitely not something of concern to him. God is there to support me in my ethical values, not to judge my personal relationships that are completely moral and formed from basic, all-natural, human instinct and affection. I find it really difficult to comprehend God ever having a problem with two people living harmoniously in their togetherness just because they're of the same sex and it's not the ''regular way.'' Really now, why the f*ck would he care? He gave us life to live and love. Loving is not sinning, sex is not sinning... ADULTERY and cheating is sinning; sex itself is not a sin. However way one chooses to use their sexuality it's all expression, of love, lust or manipulation... But I think it's a personal choice that doesn't define your morality, just your character. Then there's the ever popular point of argument, ''but it's not natural.'' Well obviously not to you, you're heterosexual, are you not!? Don't you think homosexuals feel the same way about your lifestyle and orientation? In nature animals and humans alike feel the need to mate, and reproduce... but they're two separate activities. Often reproduction is consequential of mating, but not necessarily the aim or intention, and out of all of the people around the world that are cumming this very moment, how many of them do you think are visualizing the impregnation of a womb? Yeah, not likely. We're naturally inclined to embrace enjoying each other's bodies, and babies being born just happen to cleverly fit into that natural inclination between man and woman so that humanity can live on. There are all types of people in this world, some want to have children and some don't, some keep their babies and others do not… if there is ever a shortage of births and abortions happening each and every second maybe then perhaps our choice in whether or not to reproduce should be something to worry about. But seeing as birth control is a common necessity amongst the heterosexual population, stating that homosexuality is wrong because reproduction is the sole purpose for sex is clearly an under thought opinion. you think god is cheering you on as you scissor your sistersi don't think he's there to guide us in our sex lives..

I don't think ''God'' or whatever other terminology for our conscience and faith views homosexuality as black and white and narrow-minded as the bible claims. I feel the presence, guidance and support of God every day and I know that who and what gender I choose to share my love and my body with is definitely not something of concern to him. God is there to support me in my ethical values, not to judge my personal relationships that are completely moral and formed from basic, all-natural, human instinct and affection. I find it really difficult to comprehend God ever having a problem with two people living harmoniously in their togetherness just because they're of the same sex and it's not the ''regular way.'' Really now, why the f*ck would he care? He gave us life to live and love. Loving is not sinning, sex is not sinning... ADULTERY and cheating is sinning; sex itself is not a sin. However way one chooses to use their sexuality it's all expression, of love, lust or manipulation... But I think it's a personal choice that doesn't define your morality, just your character. Then there's the ever popular point of argument, ''but it's not natural.'' Well obviously not to you, you're heterosexual, are you not!? Don't you think homosexuals feel the same way about your lifestyle and orientation? In nature animals and humans alike feel the need to mate, and reproduce... but they're two separate activities. Often reproduction is consequential of mating, but not necessarily the aim or intention, and out of all of the people around the world that are cumming this very moment, how many of them do you think are visualizing the impregnation of a womb? Yeah, not likely. We're naturally inclined to embrace enjoying each other's bodies, and babies being born just happen to cleverly fit into that natural inclination between man and woman so that humanity can live on. There are all types of people in this world, some want to have children and some don't, some keep their babies and others do not… if there is ever a shortage of births and abortions happening each and every second maybe then perhaps our choice in whether or not to reproduce should be something to worry about. But seeing as birth control is a common necessity amongst the heterosexual population, stating that homosexuality is wrong because reproduction is the sole purpose for sex is clearly an under thought opinion.

Natural means functioning or occurring in a normal way; lacking abnormalities or deficiencies, so no its not relative and homosexuals are not naturalIn other words guys who are attracted to and f*ck other men about as normal as guys who are attracted to and f*ck children.I also have a question for the homo's amongst you even though I dont really want to be talking to you:-Why is it that I cannot tell if a man who I dont know sucks p*ssy if I overhear him having a normal conversationHowever I could here a next guy having the same conversation and tell if hes homosexual?Surely your sexual preference shouldnt dictate the way you behave in situations and conversations that have nothing to do with sex or in your case sexual deviancy?Is sexual deviancy a preference?Or is it a lifestyle?Answers on a postcard pleaseThanks. lol i agree that a lot of people think it's acceptable to go talk openly about their sex lives just because they're gay and it's out of the ordinary to most people.. like they get a pass for talking as much sh*t as they want just because they're ''out and proud''but i find most of the people that do this - i know girls who always talk about p*ssy, and guys who always talk about d*ck - purely because they're gay and feel like they have to be ALL ABOUT ITi personally, feel no different to any of my straight friends so i don't go around talking about all that because it's my personal business, on the other hand.. i don't feel like i should be quiet and not talk about my relationship problems just because it involves another woman.. they're as valid as a straight person's problems IMOand yeah i totally get your point.. some people get over-hype and feel like because society doesn't view homosexuality the same as heterosexuality it's almost as if they're acting rebellious and they do shove it in peoples faces by acting over-flamboyant. i see nothing wrong with a man being what he wants to be and acting fem and dressing up in a tutu if that's what he wants to do.. but for example:i was at an ann summers-type party, there was a drag there.. he started explaining to us how he cleans his anus after his man ejaculates in him.. he told us he fills a pantene bottle with water and shoots it up there, most people were disgusted, i just laughed it off like whatever..it's ok to be open but he was parading his sexual antics to get a reaction, and he shouldn't have to.. that to me, is insecurity.. and i know i'm talking a LOT on here about gay sh*t but it's like, i just wanna bring some awareness so that people don't see it as straight up bad..there are dumbasses who are gay and straight and not everybody is guna fit the stereotype of a gay man or a straight man.. gay men get the worst wrap and it pisses me off, the other dudes who aren't fem are guys like neyo, diddy and mannnnnny others.. read the book. they're not out because it would ruin their careers and people don't identify a manly man as gay/bi, but trust me they're out there. one of my best guy friends in New York is a typical Harlem dude and always has a girl on his arm, he raps and deals.. you would never think he likes d*ck every now and then, but he does. all i'm saying is.. you don't know about the DL gay dudes, you only know about the flamboyant ones and some of them give gay dudes a bad wrap and that's why the other won't come out.

for some people perhaps but if you're referring to me then that's not what it isi was always open to experimentation with women but NEVER called myself bi because i never considered that bisexuality.. that's just being open. once i fell in love with a woman i then found it only appropriate to call myself bi as it never occurred to me just because i like women doesn't mean i don't like menand trust me, attention from men is the last thing i want and i actually do tell them i'm a lesbian if one approaches me because it saves the confusion of them thinking i could potentially wanna pursue them when that's not what i'm interested in. i honestly don't think i'm going to have a boyfriend anytime soon if ever.. but i know girls who have called themselves lesbians and then fallen in love with a man a year later, that's why i hate labels.loldnt talk about sh*t like its some breakthrough scientific experiment or yr wildly openmindedif you were openminded you wud solve puzzles and cure diseasesyou are open legged,and since you do this for at least both sexes you are bisexual,i know the label will 'harsh yr buzz' or watever but it is wat it is miss modern thinking,you are not having a unique experience yr just a certain type of person that is all about thinking they are,you are almost a majority now if we are honestlet me wonder if you wer to forge a strong bond with a pet dog wud this in turn become a sexual relationship? im curious as to wer u wud draw the linei'm not acting like these are unique situations, i actually think the opposite.. and i'm trying to bring it to light because i hate how gay people shy away and ''stick to their own''.. this is just a thread and i'm expressing my opinion, i don't think i'm the sh*t because i'm gay and most of you on here aren't.. it's a sexual preference.. not a grammy.and i never mentioned that i f*ck men and women on the regular because i don't..