Losing Friends As You Get Older

[Jin]

How odd, was thinking this exact same thing on the bus today.Aint read through properly so may just be repeating but its based on situations. As you mature you see things in a different light etc etc.Had a massive team I use to roll with, over the past couple years certain events just made me think. To an extent I may be cuttin off people unnecessarily but I'v come to realize half of my acquaintances aint even serious about life. f*ck having these sorta people around me.

[VENOM]

people grow apart. saw one of my bredrins frm college the other working with DHL, he was delivering to my office lol. i didnt see nufin wrong with it..man is self employed and ting btu he musve felt embarassed and hasnt come back since its another guy delivering now.i only have 2 close bredrins one male one female thats it..all the rest r associates. what i hate is when we meet randomly and take each others numbers knowing that we'll never call.

[Rippy]

I've lost many... But I've gained a lot more over the last year or so.Had a good friend of mine who told me she doesn't know who she was anymore a few months ago and we've hardly spoken since. Can't deny I was verry confused at the situation.

[Numero001]

f*ck.i was almost hoping that everyone was gonna say "nah ur just a loser fam" lol...cos this makes me think its a f*ckin lonely world in the end if everyone just remains in small smal groups. i dont think its a thing about nt bein content with the friends i have, cos like ppl have sed the groups thin out for a reason and u only keep the better ppl with u...but its seeing big groups and seeing ppl in dem kind of social circles who can do much more things than i can. i just dont have dem options or possiblities.its f*cked tho cos wen i was younger and had loads of friends, we were only young and could only do so much. now im an adult i can do all those same things and soooo much more, but dont have the big group to share it all with and do it all with.

Dont be fooled by the big groups, those are just friends of friends who know who each other are and share basic things in common.

[spiderman]

f*ck.i was almost hoping that everyone was gonna say "nah ur just a loser fam" lol...cos this makes me think its a f*ckin lonely world in the end if everyone just remains in small smal groups. i dont think its a thing about nt bein content with the friends i have, cos like ppl have sed the groups thin out for a reason and u only keep the better ppl with u...but its seeing big groups and seeing ppl in dem kind of social circles who can do much more things than i can. i just dont have dem options or possiblities.its f*cked tho cos wen i was younger and had loads of friends, we were only young and could only do so much. now im an adult i can do all those same things and soooo much more, but dont have the big group to share it all with and do it all with.

Dont be fooled by the big groups, those are just friends of friends who know who each other are and share basic things in common.

ye definately cos i remember myself bein in that friends of friends stuff back in the day. looks good on the outside, but not many are REAL friends on the inside.but i dunno, sometimes there must be a genuine friendship within a big group.i dnt wanna start bringing race into dis, but it seems to me all the white ppl i know or knew seem to have this big group who are sincerly friends.lol its probably just me, but the way it looks is such that ethnic ppl dnt seem to get along as well.

[PopT]

i dont socialise

[Bruno Di Gradi]

The older you get the more you can realize & separate friends from acquaintances. A friend is something valuable I can tell you that now *no tender guy*.

[Numero001]

The older you get the more you can realize & separate friends from acquaintances. A friend is something valuable I can tell you that now *no tender guy*.

Thats all that it is. I made the separation from a very long time, truesay my dad used to bang on about "You only have a few real friends, the rest are acquaintances." From them days I used to watch wah gwarn. When I had different groups of friend only one was my friend and the rest were friends of friend. Difference was always there. Could have f*cked me up 'cause from that sub-conciously I never let the other guys get too close when I think about it now. Most prob a good job too 'cause most are pricks and the times I saw snakey behaviour was by them

[Guest luckstar]

f*ck.i was almost hoping that everyone was gonna say "nah ur just a loser fam" lol...cos this makes me think its a f*ckin lonely world in the end if everyone just remains in small smal groups. i dont think its a thing about nt bein content with the friends i have, cos like ppl have sed the groups thin out for a reason and u only keep the better ppl with u...but its seeing big groups and seeing ppl in dem kind of social circles who can do much more things than i can. i just dont have dem options or possiblities.its f*cked tho cos wen i was younger and had loads of friends, we were only young and could only do so much. now im an adult i can do all those same things and soooo much more, but dont have the big group to share it all with and do it all with.

Dont be fooled by the big groups, those are just friends of friends who know who each other are and share basic things in common.

ye definately cos i remember myself bein in that friends of friends stuff back in the day. looks good on the outside, but not many are REAL friends on the inside.but i dunno, sometimes there must be a genuine friendship within a big group.i dnt wanna start bringing race into dis, but it seems to me all the white ppl i know or knew seem to have this big group who are sincerly friends.lol its probably just me, but the way it looks is such that ethnic ppl dnt seem to get along as well.

THE WAY WHITES SOCIALISE IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM THE WAY ETHNICS SOCIALISEI CANT PUT IT INTO WORDS BUT THERE IS A TANGIBLE DIFFERNCE IN WAT THE THINGS I HOLD IMPORTANT IN A FRIENDSHIP TO WAT BENJAMIN FROM BARNET DOESI THINK WHITE PEOPLE FOGIVE AND LET sh*t SLIDE A LOT MORE...I DNT THINK THEY HAVE AS HIGH AND EMOTIONAL IQ AS ETHNIC PEOPLE EITHERFROM A PERSONAL POINT OF VIEW I CAN AGREE WITH SPIDERMAN... IVE ALIENATED AND LOST A LOT OF FRIENDS FROM AROUND 18 ONWARDS... I GOT 2 OR 3 CLOSE FRIENDS AND I DNT EVEN CALL THEM FRIENDS THEY ARE NOW FAM...ITS TRUE THO.. ITS JUST NOT HOW IT USED 2 BE ANYMORE... IN THE END THO U JUS GTA FOCUS ON MAKING MONEY AND FORGET ALL THIS SUPERFLUOUS sh*t

[spiderman]

THE WAY WHITES SOCIALISE IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM THE WAY ETHNICS SOCIALISE

ye i think thats the basics off it.but are their any white ppl here who can comment?

[Natalie]

Saw a girl I was close with during secondary times yesterday. One of the best days of 08 tbh.

[Grafter]

the peolpe who are older with loads of friends are the ones that let sh*t slide constanly

so truei have a low tolerance for f*ckrieswhen i see certain people, cussin out their bredrins, sposed to be co dees, then when u see them together they all pally pally, or that runt of the group who always gettin the piss takenits sad

[Grafter]

the amount of people on this site that would probably lose more friends if they stopped blazing is ridiculous, you dont see it now because your deluded but if you was to stop you would have nothing in common

true againbut then smokin is one a dem things that brings u together, like it might make u start talkin to someone in the first instance, an then u become friends without the weed

[Grafter]

lost touch with one good bredrin from school, an tbh it burns me stillwe went to different unis, had totally different social circles, see her on facebook, an the people she jams with an that, jus not my scene pill head tings an such, an i guess same can be said for me,also one bredrin i had, tiight in school, then she went to libya, in like yr 10, came back in 6th form, totally different, soon as she left school no one heard from her

[MEIRELES.]

Cou/Sin @ bare quotables in ereMy circles got smaller after I left CollegeUsed to hang around with quite a lot of people now most seem to be busy or doing their own thing but we do link up from time to time.. not a lot though as we are all separated and going to different uni's or got full time jobsSome have moved out the ends so it makes it even harder to link upAint lost contact with the Secondary school friends tho cos they will remain family for lifeIts just about making an effort really and arranging somethingPS: Nats in your sig.. change your "CO SIGN" into "COU/SIN" no questions please, cheers.

[Stig]

used to cotch with a bag of wasted heads from the bitsim a grown ass man now, i cant lower myself to plotting on road after coming home form work

[Jo Dark]

I have a group of four girl friends and then I only speak to two of them regulary on the phone.I didn't make an effort to keep in touch with aquaintances from secondary school and I'm not good at making friends, so I only have one set of friends. Now that they're all in relationships I find that I don't see them as often.All in all, I don't mind having few friends but it would be good to have a few others to do different activities with.

[macz]

THE WAY WHITES SOCIALISE IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM THE WAY ETHNICS SOCIALISE

ye i think thats the basics off it.but are their any white ppl here who can comment?

confused :Sone whole race socialising different to others? be seriousi dont have a large group of guys that i jam with reguarlytheres proabably about 5 max id say are my tight bredrins

[Necksta]

Only close to about 4-5 people now, don't care about past people tbh, the people who I still care about I'm still in contact with, so all bless.

[spiderman]

ye like i said i didnt wanna really bring race into this cos generalising doesnt hold cos der always exceptions.just my observations of the white ppl i knew not seeming to have this issue.

[Kaiser]

One of my best friends(I have never used this word before in my life)we bascially was born alongside each other went to Primary school and started secondary school together I moved when I hit year 7We met again in 07 while I was fully grownthe distance between us was something else like we neve knew each otherlost bare people over the years some I wish we didn't seperate while others I moved away from on purpose

[Necksta]

ye like i said i didnt wanna really bring race into this cos generalising doesnt hold cos der always exceptions.just my observations of the white ppl i knew not seeming to have this issue.

Lol, wtf.Everyone goes through this, no matter what colour you are.

[spiderman]

ye like i said i didnt wanna really bring race into this cos generalising doesnt hold cos der always exceptions.just my observations of the white ppl i knew not seeming to have this issue.

Lol, wtf.Everyone goes through this, no matter what colour you are.

i suppose it happens to everyone in the end.maybe what im seeing is it not hapening to some ppl already, most of which happened to be white.

[Frank Furta]

Im actually cutting ties with all my m8's for a while .. i'v actually realised it will benefit me in the long run. Just me and my girl will do me till i start getting bored again.

[Aquaman]

"love is love until u cross me then its spoiltn i aint got nuthin for ubut hot slugs penetratin ya mug until ya flesh boil"f*ck every1 tbh apart from a handful. im too real to tag along or jam with ppl i think are fake