Do You Prefer A Friendship Period Before Wifeying A Gal Or Just Jump Straight In?

[Avon Barksdale]

Dont understand men who just meet a gal and ask her out two weeks later and 3 weeks later find out she is cheating on him and linking next manObviously you do not want to be friends for too long because you end up being that friend guyBut i cant see myself just meeting a gal and giving her that wife status without getting to know her/her friends/her history first

[Bardissimo]

friendship ting but need to let intentions known at a point, no about wasting time and becoming a FZer

[Mr Q]

Friendship to Wifey makes the best wifey/relationship. Allow the jumping into a relationship straight away.

[General Mac]

I wouldnt use the term friend, at all. Simply because i have no intention of being platonic friends with an attractive female. Id let my intentions be known from the gate and then proceed to make her an acquantance. But that getting to know stage is a bunch of sh*t because courtship isnt about truth, its about fabrication, white lies to impress etc. So later you will find out certain things. Fast track or long way, People lie to get into better situations. Some are genuine, most arent. Do what you feel is just, to you

[Dipset]

Allow the jumping into a relationship straight away.

[Snoop]

friendship then wifey.The core of a relationship is friendship.From when you can chill at your girls yard on evenings eating pizza and watching telly and joking together.That's when you have the strong foundations of a solid relationship.I learnt this from a very young age man. I've came of across plenty of females, some stunning but just lacked the personality for me wanting to be friends with them, which i then told myself i don't want to commit to them, because the relationship wouldn't be much more than fatal attraction, and to me that's not enough for me to commit myself into a relationship man. If your girl is a homie as well as a lover that's all you need man.

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

people are excellent at telling you the rules but aint as good at following them tbh so do you.

[Da Luv Doc]

LOL @ this friends ting.Complete utter crap.If your friends from long time and something starts coming through then that is different, but how you gonna draw a chick then become friends??? SMHSome lost movements, when your thinking you want to slam her, she's gonna coming to you asking about how she should react to a guys shes kinda seeing (f*ck*ng) while you will be the mug.

[JLovely]

I wouldnt use the term friend like someone else said. But yh its best to "court" for a bit then go from there imo.

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

let me ask you thiswhen your girl is just your friend while your getting to know her and take her out would it bun you to know she is gettin her p*ssy smashed by a 3rd party while getting to KNOW you?and then you make that YOUR wife after yeah?

[JLovely]

LOL

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

there is no full proof method to stop ya girl from being a bad chick for you and your cause the world we live in any girl can do a f*ckry regardless.you man also need to stop shooting down a next mans theory with the exception of men that wife of girls with a rep.

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

hold tight the women that say they are SEEING someone while trying to get my attention then when me and them dont work its a wrapmonths later the said woman holla back (as they do) and we get talkingtells me she was seeing someone while we was seeing someone/ getting to know someone/ dating/ (which all means the same thing to a man like me) and then says they drifted KMTTTTTTTTTTTTTTlol @ this girl thinking she could come to me like its a speeching ting when you apply for a place in college or uni you dont apply for a september 2007 start in august 2008note to womenif your dating more than one man keep that info to yourself but overstand your still a hoe in reality and if you get a man your LUCKY and lol at how the same women will keep the guys that DIDNT get her in the end as friends and invite them to family gatherings where the man she chose is gonna be.women are stupid its just a case of how much you can tolerate.

[Da Luv Doc]

Come like certain guys think their "friend" wont get slammed by Dwayne or Danial when they are your "friend".SMHSome failed thoughts, that's why that sh*t about "if she don't let loose straight away then shes not a hoe" gets so much ratings from confused dudes around the world.

[Avon Barksdale]

Swear you man only deal with slagsHave such negative outlooks on lifeNot every female is the sameFeel sorry for when you try and settle downGuess you must have both been in love before and been really hurtThe way you go on about women sometimes just gives the impression you would be happier gay

[Snoop]

Swear you man only deal with slagsHave such negative outlooks on lifeNot every female is the same

f*ck*ng C/S 100.0000 i was just about to post the same sh*t.

[bex]

I wouldnt use the term friend like someone else said. But yh its best to "court" for a bit then go from there imo.

i agree. bring back courting! and wooing also @ faceoff you can, in fact, apply for college/uni in september 2008 and attend in 09, as long as you let ucas know that you wish to defer a year.

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

a lot of fool fool talk in this thread blaming this on the kinda girl u deal with is an out dated p*ssy beggar mentality that tends to get co signed by guys that don't mind their girl violating cos they can't do no better.The "you been hurt talk" is also hilarious as to say all of a sudden this means what I say ain't fact and what you say is fact when in plain simple english it means ya happy to let ya girl par you while you come here and insist that's your definition of trust

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

ps I have nothing against man that wanna do the friend zone route do what works for you but ya kidding ya self if you think that will be the deciding factor of the outcome of ya relationship if it was bare man would not have step dads today.

[hhhhhhh8]

Friendship period.

[Avon Barksdale]

a lot of fool fool talk in this thread blaming this on the kinda girl u deal with is an out dated p*ssy beggar mentality that tends to get co signed by guys that don't mind their girl violating cos they can't do no better.The "you been hurt talk" is also hilarious as to say all of a sudden this means what I say ain't fact and what you say is fact when in plain simple english it means ya happy to let ya girl par you while you come here and insist that's your definition of trust

Thats what im trying to tell youNot everyones girl pars themNot everyone girl is a next mans link or beatFFS

[Grafter]

Come like certain guys think their "friend" wont get slammed by Dwayne or Danial when they are your "friend".SMHSome failed thoughts, that's why that sh*t about "if she don't let loose straight away then shes not a hoe" gets so much ratings from confused dudes around the world.

like that bredda from wag1 tvtalkin about 6 months

[Grafter]

a lot of fool fool talk in this thread blaming this on the kinda girl u deal with is an out dated p*ssy beggar mentality that tends to get co signed by guys that don't mind their girl violating cos they can't do no better.The "you been hurt talk" is also hilarious as to say all of a sudden this means what I say ain't fact and what you say is fact when in plain simple english it means ya happy to let ya girl par you while you come here and insist that's your definition of trust

Thats what im trying to tell youNot everyones girl pars themNot everyone girl is a next mans link or beatFFS

LOL

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

u were not trying to tell me anything other than suggest man are dealing with hoes The first person to laugh was smaddy so say no more.And being in the friend zone is giving an opportunity to be parred if you don't follow that concept that's you

[Lieutenant]

friendship then wifey.The core of a relationship is friendship.From when you can chill at your girls yard on evenings eating pizza and watching telly and joking together.That's when you have the strong foundations of a solid relationship.I learnt this from a very young age man. I've came of across plenty of females, some stunning but just lacked the personality for me wanting to be friends with them, which i then told myself i don't want to commit to them, because the relationship wouldn't be much more than fatal attraction, and to me that's not enough for me to commit myself into a relationship man. If your girl is a homie as well as a lover that's all you need man.

Do you not know how to write coherent sentences?Was painful reading that.No trouble wanted.