Your kids

[E.A.S.E]

From what I know ebony isn't there to get young people into competitive horseriding, correct me if I'm wrong though

If they have a tallent for horse riding they can go as far as they want, in past the organisation has taken them to shows low level competition yes but if they were really interested in a specific dressage/showjumping/x country then the oppertunity is their for them to excel in the sport its self. But its about giving them a hobby, life skills and something positive to do within the community and hopefully a qualification and potentially a career long term plan.

[Woodpecker]

suck yourself

[JLovely]

Yeah I used to mentor a young girl a few years back who attended, she loved it.

[E.A.S.E]

Its a brill Charity im glad they finally got enough fundings to open up their own place gives the kids more time with the horses.

[E.A.S.E]

Its a brill Charity im glad they finally got enough fundings to open up their own place gives the kids more time with the horses.

[Goddaz]

Yh 11lbs just a little gas all natural, it was her 3rd had a shower right after givin birth lol

When you say it was her 3rd, does that mean the other two have a different father(s)?

Any father who doesn't stay around for there baby is a straight up c*nt n doesn't deserve to ever see there kds

If the answer to the above question is yes then I can kind of get where your coming from if their just choosing not to be involved in their child's life although there are exceptions.

You can't blanket judge all ''fathers'' like that.

[local]

What exceptions?

[Goddaz]

Well in my case war.

Others could be the child isn't there's. I remember in 2005 some report came out that 2 in 25 men are unknowingly raising another man's child in the UK, we're in 2012 so chances are that's even higher.

It's not an excuse but there are f*ckED! mothers out there who make it sooooooooooooo difficult for fathers to be fathers to the point their like f*ck it.

Regardless of if the story is true or not. Ari Gold & his ex's situation is another exception. Not that I'm defending his actions but Ari Gold might just feel so hurt by his baby mother getting him locked up making him unable to be there for ther child when he comes out he might just think f*ck her. Let me do me for a while & get my sh*t together before re-establishing his relationship with his daughter.

Many children are suffering because one or both parents f*ck up for whatever reason. Valid or not, exceptions or not there many single parents out there.

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I'm not defending wotless/waist fathers just saying it's never a clear cut case.

[Lens]

DNA testing every one of my children. no exceptions.

don't mind a girl bicchin about me accusin her of cheating.

do mind raising a child that isn't mine, especially by deception.

i mean You can "know" to an extent that they don't cheat, but not that much that You blindly raise the child like it's definite.

[KayGee]

No exceptions IF its through the mans own choice. None at all.

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Lol at testing every child with no exceptions, thats bullshit.

[Goddaz]

No exceptions IF its through the mans own choice. None at all.

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Lol at testing every child with no exceptions, thats bullshit.

Easy for you to say, you KNOW! the child is yours lol

[Kurtis]

some females make it impossible for the guy to be a father, then still bitch about him

the stories ive heard and facebook status arguments ive seen ...

im actually scared to have a kid incase i choose the wrong woman and she takes the kid away, you know the courts would side with her too

[KayGee]

No exceptions IF its through the mans own choice. None at all.

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Lol at testing every child with no exceptions, thats bullshit.

Easy for you to say, you KNOW! the child is yours lol

Did you test your children

[Goddaz]

STANDARD PROCEDURES!!

[KayGee]

How did your Lady feel?

[Lens]

Lol at testing every child with no exceptions, thats bullshit.

expand?

i'm not with them 24/7 to know they haven't had sex with anyone else

I check my DNA matches my child's DNA so I'm raising my biological child

what problem?

[Goddaz]

How did your Lady feel?

She didn't like it of course but understood where I was coming from & why I wanted it done.

[KayGee]

I genuinely think its saddening that two people can be in a relationship and decide to have a child yet can't trust the other person to not cheat on them and deceive them. You obviously can't trust that person, even as your wife and mother of your child.

I get the precaution but thats a sad situation, I didn't know this was seen as 'normal' I really hope its not.

[Lens]

does everyone who has a child "decide to have a child"?

and like I say, I can trust them, in the sense that I'll stay in the relationship, without accusing them of cheating

but putting my energy and resources for the years of raising a child takes a different level of trust that I won't have

[KayGee]

Of course if theres an ounce of doubt but just as a normal thing is strange to me.

I get it.

[JLovely]

I'm actually shocked.

[Goddaz]

I genuinely think its saddening that two people can be in a relationship and decide to have a child yet can't trust the other person to not cheat on them and deceive them. You obviously can't trust that person, even as your wife and mother of your child.

I get the precaution but thats a sad situation, I didn't know this was seen as 'normal' I really hope its not.

I somewhat agree to a degree but we don't live in an ideal world. Only women/men who trust their partners 100% would come with that first sentence.

A trusting & 100% honest relationship backed with the ultimate proof of togetherness>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Any relationship backed by only words & emotions.

Nothing sad about it imo. You probably only think like that because it's something so raw. My now wife had no doubts that they were our kids so it wasn't a big deal. Since the first test we've never been happier, honest & more open with each other.

Honesty in a relationship no matter how raw it is>>>>>>>>>>>>____

[Goddaz]

I'm actually shocked.

About?

[The Flyest]

thats kinda mad testing the child of the woman you married

if youre marrying her there should be no doubt

[JLovely]

thats kinda mad testing the child of the woman you married

if youre marrying her there should be no doubt

That's what I'm thinking.