Female Friends

[Supermalt]

I agree with the variety aspect, but you ain't missing out big time. Also let's say acquaintances (vast majority of the time) because that's what it is. They ain't helping you move house or listening to your ideas.

If you lot have noticed, once that female friend is cuffed or married she is ghost. And I expect her to be.

Would you want Supermalt in your yard in the name of your girls friendship? Belly laughing with your girl in the kitchen while you watch motd? Nonsense.

[JOHN DOE]

like my boy who lives with me recently brought two girls to the yard to chill they were doing balloons and drinkng etc 

 

but he is not beating none of these girls 

 

i was on a link at the time in my room  and was genuinely baffled by this behaviour 

 

to make matters worse one  of the  'girl friends' that he was entertaining my other boy is currently moving to (he is like me and doesnt have any female friends )

 

we both cannot understand this behavior 

 

i have also found that guys with many female friends are semi bitch made 

 

more emotional, more gossipers,

[Grafter]

I agree with the variety aspect, but you ain't missing out big time. Also let's say acquaintances (vast majority of the time) because that's what it is. They ain't helping you move house or listening to your ideas.

If you lot have noticed, once that female friend is cuffed or married she is ghost. And I expect her to be.

Would you want Supermalt in your yard in the name of your girls friendship? Belly laughing with your girl in the kitchen while you watch motd? Nonsense.

Yes absolutely my male aquaintances ghost when they get married/long term relationships

Very Mildly sad about that but thats just the course of life. I recently lost one but im mad happy for him an ive come to expect this

My actual friends will help me and we are actually friends. But yes even with ur real friends theres time when u gta give space. Cant be up each other's arse forever

@ the last bit. I dno man...i dno

my mans not down

[Lieutenant]

Some of my friends look great....I've seen men do madness in a club for some of them lol

Lol I'm too f*cked, I actually find it weird reading this from a male.

I can't ever see myself in a situation like that

bruv

What if things get sticky? End up caping for a ting you ain't even beating?

Long

loooooool naaaaaaah.... I said.... boundaries are known from early

If things get sticky....they have to deal with it... then they have to deal with the banter the same way any of my boys would get bantered

Absolutely no cape duty.... ever..Their brother, or their dad or their trong butters friend can save them if needed....

Lol that doesn't sound like a friendship then g

[Mame Biram Diouf]

No way you are out with a female friend, a guy is punching her up or hotting her up

She is looking over to you straight away and the Cape is coming out

Don't see how you could roll to the club with them, chill with them and watch them get weighed in because you have a prior agreement lool

Maybe it's just me

[Lieutenant]

I agree with the variety aspect, but you ain't missing out big time. Also let's say acquaintances (vast majority of the time) because that's what it is. They ain't helping you move house or listening to your ideas.

If you lot have noticed, once that female friend is cuffed or married she is ghost. And I expect her to be.

Would you want Supermalt in your yard in the name of your girls friendship? Belly laughing with your girl in the kitchen while you watch motd? Nonsense.

this guy

This happened with my last remaining female friend earlier this year. She went very quiet over a period of about 3 months, holla'd her and asked is she seeing someone she said yeah. Basically the guy didn't want her chatting to me and he was adamant that I beat but she always denied it, eventually she told him and he gave her an ultimatum. Hear from her about once a fortnight now.

And this time last year we was TIGHT.

[Supermalt]

I agree with the variety aspect, but you ain't missing out big time. Also let's say acquaintances (vast majority of the time) because that's what it is. They ain't helping you move house or listening to your ideas.

If you lot have noticed, once that female friend is cuffed or married she is ghost. And I expect her to be.

Would you want Supermalt in your yard in the name of your girls friendship? Belly laughing with your girl in the kitchen while you watch motd? Nonsense.

this guy

This happened with my last remaining female friend earlier this year. She went very quiet over a period of about 3 months, holla'd her and asked is she seeing someone she said yeah. Basically the guy didn't want her chatting to me and he was adamant that I beat but she always denied it, eventually she told him and he gave her an ultimatum. Hear from her about once a fortnight now.

And this time last year we was TIGHT.

Same with me, she bounced and I knew what time it was.

As for the guy in your story;

she lied that you two beat, confessed eventually, he gave a baseless ultimatum, and she is still talking to you?

I'm not marrying here.

[JOHN DOE]

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[Grafter]

I dont think you can call a person your friend if you beat

like its a type of friend but its never ever the type of friend you can have around your partner so they dnt count imo no matter how tight u get

those people always have an expiry date

[Ephren Taylor]

loooooooooooool.... I'm not a bastard

 

Obviously if you see a friend in trouble you would help them....regardless of gender

 

i just mean i'm not on this saving them from a man in a club bollocks

 

They don't need me to step in to look like im c*ck blocking

[Lieutenant]

Don't lie bro they use you as a fake boyfriend when someone is trying to move to them init

[Mame Biram Diouf]

What about if you are talking to them one on one and a guy jumps in and asks is that your girl, then obviously you say no and he asks to chat to her etc

[JOHN DOE]

done that bare times

 

a large majority of the time u can tell if the guy is a sideman and not the bf

 

all in the bawdy language

[Guest babatundestacks]

If shaniqua has anything about herself she will say "can you not see im talking to someone".

[Ephren Taylor]

Don't lie bro they use you as a fake boyfriend when someone is trying to move to them init

 

 

 

These dishes better not be trying this.... I will walk off

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Supermalt]

Don't lie bro they use you as a fake boyfriend when someone is trying to move to them init

 

boy

 

you get what you allow

 

and thats nonsense 

[Jam]

Remember the time my friend & I went to this dance together ... was dead so we chilled at the bar and was planning to leave soon...

 

I went toilet before we left and when I was walking back I saw this guy talking to her. I told her "alright, let's move...you ready?"

 

She said to my man "this is my friend I was telling you about" and calmly slotted a glass my way...

 

Looked at him and all I saw was

 

 

 

 

 

then I clocked the finesse that just went down Downed my drink & buss out.

[Jam]

My answer to the "would you beat?" question was always "why wouldn't I beat?", but I learnt I don't have to f*ck every (buff) girl I know ... I don't see the relationship between man/woman needing to be predicated on sex all the time. And yes 2 of my females friends are buff.

 

With my closest friend, she's got a man and we're bless but he ain't got to worry about me. We went to see Eric Roberson couple weeks back...get a meal every couple..help eachother with whatever...

[Seydou]

Ffs

Lets say some d*ckhead you don't like goes for your "friend", would you tell her to leave him or warn against him?

Lets say your close friends man, was with another woman and you catch him, would you inform her?

What happens if she believes him and not you, will you feel hurt?

Do you walk side by side them while they they do things a couple would do. What happens if her guy tells you to duck out of nowhere one day , will you complain to her.?

and if you do ghost, what will you tell her when she asks why you been ignoring her calls or avoiding her.?

So many things I want to know

[Ephren Taylor]

Ffs

Lets say some d*ckhead you don't like goes for your "friend", would you tell her to leave him or warn against him?

Lets say your close friends man, was with another woman and you catch him, would you inform her?

What happens if she believes him and not you, will you feel hurt?

Do you walk side by side them while they they do things a couple would do. What happens if her guy tells you to duck out of nowhere one day , will you complain to her.?

and if you do ghost, what will you tell her when she asks why you been ignoring her calls or avoiding her.?

So many things I want to know

 

 

Wtf is this?

 

These soap opera scenarios are killing me 

 

You don't suddenly start acting like a bitch because you can make friends with someone of the opposite sex

 

Just keep it simple & treat them the same as if it was one of your boys in the same situation

 

 

The only thing you have invested is the friendship....nothing else mayyyyyyne

[JOHN DOE]

lol seydou is perplexed at the concept 

 

( i am too) 

[gattsu]

Ffs

Lets say some d*ckhead you don't like goes for your "friend", would you tell her to leave him or warn against him?

Lets say your close friends man, was with another woman and you catch him, would you inform her?

What happens if she believes him and not you, will you feel hurt?

Do you walk side by side them while they they do things a couple would do. What happens if her guy tells you to duck out of nowhere one day , will you complain to her.?

and if you do ghost, what will you tell her when she asks why you been ignoring her calls or avoiding her.?

So many things I want to know

 you could easily have these same situations with one of your boys.

i'm not really sure why the answers would be different

[Badman]

I used to have a lot of female friends back in college so I can understand the concept

 

However I could never balance the friendship/relationship scenario so this lifestyle naturally came to an end...

 

I have regrets about that though in hindsight, I valued my friendships lol.

[Supermalt]

Ffs

Lets say some d*ckhead you don't like goes for your "friend", would you tell her to leave him or warn against him?

Lets say your close friends man, was with another woman and you catch him, would you inform her?

What happens if she believes him and not you, will you feel hurt?

Do you walk side by side them while they they do things a couple would do. What happens if her guy tells you to duck out of nowhere one day , will you complain to her.?

and if you do ghost, what will you tell her when she asks why you been ignoring her calls or avoiding her.?

So many things I want to know

Lol very long

[Wavant]

Yes, few select certified ones. Very easy set up.

 

One of them is the BEST plug - May God bless her sweet soul.

 

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Come to think of it...... having female friends has probably lowered the chance of me settling down 

 

Ever.....

 

 

Lol, I see where you're coming from.