Help from parents as an adult..

[TF S4DK]

That's far from uncommon.

Adults nowadays also all accept that getting on in todays world is harder than it was before.

[Yoshie]

 

 

my mum can barely pay her own mortgage let alone my rent at uni and you're telling me your family isn't comfy? f*ck outta here

It's f*cked, found out my mum's paying interest only on her mortgage the other day.

Jesu, f*ck that. Might as well pay rent. Hopefully equity gains are worth it.

 

 

Stemmed from my parents splitting, dad got his own place and she kept the family home going.

Will be in a better place to pay it in 2016

[ag.]

Yup

Social mobility is a myth in this country. I always bang on about this, but Britain is one of the worst places in the western world for social mobility. .

Yup. A lot of middle class people (25+) I know still get a casual 5 bills of pocket money every month from their nans and aunties and sh*t. Some of them been getting that for so long they don't even know where it comes from.

Only people I know who own a house in London and it isn't a new build are those whose parents could give them 100k+ for deposit.

I would love for public/private schools to be banned in this country. At least those for under 11s. That would be a massive step towards improving social mobility. Will never happen though. Russell group uni's and their feeding schools spend so much money crushing any of those suggestions. Whilst giving out token scholarships to Mohammed, complete with a couple of articles in national media. None of this is an accident. Great Britain was set up to work this way.

this.

 

not everyone understands this n alot jus dont seem to care

[Afroman]

Boy,

In terms of property, I can only give thanks to my parents. Gave me and my siblings one of their properties to sell and split for a deposit.

Would have been impossible to get on the property ladder if not.

I hope I'll be able to have the same luxury to give my kids when I settle in the future.

Key fundamental thing my parents bang on about is having a partner and building from there. Been a single parent in our generation is virtually impossible to get on the property ladder.

as far as sponging of my parents for dough at this age is a No No. But from a cultural perspective it's not even a big issue asking them for help.

[Supermalt]

Yeah that's another thing, if your single and getting no help from parents your more than likely to be stuck in a rut for a while. Even on a decent salary, alone you ain't doing much.

Some victorian style social ladder we have atm.

[LS]

I gave my dad all my savings for a flat he wanted to buy that will eventually be mine in the future.

 

I expect him to help me out when i'm going to attempt to buy a property some time next year.  I don't have a partner nor do i earn 40+ so getting a good mortgage is hard in london.  I think it's an amazing feat for any single person buying a property on their own without help.

 

Think Renting is ridiculous unless there's no other choice.  Charging a 1k to live in the ends before any bills leave your account? madness. I think i can get 1.1k from the tennants for a 1 bedroom flat we have sometime next year

 

I've been lucky as my dad owns his own business, he's not well off but if i ever needed money, he would make me work instead hiring staff.  I think thats why he will be more open to helping me buying a property

[Mame Biram Diouf]

Aiming for 20k deposit by the end of 2017.

Hopefully there's a new scheme to help by then and hopefully I'm on 35-40k by then too.

All ifs and maybes but boy. Mum can't help me at all. But luckily she refuses to let me help her too much, she wants me to have the life she never had. Without her sacrifices I'd be nowhere.

I'll probably never be able to fully appreciate it. My children will reap the most. But it is what it is.

[Supermalt]

Aiming for 20k deposit by the end of 2017.

Hopefully there's a new scheme to help by then and hopefully I'm on 35-40k by then too.

All ifs and maybes but boy. Mum can't help me at all. But luckily she refuses to let me help her too much, she wants me to have the life she never had. Without her sacrifices I'd be nowhere.

I'll probably never be able to fully appreciate it. My children will reap the most. But it is what it is.

Don't you have a mrs, thought about buying with her?

[Monday Bandele]

you really like that whatsapp group dont you

[Badman]

Yo Mike check your PM's ffs 

[Mame Biram Diouf]

you really like that whatsapp group dont you

?

[TF S4DK]

 

 

 

my mum can barely pay her own mortgage let alone my rent at uni and you're telling me your family isn't comfy? f*ck outta here

It's f*cked, found out my mum's paying interest only on her mortgage the other day.

Jesu, f*ck that. Might as well pay rent. Hopefully equity gains are worth it.

 

 

Stemmed from my parents splitting, dad got his own place and she kept the family home going.

Will be in a better place to pay it in 2016

 

 

But your dad owes (and owns half) too right?

[Afroman]

Interest only mortgage is not bad in this current climate and the way the market is going . I'm sure many will opt for that over rent.

[TF S4DK]

Very selective criteria however.

[QPR Dee]

Black parents in the UK are rarely in a position to help their adult aged children. The "Children" end up helping their parents more.

I think that's more applicable to single parents.

I know of quite a few boys particularly whos mothers are dependent on an income from them...or at least claim to be.

"I been out there in the rain, cause mums saying that we need Sky back"

[QPR Dee]

my mum can barely pay her own mortgage let alone my rent at uni and you're telling me your family isn't comfy? f*ck outta here

It's f*cked, found out my mum's paying interest only on her mortgage the other day.

Jesu, f*ck that. Might as well pay rent. Hopefully equity gains are worth it.

Stemmed from my parents splitting, dad got his own place and she kept the family home going.

Will be in a better place to pay it in 2016

That's deep still sorry to hear that. Hope it all works out

[Yoshie]

 

 

 

 

my mum can barely pay her own mortgage let alone my rent at uni and you're telling me your family isn't comfy? f*ck outta here

It's f*cked, found out my mum's paying interest only on her mortgage the other day.

Jesu, f*ck that. Might as well pay rent. Hopefully equity gains are worth it.

 

 

Stemmed from my parents splitting, dad got his own place and she kept the family home going.

Will be in a better place to pay it in 2016

 

 

But your dad owes (and owns half) too right?

 

 

Yeah thats right

[Yoshie]

 

 

 

 

my mum can barely pay her own mortgage let alone my rent at uni and you're telling me your family isn't comfy? f*ck outta here

It's f*cked, found out my mum's paying interest only on her mortgage the other day.

Jesu, f*ck that. Might as well pay rent. Hopefully equity gains are worth it.

Stemmed from my parents splitting, dad got his own place and she kept the family home going.

Will be in a better place to pay it in 2016

That's deep still sorry to hear that. Hope it all works out

 

 

Seeing it in writing it seems worse than it is - everything's good.

Thanks though!

[Cole Des]

Think it was Sheryl Sandberg who said that the most important financial decision you will ever make is choosing your life partner.

[Supermalt]

The stay at home mum era is done. I will never depend on no woman, but she better be out here getting it with me.

[TF S4DK]

 

 

 

 

 

my mum can barely pay her own mortgage let alone my rent at uni and you're telling me your family isn't comfy? f*ck outta here

It's f*cked, found out my mum's paying interest only on her mortgage the other day.

Jesu, f*ck that. Might as well pay rent. Hopefully equity gains are worth it.

 

 

Stemmed from my parents splitting, dad got his own place and she kept the family home going.

Will be in a better place to pay it in 2016

 

 

But your dad owes (and owns half) too right?

 

 

Yeah thats right

 

 

Mad.

[JLovely]

Black parents in the UK are rarely in a position to help their adult aged children. The "Children" end up helping their parents more.

I think that's more applicable to single parents.

I know of quite a few boys particularly whos mothers are dependent on an income from them...or at least claim to be.

"I been out there in the rain, cause mums saying that we need Sky back"

Priorities ay

[Grafter]

The stay at home mum era is done. I will never depend on no woman, but she better be out here getting it with me.

Boyy

[dub]

only thing I can see myself asking my parents for at this point is money for a deposit on a house

couldn't have my parents paying my way after I got a job

[Grafter]

Isn't it all the same?

Its still free money. Still help just at a different time