Badman Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Thats not what im saying though we all go through the hardships of break ups and deal with it in our own ways but you are constantly going on about it on here moistening the place up and feeling sorry for yourself Its all ego anyway, im sure in hindsight and especially when you find the right person when your ready that you will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QPR Dee Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 On 19/02/2017 at 1:36 PM, JOHN DOE said: its like I'm looking in the mirror basically i weren't ready for commitment but was faced with the dilemma of being with a extremely good girl who was only kuffir has rightly mentioned that yes there are thousands of girls out there but there's a lot of trash out there too she was a good girl but fundamentally I weren't ready. it's going to burn me for a long time pretty sure this is a fake video to get salty internet chicks worked up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted March 7, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 1 hour ago, Badman said: Thats not what im saying though we all go through the hardships of break ups and deal with it in our own ways but you are constantly going on about it on here moistening the place up and feeling sorry for yourself Its all ego anyway, im sure in hindsight and especially when you find the right person when your ready that you will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about let me grieve bro its my first time ffs I was a savage / I'm sure your last paragraph is correct but for now ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 5 hours ago, JOHN DOE said: in my post i said " think as guys we internalise things to much - always say to each other "get over it" or "there plenty others " "man up" etc etc this is bullshit " This is very true though. I said something similar when I first revealed that I split from my ex. Guys aren't encouraged to voice their feelings at all, possibly because of it not being "manly", but we have emotions too. That shit will manifest into something negative if it isn't allowed to be voiced. Now don't get me wrong, you are getting what you deserved for treating her like shit, but hopefully you learned from it and can move on as a better, stronger and smarter individual. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badman Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Nobody said dont grieve, by all means pour your heart out and all that. But have some dignity ffs you are a man 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 lmao fran is having none of it. hope you man are doing something positive and constructive with your new found time and freedom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 12 hours ago, Em Dott said: This is very true though. I said something similar when I first revealed that I split from my ex. Guys aren't encouraged to voice their feelings at all, possibly because of it not being "manly", but we have emotions too. That shit will manifest into something negative if it isn't allowed to be voiced. Now don't get me wrong, you are getting what you deserved for treating her like shit, but hopefully you learned from it and can move on as a better, stronger and smarter individual. John Doe aside, this is why its a good idea to have a genuine female friend Someone you can be vulnerable around / Yemoh being mean still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seydou Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 A female friend? Nonsense 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 Here we go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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time_bomb Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 Picturing JD listening to drake with a tear in his eye 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 42 minutes ago, Lieutenant said: Here we go Lool @Seydou life is about balance. Balance in relationships, friendships, leadership all the ships need balance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLEAZE BALL Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 Call Samaritans Explain your problem to them Record the call Play it back to yourself later and you'll understand how ridiculous the whole thing sounds Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HangTheDJ Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 Just broken up with mine Her mate found my tinder profile, genuinely dormant so no idea why I popped up. I have had the app hidden away in a folder since I got with her, but haven't been on it. I took my phone in to be repaired last week so now I'm paranoid they opened it but whatever, my own fault as I should have deleted it. It's only been 3 days but she's told everyone, deleted me off FB and blocked my number so what can ya do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HangTheDJ Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 / either that or her mate is so hungry that she's swiped all the fellas out and tinder are generating dormant profiles for her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted March 8, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 3 hours ago, time_bomb said: Picturing JD listening to drake with a tear in his eye not even drake usher- u dont have to call kanye west - heartless r kelly - when a womans fed up bruno mars - when i was your man (lool) future throw away is the anthem until the second verse has you in your feelings pmsl never knew i could be so moist fffs - its mad / Grafter you are right about the female friend ting ive friendzoned two girls that i was linking during my relationship. the amount of advice and shit theyve given has been eye opening i was anti female friends myself last year - it is necessary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted March 8, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 1 hour ago, Trap God said: Call Samaritans Explain your problem to them Record the call Play it back to yourself later and you'll understand how ridiculous the whole thing sounds this is why young balck males are the highest for mental illness problems of today i was going to make a thread on this not everyday bravado, we are humans as well there is too much expecation especially on a young black men to be alpha males devoid of any emotion we internalise things too much then self medicate or explode in other ways 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted March 8, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 41 minutes ago, HangTheDJ said: Just broken up with mine Her mate found my tinder profile, genuinely dormant so no idea why I popped up. I have had the app hidden away in a folder since I got with her, but haven't been on it. I took my phone in to be repaired last week so now I'm paranoid they opened it but whatever, my own fault as I should have deleted it. It's only been 3 days but she's told everyone, deleted me off FB and blocked my number so what can ya do. if you want this girl back try your hardest but do it once. if you havent used the app for real and yoru not chatting shit show her that the accoutn was dormant sewra they email everytime you get a mesage or something like that. do all you can to get her back but literally only do it once - if she dont have it then fuck her and keep it moving. i made various mistakes in this breakup - i will help you avoid such mistakes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 53 minutes ago, HangTheDJ said: Just broken up with mine Her mate found my tinder profile, genuinely dormant so no idea why I popped up. I have had the app hidden away in a folder since I got with her, but haven't been on it. I took my phone in to be repaired last week so now I'm paranoid they opened it but whatever, my own fault as I should have deleted it. It's only been 3 days but she's told everyone, deleted me off FB and blocked my number so what can ya do. Wow thats tough did she not give you a chance to explain? Or she wern hearin you? how long were you together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mame Biram Diouf Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 1 hour ago, HangTheDJ said: Just broken up with mine Her mate found my tinder profile, genuinely dormant so no idea why I popped up. I have had the app hidden away in a folder since I got with her, but haven't been on it. I took my phone in to be repaired last week so now I'm paranoid they opened it but whatever, my own fault as I should have deleted it. It's only been 3 days but she's told everyone, deleted me off FB and blocked my number so what can ya do. Can just imagine this situation Longgggg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mame Biram Diouf Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 45 minutes ago, Grafter said: Wow thats tough did she not give you a chance to explain? Or she wern hearin you? how long were you together? Lol @ chance to explain He could have an email from tinder confirming his side of the story, still wouldn't matter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seydou Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 @JOHN DOE would you take your ex back if she said let's work it out but down the line you find she increased her body count? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 6 hours ago, Grafter said: John Doe aside, this is why its a good idea to have a genuine female friend Someone you can be vulnerable around / Yemoh being mean still Don't think it needs to be female friends you can do this with, just a friend of tge appropriate maturity. I had a conversation with an old work colleague about the problems he was going through and a lot of them were things I went through so him being able to vent and seek advice helped him out with his issues and hopefully stopped him from making a stupid and rash decision. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 That dormant tinder line whether true or not that's straight to jail, don't pass go or collect 200. thats the new modern day equivalent of not knowing how the condoms got there. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badman Posted March 8, 2017 Report Share Posted March 8, 2017 5 hours ago, Lieutenant said: Here we go lol trust, not involved Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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