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Things about your ex you never told them but put you off


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On 25/09/2017 at 6:12 PM, jelly said:

My ex had a small d*ck like 4 inches, when he would be on top I couldn't even feel it. It didn't reach my g spot and I never had sex for 3 years before him so I was tight as a whistle 

He would constantly ask for head which j guess is because his Willy is small and he would want it for ages it was annoying he even woke me up when I was sleep to give him head. He was a selfish lover but when he tried he was good. J just don't think you can be selfish when you aren't packing 

He was also obsessed with his ex who he hadn't been with for 2yrs basically she a known hoe who he wifey and she left him when he went broke and cheated on him and he still talk about her it's weird his obsession with her is scary maybe because he's a selfish lover she cheated 

He also stunts in his financed car but lives at home with his mom. He will insult other males about being bums or broke or not having money but he can't move our his mum's when he is 25yrs old 

Well we only lasted 5 months because he was crazy insecure childish and weak inside as a person. 

He also referred to me as "old" because I'm 26 and if I was younger he would treat me different and he xheated on me with a 19 yr old and referred to her as "younger and fresh" which is insanely creepy so this is when I ended iy. He wouldn't stop call me so I had to block him. 

What about you guys? 

No sex for three years :| . . So are you just extremely picky when it comes to choosing men . . or was you just not bothered about having sex?

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Living at home with mum post age 25 is both a good thing and a bad thing. If your mum approves it CAN and WILL be an advantage for you financially. If you have a supportive mum who encourages saving and organisation then you are good. 25 to 35 year old at home earning 25k plus, contributing a maximum of 300 to 500 a month is in a fantastic position to save at the very minimum 300 to 500 each month if not more. 

The bad thing about living with mum post age 25, especially as a male is that your options in the dating scene are greatly limited especially if you are honest about your situation. Herds upon herds of women will not entertain a personal plan such as Yes I work, yes I earn 25k plus and I save (depending on salary) up to 700 a month but live at home with mum. The mum thing is like a very potent partner repellent. 

Im 30 and have tried both from young. I find that if you aren't so into this ONLINE, SOCIALITE, BALLER life then you can be strategical about It, negotiate terms with parent(s), tell them you want to stay home because things are tough economically and that you don't want to save a measly 50 to 100 a month but want to save consistently 500 plus but still contribute a decent amount. Depending on the strength of your relationship with you parent(s), chances are you'd get maximum respect. You certainly won't be having as mum freedom or sex as much as you want but 25 to 30 are ages when you got to take a back seat on the pleasures of life and take front seat on securing emergency saved up cash, potential saves mortgage cash, saved cash for  miscellaneous things and clear all debts.

If a a girl can't understand your strategy then she must not and cannot be part of the plan. 

Women do it and have been doing it since the dawn of man. They stay home until married off, during that time they study and are in work or work, contribute here and there but essentially keep the money they earn. 

Freedom and pressure to be independent is the very reason why young people have been and will always be the struggling, just getting by, in debt group.

I see certain  dudes that are so fixated on p*ssy that even though they live at home with parents, pay next to nothing household wise, earn their age, but will drop up to 300 on a hotel for 2 nights with a chick just to eat and fuck. Confuses me.

Find you a partner that understand your situation and why you are in it.  A lot of these stay at home young people are just embarrassed to say proudly why they are at home. 

It's a lot of people that move out young but when it's really time to save for that house they want, you find 35 to 40 year olds moving back to mum's and dads for a few years to stack up because 40 really is the NO WAY CAN YOU BE AT HOME unless you are the designated carer or there's some disability or something religious or cultural.

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2 hours ago, Seydou said:

To me that post felt as if you're telling yourself what you're doing is alright.

No one is judging you bruh. 

Yh still. Didn't really see how it had anything to do with the topic

However to respond to it, I think more women move out earlier than men. The independence in our own lives is much more imperative from a female point of view which is likely why so many women feel they can write men of who still live at home.

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4 hours ago, Seydou said:

To me that post felt as if you're telling yourself what you're doing is alright.

No one is judging you bruh. 

100% geezers got his mum organising his life for him making him triangle cut jam sandwiches with no crusts every day for lunch 

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On 25/09/2017 at 6:12 PM, jelly said:

My ex had a small d*ck like 4 inches, when he would be on top I couldn't even feel it. It didn't reach my g spot and I never had sex for 3 years before him so I was tight as a whistle 

He would constantly ask for head which j guess is because his Willy is small and he would want it for ages it was annoying he even woke me up when I was sleep to give him head. He was a selfish lover but when he tried he was good. J just don't think you can be selfish when you aren't packing 

He was also obsessed with his ex who he hadn't been with for 2yrs basically she a known hoe who he wifey and she left him when he went broke and cheated on him and he still talk about her it's weird his obsession with her is scary maybe because he's a selfish lover she cheated 

He also stunts in his financed car but lives at home with his mom. He will insult other males about being bums or broke or not having money but he can't move our his mum's when he is 25yrs old 

Well we only lasted 5 months because he was crazy insecure childish and weak inside as a person. 

He also referred to me as "old" because I'm 26 and if I was younger he would treat me different and he xheated on me with a 19 yr old and referred to her as "younger and fresh" which is insanely creepy so this is when I ended iy. He wouldn't stop call me so I had to block him. 

What about you guys? 

I was responding to one particular part of this post. And no my mum does not organize my life. I live alone thank you very much.

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On 02/04/2018 at 8:37 AM, NORA BATTY said:

I know a guy that will never leave his mum and i love him for that 

love him for what? being a broke ass fuxk boy who doesn' want to grow up? 

I hope you aren' dating this loser 

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the person who mentioned the hotel thing described my ex to a T 

will spend money on hilton hotel going Ibiza and malia and partying on boats taking drugs but you live in a box room and a single bed. 

makes it even worse he pretends he is better than every other guy and calls every other guy broke and not as worthy as him. 

 

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