PascalMoriarty 1151 Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 What a dusty predicament. 1) She's going to spend it how she see's fit, so long as your childs looked after well, who cares. 2) If you're worried about the inequality, buy your own kid stuff in addition to the maintenance (no law against it), maybe it'll force the others to hot up their own fathers (if they're in the picture). 3) Really need to get to the point where something this dusty isn't considered an issue for just black people. Tilbury is evidence that this sort of behaviour isn't exclusive to blacks. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
QPR Dee 1536 Posted August 21, 2018 Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 18 hours ago, Restrictive said: Seems to be causing a stir on Black Twitter. take the kid himself to get school supplies and clothes if he has a problem with it. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Restrictive 1129 Posted August 21, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 21, 2018 4 hours ago, Drift said: Surely nobody on here is stupid/dusty enough to end up in such a predicament? I mean what if the children in this situation are the younger siblings, of the child you have together? Kinda out of your control then in terms of ending up in this predicament. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Uncle Man 2363 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 14 hours ago, Tee said: 3 kids 3 different baby dads ? thats more her then the guy tbh Not in any way They are all equal dust unless they raise their children The one that does will be the king If none of them does we will all die by the dust 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Uncle Man 2363 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 9 times out of ten that jubez guy is one of the 3 baby daddies vying for that fugazi supremacy Weakbone flexmode motherfuckers Quote Link to post Share on other sites
underwriter 128 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 imagine certain man are saying its not a big deal youve had 1 KID with this women shes has 2 OTHER KIDS WITH 2 OTHER MEN you are paying your way; the 2 other men are not...... are you a simp? are you a d*ckhead? would you constantly go to a club with your boys and they keep saying 'AGHH SHIT I FORGOT MY WALLET....'. THEN YOU ARE THE ONE BUYING ROUNDS ALL NIGHT...? EVERY WEEKEND? - because that is the scenario Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Drift 5714 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 18 hours ago, Restrictive said: I mean what if the children in this situation are the younger siblings, of the child you have together? Kinda out of your control then in terms of ending up in this predicament. That's a sign of low character to have 2 further baby fathers after you've already had a kid. Low character like that is usually visible from a mile off, and to those who are not dusty and/or stupid. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Seydou 5040 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 Some single mums though I can understand the predicament 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
QPR Dee 1536 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 ? boxing off the capri suns and dairy lee dunkers on a visit Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Grafter 2030 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 Its mad A woman will have three kids for a c*nt an no one blinks an eye(she may even get ratings) an she does it the second an third time so no one blinks an eye. What a world Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wavant 5774 Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 3 hours ago, Seydou said: Some single mums though I can understand the predicament Brah... ??? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
o-guy 422 Posted September 12, 2018 Report Share Posted September 12, 2018 On 8/21/2018 at 8:51 AM, Grafter said: Dont get why its even a discussion The situation is what it is whether or not anyone would like to be in this If you're not on the side of the needy and the vulnerable then you're on the wrong side. No child deserves to suffer because of the actions of their parents I don't think it's as straight forward as you're making it out to be. Most men would struggle with the idea of paying for another man's child, especially when you're not even involved with the mum anymore... at least for a second. Doing something like this without even informing the guy will just rock the trust necessary when two people are co-parenting. best case scenario, every request for money is met with an investigation for it's purpose. Worst case scenario, he starts trying to smuggle money to the kid or forced child support payments become a reality. She should have explained before hand what she was going to do with the money, and why it was necessary. Granted some dudes won't see reason, but there are many who would if they felt like they were being dealt with in a respectful way. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kuffir 2755 Posted September 13, 2018 Report Share Posted September 13, 2018 On 8/22/2018 at 1:30 AM, Uncle Man said: 9 times out of ten that jubez guy is one of the 3 baby daddies vying for that fugazi supremacy Weakbone flexmode motherfuckers 9 times out of 10 ur a fassyhole, 10 times out of 10 u can eat a d*ck 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SLEAZE BALL 3317 Posted September 13, 2018 Report Share Posted September 13, 2018 Gfjfdkddfjj Just don't understand why the corn even started flying in here ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MGEEZ 3290 Posted September 28, 2018 Report Share Posted September 28, 2018 On 8/22/2018 at 1:30 AM, Uncle Man said: 9 times out of ten that jubez guy is one of the 3 baby daddies vying for that fugazi supremacy Weakbone flexmode motherfuckers Pmsl it’s funny coz it’s true Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Incumbent 710 Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 On 8/22/2018 at 8:34 AM, Seydou said: Some single mums though I can understand the predicament faaaaaam!!! i used to feel sorry for single mothers generally but over time i am like wtf? some of these tings ain't right i know of one ting who only lets this donny see his yout when she needs a baby sitter, these times he can only jam at her house while also looking after his son's other brothers and sister / she had 3 kids with a next don & one with donny / i told man if u don't want that stress you should go court, he said he can't afford it and doesn't want to borrow the money coz his one of those dons who doesn't borrow shit from anyone, his bank gave him a 4 bag over draft and man switched on them and told them to take it off Quote Link to post Share on other sites
underwriter 128 Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 ooooooo Quote Link to post Share on other sites
youcleanwepaint 225 Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 I’m I being naive in saying these issues arise with white and mixed race mums?? 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Incumbent 710 Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 well i don't paint everyone with the same brush but in the case of the don I was talking about yeah, the bm is mixed race still i think it's a general waste mentality amongst many "races" Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Grafter 2030 Posted December 18, 2018 Report Share Posted December 18, 2018 49 minutes ago, youcleanwepaint said: I’m I being naive in saying these issues arise with white and mixed race mums?? Not at all Its the world over Africans, Caribbeans, south americans, mix, - have personal knowledge of women of these backgrounds acting xacly the same way. When I see the pain my compadres are going through, burns my heart. An I literally have no advice. Goin court is all well an good an I wish any man the best but it seems that whole system is skewed badly Oh an women from a range of educational background too. Regardless they all have a common level of wotlessness an have manage to nab some very proactive men Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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