CurryMan Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 the problem is the yewts are lazy and want the quick buck. Toxic Masculinity as well (although i hate that term) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLEAZE BALL Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 It’s not toxic masculinity tbf If I was forced to label it I’d say there are a lot of inner city youths from particular backgrounds walking around with inferiority complexes / Not hearing the mum didn’t know Kid was 14 driving around on a ped can’t tell me his mum didn’t know he weren’t going school and the rest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CurryMan Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 Just now, SLEAZE BALL said: It’s not toxic masculinity tbf If I was forced to label it I’d say there are a lot of inner city youths from particular backgrounds walking around with inferiority complexes / Not hearing the mum didn’t know Kid was 14 driving around on a ped can’t tell me his mum didn’t know he weren’t going school and the rest i think thats a better description. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 39 minutes ago, Heero Yuy said: It's true, very easy to live a double life. \ ? fathers please raise your sons, it is imperative. In no way do I or have I evee advocated single parent households by choice. But we need go change the narrative on this. Many many youts with dads around still fuck up Theres new research out now which shows single parent families are not the source of the worlds criminals. https://phys.org/news/2018-12-children-well-being-negatively-affected-single-parent.html The real issue is poverty plain an simple Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JOHN DOE Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 obv poverty is the problem but poverty in a single parent household is exasperates this its simple single mum has two boys 14 and 15 single mum gets a catering job in the day and a cleanign job in the night mum goes out to clean from 6pm 6pm these two boys are left to thier own devices until she returns from night shift at 12am two boys are free to roam the streets causing havoc out of boredom, or convenience now if there was another parent in this case, at least one parent should be left at home parenting these kids and monitoring / making sure they are up to no good in some cases if the single mum is strong and has raised her kids well , the boys will have no desire to roam the streets or will even be shook to do so , but that still leaves them to commit other vices such as bringing girls home to the yard when she is not there or some other shit 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 29 minutes ago, Grafter said: Theres new research out now which shows single parent families are not the source of the worlds criminals. https://phys.org/news/2018-12-children-well-being-negatively-affected-single-parent.html Quote A report by Sumi Rabindrakumar, in her role as policy officer at the leading national charity working with single parent families, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dayomesaydayo Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 8 minutes ago, Heero Yuy said: A report by Sumi Rabindrakumar, in her role as policy officer at the leading national charity working with single parent families, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 So someone well placed. Better placed than any of you at least. Shes not some corporate lobbyist, shes not being funded by single parents. Keep laughing and living in your bubbles Peace out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheOneGameBaller Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 Let’s not delude ourselves. Being in single parent household doesn’t condemn a child to failure but having both mum And dad there is a much better head start to have. Of course there are exceptions if one of the parents isn’t fit for purpose but most of the time, that comes out of poor decision making. You can can’t get knocked up by a wasteman and expect him to change once a baby arrives. Also, the village mentality is gone. How many of us really know our neighbours? Did my parents know every single thing I was doing? Of course not, but I was shook to act a fool on the road in case a family friend or relative saw me. That has changed with this generation. The previous generation has really failed us. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Afroman Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 47 minutes ago, dayomesaydayo said: ? Another box ticked..... check Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Somalian Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 Allot of these parents lack critical thinking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 Why do people always blame the parents? You can only blame the parents if they know and are encouraging this type of behaviour. This single or double parent household is myth I blame the children for being weak and not being able to think for themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Somalian Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 You need two parents (doesn't have to be in the same household) a women can not bring up a man. Women who bring up boys usually bring up emotional guys who can not deal with situations in the correct way. A women would have a child with a dead beat and then act surprised that the guy is a dead beat, the dead beat with no ambition will shoot up the tings club and not be in the child's life. Wear a condom FFS. To many of these emotional feral black kids about these days. All goes back to the parents and their lack of critical thinking. Sorry but to me many black women are very poor decision makers. We need to hold up to the mirror to ourselves as black people and ask ourselves is this the correct way of living having multiple baby mums with a pick and mix family unit. This is one of the reasons black people will always be at the bottom of the pile in society with their hand out begging their colonizer or slave master for hand outs. We need to get our house in order. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Infamous Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 20 hours ago, Grafter said: 28 years. That judge was on one Embarrassing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 1 hour ago, The Somalian said: You need two parents (doesn't have to be in the same household) a women can not bring up a man. Women who bring up boys usually bring up emotional guys who can not deal with situations in the correct way. A women would have a child with a dead beat and then act surprised that the guy is a dead beat, the dead beat with no ambition will shoot up the tings club and not be in the child's life. Wear a condom FFS. To many of these emotional feral black kids about these days. All goes back to the parents and their lack of critical thinking. Sorry but to me many black women are very poor decision makers. We need to hold up to the mirror to ourselves as black people and ask ourselves is this the correct way of living having multiple baby mums with a pick and mix family unit. This is one of the reasons black people will always be at the bottom of the pile in society with their hand out begging their colonizer or slave master for hand outs. We need to get our house in order. ?? ?? ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seydou Posted January 11, 2019 Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 8 hours ago, SLEAZE BALL said: It’s not toxic masculinity tbf If I was forced to label it I’d say there are a lot of inner city youths from particular backgrounds walking around with inferiority complexes Agree Wouldy you include the constant need for validation or does that come under that? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tee Posted January 12, 2019 Report Share Posted January 12, 2019 21 hours ago, O Fenomeno said: Why do people always blame the parents? You can only blame the parents if they know and are encouraging this type of behaviour. This single or double parent household is myth I blame the children for being weak and not being able to think for themselves. so whos fault is that then ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted January 12, 2019 Report Share Posted January 12, 2019 8 hours ago, Tee said: so whos fault is that then ?? Children for being weak minded and succumbing to peer pressure. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLEAZE BALL Posted January 13, 2019 Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 TBH youre just a bit of an a**hole On 1/11/2019 at 6:24 PM, Seydou said: Agree Wouldy you include the constant need for validation or does that come under that? Definately Will see this get worse moving forward rather than better due to the rise of social media 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Restrictive Posted January 13, 2019 Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 Bruh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drift Posted January 13, 2019 Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 Why are BTP using emojis? / That is mad though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted January 13, 2019 Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 Man got them highlander swords. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted January 13, 2019 Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 The distinction between professional communication and colloquial communication is being quickly eroded in order to remove the us and them dichotomy I disagree with it entirely. But the wheels started turnings around ten years ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seydou Posted January 13, 2019 Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 34 minutes ago, Restrictive said: Bruh Mans playing real life Soul Calibur 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Realone2016 Posted January 13, 2019 Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 2 hours ago, Restrictive said: Bruh Always wonder how their parents react when called to the station. Is it just another day at the office or is she in a state of shock. Them signs there should be enough to pick up on and see what the underlying issue is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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