that whole raping is wife thing is click bait if you listen to the story you will see what he means  my gf told me that a lot of girls look back on some of their sexual experiences and think damn - was i raped? an ex of mine that i took her v at 24 onece told me i raped her when i took the V as she initlalys was on it but then i continued to push through  she continued in the act and the job was done. a year later she try tell me in a jokey way that in a way i actually raped her a