MovesLikeJagger

She said she's seeing him on the weekend so I told her to tell him I said, hi. This is just the start

bumped into a random girl and got talking found out she knows my ex-bf and happened to f*ck him in November. We broke up in March. I have the straightest face on the planet right now especially since we have been considering getting back together. HYFR!

She possibly dodge a bullet with you! Firstly you broke up on bad terms. Then YOU got locked up...And in the meanwhile you expected her to be doing what??...Church girl or not! Praying for you to be released was the last thing on her mind. IMO, you knew the answer to your question before you asked. Truth Hurts. Don't be emotionally led. Best thing to do is do Nothing. In time it would become more & more evident where you stand/want to stand. Then you can decide if you can or cannot overlook it.

Very PETTY reason 4 breaking-up IMO Low Impulse Break-Ups You can't b handling 2 years+ 'grown people' relationships like you used to handle 2 days+ 'primary school playground' relationships. Certain people on here need 2 evolve a backbone. VIP2 messing with your heads! Live to love NOT to regret!

What about 'that girl'... She's knows what she is doing when she is giving the brudda a shoulder 2 cry on when he is pissed off with his wifey. Making him 'wanna leave the one [his] with 2 start a new relationship' - (usher) Making the wifey - I.e. The one who has put in work, loved him good n rightfully won the title - look so inadequate...all because 'that girl' has an ear 2 listen to a brudda whine on about being unhappy! Psshhh... Calling him at stupid o'clock chatting sh*t about good morning and good night and"bestfriends" DPMO Bestfriends my Aye Double Snakes! More like, imma trick you to think I'm cool n when u dump ur wifey 4 me I'll unleash my true side making you regret you ever left your wifey in the first place! Divide and Conquer! Oldest strategy in the book! Pent up Vent

Thank me later. & Stop Bitching it happens to the best of them.

Problem solved. I spoke to him and he wasn't over the moon, he did not understand why I found him annoying. So I put it to him like this, 'can you be with someone like yourself?' Of course being a male he did not understand the depth to my thinking. So I had to simplify the conversation by saying, 'can you be with a women that is clingy, trapped in the past, oblivious to current situation and uses personal assets to allure. He was quiet, as expected. I said gd'bye and went on my way. No need to even get involved with a person like that he is quiet simply not on my level. IMO he is one broken heart away from being gay....

cant take the cling

tbh I needed the green light.

whos Deidre? and yeh to be honest I am being pretty selfish im just going to bite the gun and tell him.

what do I say?

I know. But realistically speaking he is not stupid...why give so much if you know you are not emotionally stable. He will just get the call divert from now on! because as soon as he is back with his girl...I will be a thing of the past!

No. I met him on Vday...dont intend to either

First and foremost, I am new to VIP2 and I have been advised by a friend to try it out as he believes that the people on here have the answer to the perils of life. At a first glance I thought, 'I might aswell give it TRY'....(blah, blah, blah....Now that bits over...) I recently started talking to this dude (who moved to me in on Valentines Day)... He has taken me out ALOT, and even filled my tank (BONUS) He seems to be a serious and I think his an alright kinda guy, But I would rate him much more if he STOPPED banging on about his EX! Its obvious that he came out of his relationship to spread his so called 'wings', but prehaps he didnt realise that his wings had been clipped! He make comments about her ALL the time. I try to care but in my head im thinkin STFU and go back to her already....So i try come from the why don't you call her angle! But he just shrugged it off! As a girl I feel that if a guy has got a good wifey now....he should keep her regardlesss, as there are noooooooo GOOD GIRLS left! trust me on that one!!!!! And as much as I want to tell the dude to keep it moving...he is a bit clingly (calling every night) and he also has money and he does not mind spending it.... In that case I do not mind being the rebound! But I know it wrong! DONT JUDGE ME! whats the best way of dealing with ish like this....from a guys perspective

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