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Jamaica has a high level of obesity which comes from the high salt which just shows me black people don't care about themselves. Black people hear me out. I know you dont care about your diets. But just remember your body is designed to eat foods in the tropics which are high in minerals. You were designed like that biologically like it or not. Every time you walk in that fast food shop, Your body is craving the salt. Not the food!
This is where a lot of you begin to sound dumb and will never be taken seriously; stop talking about black people and addressing them as if they are a monolithic group with no sense. Thanks.
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Your girl has to feel like you're better than her. Women have to upgrade, it's in their nature.
So even if you're both 8+, she has to feel like an 7, and you a 9.
Lol. That's hilarious.
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good watch..
TBH. These kind of women have a fetish and some kind of emotional attachment to these men of men prior to them receiving the dose of licks.
Got some girl on my FB timeline that seems to be following in the same paths of this story line.
Dead beat baby father as a partner, In and out of prison, airing her dirty laundry on FB, Simps sucking up, Posts occasional bruises, But week after week uploads picture of her cuddling up to him.
Its a on going cycle. I know its easier said than done for some of these women to walk out. But boy......
Reducing it to a fetish is just (really) offensive. It's not every woman in this situation that is into the 'bad boy' relationship thing.
There's women out there with men that are just plain Jekyll and Hyde between her and people outside.
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I more than understand what you mean. Just a frustrating thing to see, she's not my friend more an acquaintance but I feel angry and quite frankly scared for her.
What kind of support do you suggest? I guarentee she's had it. It's been going on for almost 10 years.
It's him that needs help, he's got issues. Who cuts themself and sends the pic saying this is what you made me do smh
His behaviour isn't uncommon in these types of situations. It's manipulation stemming from any one of a myriad of issues. She's probably been scared for what he might do to himself, given that I'm guessing this is someone she once cared about.
They both need help really. She needs to understand why she keeps going back and not strong enough and value herself enough to realise she deserves better and in the case above, for example, understand that she can't help him. She probably even feels isolated and embarrassed (esp. if people have written her off) and that it it's easier to stick with him.
They both need to make a decision to help themselves, ultimately. but the issues can be deep rooted and tough and long to work through. Especially if it's been going on for a long time. I wouldn't discount sexual abuse in that time frame as well, which has its own impact.
She obviously hasn't reached the end of her tether with it for her attempts at leaving to stick. That's the sad thing about these things as you can only watch it form the sidelines and pray that the victim manages to get their self together.
And there's enough resources to help her when she does..there's womensaid, (specific) counselling, victim support etc and if she's gonna go to the police she has to co operate with them and stay away, cos it's gonna be harder to deal with if she keeps contacting him.
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Im surprised Jima actually took the time to post that usually she negs and doesnt say anything
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if a woman gets beaten more than once and they take that man back than thats an idiot imo especially the way she was beaten
I do post from time to time but mostly I don't feel like taking the time to explain since I'm just browsing while working..it just means I disagree with something said or posted..big deal..I didn't know that was a problem around here...
Already made my case in response to the rest.
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I do believe I already made mention of being able to co-operate with the police besides just coming forward to/being 'involved' with them..comprehension of that is fundamental.
The typical response. Smh.Because they're all idiots
It's not that easy for victims of domestic violence. It's deeper than them just being an 'idiot'.
Funny thing is this is what the film tried to show, yet these opinions still exist and is part of the reason why some don't have the bravery to come forward and co-operate with the police and other agencies that can support, in their situation.
She is an idiot.
Shes been involved with the police, been moved etc but yet still shes giving him another chance.
He's a psycho and i just hope for her sake she doesnt end up getting killed.
But like I said, there are more often than not deeper and complex issues at hand than just being an 'idiot'. Statements like that do not help women like her. If anything it validates the reason for the verbal and emotional abuse that they are likely already receiving. And that in turn effs with their mental and emotional strength and ability to honestly stand up for and value their self.
Don't worry though, I don't expect you to understand (from what has been said here).
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Because they're all idiots
The typical response. Smh.
It's not that easy for victims of domestic violence. It's deeper than them just being an 'idiot'.
Funny thing is this is what the film tried to show, yet these opinions still exist and is part of the reason why some don't have the bravery to come forward and co-operate with the police and other agencies that can support, in their situation.
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i.e. the t.h.o.t. uniform of 2014
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I don't spread hate
All I know though is this, when I was at school the kids that I shouldn't have followed down the road were Carrib
Boy who stabbed me when I was fourteen Carrib
Kids who laughed at me when ever I lifted my hand to answer question at school Carrib
Now I look at their lives and think wow.
So after all this when things begin to look better you guys want to claim a share of the success?
You've mostly made black people in the UK a laughing stock before the Africans even properly settled on these lands and now we're undoing the negative connotations you built and you want to take a claim on this positive turnaround.
It is foolish to say this applies to you all because there are also many successful full black people with English surnames which suggests to me they're Carrib but there are still some significant factors which you guys must address before suggesting we are on equal playing field.
And to whoever was talking about tribalism it is not a bad thing, western thinking told you that. Having a tribe = having an identifiable ethnic group, I don't want a label of generic 'black' because I'm more than that, if a Welshman who is British can be proud that he spells words all wyllfflkyltlyull then I can also be proud of my ethnic group and it's quirks.
We are not all the same accept it.
Your spiel means nothing as things were completely opposite at my school. It was the African boys that were carrying on bad ways at my school and have questionable lives now.
Your venom is actually quite disgusting tbf....it may be that you're still carrying some hurt from what these Caribbean boys did to you or something..I don't know...but you should see someone about that.
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Well I can give you one thing about black people across the board; they can always manage to find a way to be devisive..
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If something doesn't make sense an theres really nothing u can do just placate. Dont waste too mmuch time tryna figure something ridiculous out. Its truly a waste of time.
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Additionally u lot arent as logical as u imagine
we are you just can't see cos you're a woman.
You really aren't. The amount of dumb actions and words I've seen and heard come from a man or boy is enough to make my soul hurt.
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No. Humans don't need milk after the breast feeding stage and that's just nasty.So if they mass produced breast milk and started selling it by the pint, would people here cop?
It could be argued we don't really need milk at all (I'm not saying that)
Some women find it too painful and the child only gets formula etc...
There would be a market for breast milk though.
I'd be inclined to believe that if women didn't produce milk to feed their infant, but nature knows what it is doing.
There was a time when formula didn't exist..that's man made.
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I am asking who the "you" is that refer to in ur post who cannot have it both ways.
One infers that this "you" is black people in general
Cheers love.
when I said "you" I mea t black people in general.
But not every black person in general uses that word and has a right to be offended by it's use, so how are you gonna say 'can't have it both ways', as if it is so...?
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to be fair no one would be all that concerned about what happened back then as none of them are alive now.its whats going on right now people are more concerned about.look at what race is filling up the prison system and committing the most crime?us and we need to adress why our morals have gone down the drain in particular the youth they are moving reckless right now and enforcing some dirty stereotypes.World history will show you how much more barbaric and vile the white people are.
It's silly and ignorant to not be clued up on past happenings. History repeats itself and a lot of things never really change; it just comes repackaged. Look at the whole Clipper situation, for instance and that is just one tiny piece of a larger puzzle.
In order to address why today's morals have gone downhill, again, you still need to look back (albeit more recent history).
Looking at things that went wrong, or right, in the past gives major clues in how progression can be made today. So yeah, there needs to be concern about past events/world history in order to determine the appropriate practical application for today.
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World history will show you how much more barbaric and vile the white people are.
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What exactly is 'black culture'? Black people aren't some monolithic group.
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I think you guys are being harsh. Really harsh
Shes not conventionally beautiful but there's a quality about her beauty. High cheek bones, eyes an smile are lovely.
Defo not ugly imo
What's your definition of conventional beauty?
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Money = A Healthy family is what you are saying?
Most women today care for the financial status of a man and how he can provide for a family.
They see males as a worker. And thats why many of them care about looks so much. So they can use it as bait to try and catch their next economic opportunity (men).
If you have happened to find a women that isn't brainwashed by pro-feminist ideology or doesn't have a consumer based mentality then consider yourself a lucky minority.
Brainwashed by pro-feminist ideology because a woman wants to be with a man who can at the very least be responsible and provide for his self and also his family? Ok..
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Stop now. You clearly have nothing more to say.
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snmyou are all slaves
LOL. When all else fails, resort to the same, tired rhetoric of 'you're all slaves' or 'slave mentality'.
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shutup . theres no excuse for self hate . tired of all this sh*t . f*cking wearing asian hair like its your own .
Case in point.
Try to argue your case that uses a broad generalisation, without telling the other person to 'shutup'.
It's hardly a component of 'intellectual discussion', is it?
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What do you mean 'wishful thinking'? Wishful thinking to get raped as if it's some achievement to have that happen to you?
She's a toad anyway. Who lies about rape once and then does it again..to even lie about it in the first place she clearly has no clue.