A bit over the top. For soem people, this MSN and facebook is a good way of catching up with your friends if other forms of communication aren't viable. And come on, are you saying if a girl uses Messenger she is loose? Not exactly the same, but similar principles.agree my gal has a myspace and ive logged into her account and had a look around and its usually da same old girlie talk wat u wearin wat time we meetin blah blah blah at the end of the day its cheaper den a phone call..