missBee

a woman dont need to depend on a man in this case a woman just needs to maybe settle for a ford kA instead of a minimore times thats all this is about the comfort zone of having nice things.lolnext question: would you guys be annoyed/ angry if you other half earned more money than you?NObut i am still the man so i am just thatif i say we are NOT getting a 4x4 we are not getting one simple as thatjust like if i am earning the majority of the loot in the house and my wife cooks i am NOT gonna tell her i want steak i will eat what she makes cos for the most part in that case she knows best.girl could have all the money in the world but I still lead the wayand NO WOMAN wants a man that cant leadFACTtrue

oh Lord is it hot in here???? lol

a woman dont need to depend on a man in this case a woman just needs to maybe settle for a ford kA instead of a minimore times thats all this is about the comfort zone of having nice things.lolnext question: would you guys be annoyed/ angry if you other half earned more money than you?

so mean prefer a girl who just wants to be a housewife? or totally dependant on them?

It's not even about you TBH...I feel the female users boyed it. I see 'em posting in the other room but here? They nah mek it...Disclaimer: Excuse my poor attempt at the Jamaican talk...cooooool

dont pick on me anymore please. i get it

i guess..i have had to work for everythign i have. i just though if i have worked my whole like i might as well keep working. & prove a point by mathcing dad's accomplishmentsim actually quite upset. need to text my mum

lol UNFORTUNATELY YOU HAVE.my father is a wealthy career man & he still left my mother & we struggled. she has worked HARD to get us where we are right now. but i dont want to struggle i dont think i am strong enough to tell the truth. i dont want to love a man and leave my career only for him to leave me with nothing. because if my father did it why cant any other man do it to me?so at the top of my list there has always been MAKE MONEY. partly to show my father we dont need him even more than he thought. but i know i am capable of loving which is why i still want a family..i dont know guys. its my life & its hard to explainWait, just re-read this. You think if you DON'T become a career woman, you'll STRUGGLE?The majority of the population aren't career-minded yet they don't struggle for the most part, what makes you think YOU will unless you live beyond your means...i dont know. to tell the truth i just realised this now whilst arguing with you guy so i just dont know.never thought it affected me this much to tell the truth

lol UNFORTUNATELY YOU HAVE.my father is a wealthy career man & he still left my mother & we struggled. she has worked HARD to get us where we are right now. but i dont want to struggle i dont think i am strong enough to tell the truth. i dont want to love a man and leave my career only for him to leave me with nothing. because if my father did it why cant any other man do it to me?so at the top of my list there has always been MAKE MONEY. partly to show my father we dont need him even more than he thought. but i know i am capable of loving which is why i still want a family..i dont know guys. its my life & its hard to explain

and there you have itthink about all the successful business tycoons off the top of ya headdo you think they see their family as much as they want?of course nota real career person is on call for work 24 7 to be honestthese are the things your likely to have to choose between or rather the things you may have to missyour childs school playyour kids parents eveningyour kids karate lessonsetc etcmost of the things that kids do are in the DAY and most business hours are 9 to 5 but other organisations like insurance and banking can be pretty much 24 hours a day.ya just not gonna have to time to do both i aint saying dont be a career chick but dont THEN think you can move to a man and expect him to be on settling straight away cos ya playing catch up life dont work like that you have to go thru the "getting to know me" stage like any one else i dont care whats in ya wallet.lol making me feel bad!!! like i said before... i am still a single person so natuarally right now i would think more about myself. but i am still discovering what i want to do. and if i have a long term boyfriend and everything is good then when it comes to decision making this will hugely influence my decision so it can suit both of us.i will always have my degree so if things between us are good i will be a working woman. if not it might not be worth giving up then & there. do u get what i am saying???? that there is compromising..

basically a career woman is someone who concentrates on her job to me. moving up in the company etc. meaning you might have to relocate and travel because of your job.but i think.. the job will take up your time but not all of it. because you are doing projects or for profits etc. and in what i want to do it is mainly going to be early years. thats why i cant have children early. but i dont see why it can get in the way of a relationship. there are always weekends & evenings and holidays and some days.i dont know im probably wrongSo while she is concentrating on her job... where is the time to concentrate on her relationship and family? Do you think weekends and holidays will be sufficient for a healthy relationship?Imo... It's all well and good wanting to have dreams and a career... however as a woman if you want to have a family you have to find balance... working full time can't run.You may start your career early MissBee... but what about when you're ready to have children but you've been given a promotion... which will you choose? A career woman would choose the latter... thus prolonging the creation of a family... then they have the audacity to moan when it becomes too late to concieve and ur relationship fails... then ur wishin u could take back the yrs of only concentrating on work.And what career woman finds time to breastfeed their child?i would like to be the type that leaves the guy to do the working but if he leaves where does that leave me??? least i know i will always have a degree to back me up if i decide not to work too hard and i can still get a good job but be a working woman not a career woman. if its worth it.

basically a career woman is someone who concentrates on her job to me. moving up in the company etc. meaning you might have to relocate and travel because of your job.but i think.. the job will take up your time but not all of it. because you are doing projects or for profits etc. and in what i want to do it is mainly going to be early years. thats why i cant have children early. but i dont see why it can get in the way of a relationship. there are always weekends & evenings and holidays and some days.i dont know im probably wrongNot probably. You ARE wrong.good then. its not like i want to be an investment banker or doctor. that would require my time 24/7. i wil have to work a lot and sometimes travel for projects but i dont think i would be the worst... i would get weekends & evenings & holidaysI think you're confused with what a career woman is...Weekends?LMFAO...I'm dying inside.it starts out hectic but goes back to normal after like 3/4 yrs tho.

ok maybe not for the first few years!! damn stop killing my dream

basically a career woman is someone who concentrates on her job to me. moving up in the company etc. meaning you might have to relocate and travel because of your job.but i think.. the job will take up your time but not all of it. because you are doing projects or for profits etc. and in what i want to do it is mainly going to be early years. thats why i cant have children early. but i dont see why it can get in the way of a relationship. there are always weekends & evenings and holidays and some days.i dont know im probably wrongNot probably. You ARE wrong.good then. its not like i want to be an investment banker or doctor. that would require my time 24/7. i wil have to work a lot and sometimes travel for projects but i dont think i would be the worst... i would get weekends & evenings & holidays

lol i was laughing at this with my friends the other time!!!and yesterday i watched the show were the woman was like testing i think it was the 14th man!! the hell do you get confused between 14 men?! nasty! means she was with them around the same time!!from the moment they can go on tele and put their private lives on show you know they have issues. such people are just not clever really. from the time they could not get the men to wear condoms or at least get sterilized you know they have issues..

basically a career woman is someone who concentrates on her job to me. moving up in the company etc. meaning you might have to relocate and travel because of your job.but i think.. the job will take up your time but not all of it. because you are doing projects or for profits etc. and in what i want to do it is mainly going to be early years. thats why i cant have children early. but i dont see why it can get in the way of a relationship. there are always weekends & evenings and holidays and some days.i dont know im probably wrong

i dont know man.. i know the careers i want require me to be very hard-working & stuff. BUT i know i still want a good man by my side. i dont know will cross that bridge when i come to it.i am not a selfish person so i know i can compromise. and compromising to make sure we BOTH dont make a mistake. and i know it can be good if we both give and take not just take & take & take.but life is not all roses

match made in heaven? lol

to tell the truth i am speaking from a single person's point of view so things might change so dont attack me too muchif i get with a career man i would give up going for the top job that keeps me in the office 7am-10pm mon-sun. but i will still work though but considerable shift so i am at home with the kids weekeds and during the week i finish at a good time to be home to make dinner be with my kids & my husband. & if my job requires me to travel i wont take it. that is compromising. its not being selfish.if he is not a career man i will still consider that i have time with him and God forbid my hisband becomes a stay at home daddy. but we would have to talk it over coz bills still need to be paid

If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told.what do you view as a career woman then? because we might have different definitions hereWomen don't focus on their careers for the same reason men do. They don't do it to accumulate wealth for them and their families unlike men.See, MEN grind for themselves & family.Women do it for themselves only. Women nowadays have this complex where you want to be like us, not realising you have a f*ckin' role and you must abide to it. Not saying women can't go out and make a life for themselves but don't let it interfere with your role. And don't be naive to think you can do BOTH FFS, because something WILL suffer whether it be the kids or your job.i think thats bull. some women might be selfish but most are not.if i am making my own money its not to belittle my husband. as long as he is not a bum he can do what makes him happy. just because i can have a high flying job does not mean i will f*ck my husband less or not breast feed my children.if i make money its for MY family i always come last. and i want a career so my family is happy and i am happy when they are happy.and i like shopping

thats why i was saying you talk and discuss. COMMUNICATE. because i might want to make my career work but i also want my relationship with my man to be a good one. but if i still concentrate on my career BUt i still make time for him, i still love him no less BUT i just cant make the decision of having babies so early does that make me a bad person?? is that selfish?

QUESTIONi see some guys say that sleeping with the occasional 'slag' is not cheating ye.lets say you wife says ok i understand my man has needs. and anytime you are in this weak position tell me about it & we can talk but if it doesnt help and you sleep with her i should be allowed to go and sleep with someone else. no feelings nothing the same way you are doing it. because she knows it she is not classing it as cheating just for whatever reason her man wants to shag another girl. (IM NOT JUSTIFYING THIS I AM ASKING CAUSE REMEMBER I SAID 2 WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT YE)what would you say? would that keep you from doing it often? i dont know if i put it across properly its hard to explain what i mean...& also another questioneven if your wife gives you enough sex & she loves you & treats you right etc. what is it with the occasional slags??

If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told.what do you view as a career woman then? because we might have different definitions here

sorry. just i had a lot to say. and every fullstop is where its meant to be & i even made an attempt at having paragraphs. you dont have to read anyways because you probably wont agree anyways and that is 2mins of your life gone

i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish????