unforunetly dem tings hapen an obviously its not the victims fault. dis hapnd to a ex of mine. frm my experience wi her it cant be a lash an dash ting. i neva perceived it to be a problem cah i kno myself (at the tym i ws a good boy) an i wouldnt have messed her around, bt all time and effort in the world may stil not be enuff. only get involved with this girl if its a serious ting u lookin for. bt same time u gotta stay weary of dem (and never give them too much of u emotionally), cah because of whats happened to them they CANT fully turst anyone, and they'll end up shitting on u because they dont kno any better. it'll take alot of hard work and effort to bring dem round, an IF u do its stil 50/50. only get involved if u've already got serious feelings for her, if u aint... sorry to say its probly best left alone. more tym it would be down to the individual cah some people cope better den others, this is jus my oppinion frm wha ive been throughdont lash an dash tho, u can end up hurting dem deeper then u realise