LIQUID

more tym wen u day dream or u just drift off and ur mind always ends up on them. or like some of dem brehs ^^^ sed when u forgive them for sh*t that would be a problem if someone else did it.be careful tho wen u love someone its hard to shake off if sh*t hits the fan so keep ur distance if u feel urself fallin

thats kinda dangerous ground stil, but i can see wer ur comin from. some ppl can take the tough love ting on board weras others may snap an take it the wrong way. with the girl i knew who was doin it i just gave her time and attention and since that shes actually told me thanx for been there for her cah she might have killed herself. im glad i was there for her but it kinda take the piss cah from this girl i kno of two other girls who are doing this aswel. enda the day self harm is a serious ting an if u kno someone doin it just try an support them as best as u can enit

when i was 7 i was gonna aswel i picked up the knife and ws drawin it on my skin, then when i realised that would hurt i put the knife to my stomach an was gonna purposefully fall on it, i dont fully remember why i didnt but im glad i never. my parents had split an the time an my head was fillin with a bag of stress. that was a rough year for me

i cant really say its emotionally cheating but if u find urself giving more of ur time to sumone else then ur relationship is in trouble an like face off sed apply one of the above mentioned. if all thats a big long for you then its best to just end it on good terms before things get messy an people get hurt

tru stories blood, i can deffo see that now, infact i cant even lie most gyal i kno u only hear from dem when they got free o2 txts or voda free weekends. with my ex at the time aint gonna lie the girl ws peng, my glad bag nearly buss i seen it as a good ting i was gettin all that sudden attention, which ws blindin me from the simple and obvious truth..... all that attention on fone dont really count for sh*t. easy come easy go as they say

with my of latest ex's, bwoi the convo's just would not end. the first time we spoke on fone she called me at 7:30 on friday (them times voda free weekends used to start) an we spoke through till it cut off on sunday midnight. she had musa bout 4 fones an i had 3, the batteries on the fone would die out after a few hours an the we would change the chips to a nex fone whilst the others wer charging. one straight weekend of chattin, there were quiet moments but we were still comfortable with that. that was intended to be a one off bt she tried it every weekend after that til we split, most times we would talk for hours and it werent a problem, but if im goin out or wanna sleep i cant talk whilst im doing that an it took a while for her to grasp but she did in the end. upon reflection that takes the piss i kno, but at the time i was still green, wet behind the ears an thought i was in love so i saw it as a good thing.i cant even say that was time wasted cause i've learnt from it. i'll jus chalk that one up to experience and being naive

mek her get angry if she wants, shes showin man no respect so she gets no respect.if she gets angry to the point shes in ur face.... kick in the CROTCH standard proceedure.

i discovered a while ago that a female friend of mine self harms. but after talking to her for a while and picking her brain, at the time, i discovered she did it cah of how men used to make her feel. the girl used to cut her arms and her body, and even carved her current boyfriends (at the time) name in her forearm. i thought it was some type of rare ting and disturbing ting (dont get me wrong i suppose it is) but within the last month i seen a whole documentay bout self harming and why people might do it. apparently people do it because of lonelyness, depression, attention and even love.has or is, anyone in this forum self harming? what are your thoughts on the matter?(sorry if this is poseted in the wrong place)

if u both adults den der shudnt be a prob at all. if u both jus dont want ppl to know u both shud have the balls (/an understanding) to say u dont want ppl to kno an u must act in a certain way, blah blah, etc.if u walked into class now finkin everyfinks bless an u get blanked den boy.... cant even lie uno.. u got took for a CHEIF an a ARSEWIPE for real... then she fonin ya fone to chil afterwards like say its greeeze.... lower than chin cah ur gettin took for a MOOK

first of all LMFAO i choked on my drinksecond tingshe foned u blood, she willing to make the journey, shes on u bad, i say blood it is what it is why fight it. i can see what ur sayin bout the conscience ting, but u also said rather den payin a cab driver 35 pound she mus pay u 20 an u'll get her home, u cant say fairer then that.now that ur conscience is fully clear, stop stressin an buss a nut

what are you eating? LMFAO

for a relationship obv emotion.one night stand hornyif u tryin to generate a relationship getting her horny is dangerous, cah she'll want sex. #1 sex too soon can potentially f*ck up any relationship, cah wether u admit it or not u lose respect for someone if they free it up too soon (u'll think if they havin sex with me so soon, they'd free it up to anyone quick time, or you think they dont respect themselves so why should i, etc). #2 if shes horny and u dont f*ck her, please believe me when i say she WILL f*ck out.if u want a one night stand, emotional is no good at all. if ur plan is to lash an dash no one wants an emotional stranger hottin up their line 24/7 (or if u choopid, showin up at yard or work).decide which u one u want and act accordingly

first time i fingered a gyal, the pum daint smell too fresh an rah gave me a headache. i had to pretend my fone was vibrating an talk to air for a excuse to leave without looking like a d*ckheadsmelly pum = not the one

tbh blood it was her always on my line uno, an me not even wantin to chat to her (bt i did out of manners), den i slipped up an let her kno i started to like her thats wen all this playin games bullshit started to occur. wen someones on u bad an u kno this, its kinda hard to let that go, its kinda like losing ur number one fan, duno if im explaining it ryt but hope u can see wha im tryin to say.more tym shes finkin gt him wer i wnt him but im not that guy, her attitude needs to come better uno cah im the type of guy that will fall off the face of the earth never to be seen again. bt if it come down to seein her and not seeing her i would prefer to see her obv but i need a way to get her out of her current mindset wer she finks she gt control over man cah shed be pullin sh*t like this everytime tings ai goin her way, in which case its best left alone neway, ucmiaint no friend zone neither pressed it already.

sorry blood when i say flaked i mean, appears to be showing no real interest

basically one ting i was workin with over the last few months has flaked in the past few weeks. we gelled so well so fast but the past few weeks its all gone to sh*t. we were txtin an talkin on msn quite literally day and nyt, den after a few weeks of one constant convo it started to wear a little thin, til one time she just daint txt man bk. while all this big talk was goin on, i absolutely forgot myself and accidentally validated her rather then keepin her in the grey area of uncertainty (i dont like playin games but with gyal if u show no love u get no love, if u show too much interest u get sh*t on). now we hardly communicate, on fone sometime she'l strike up a convo then golla go all of a sudden, or txt man a few times den not txt bk (like delibererately gettin my attention to blank me). i think shes tryin to play games so ive linked a few gyal since bt nuffin serious. with my current frame of mind if i never see her again i can honestly say i wont be cutting my wrists. but i did check for the girl an my mind keeps crossin on her.this girls has flaked an i know this, but is there anyway for me to recover?proper feedback plz

if u neva wanna c dem ageni am gay(blatent ur not cah u wuldnt have f*cked dem, but awquard enough to make dem leave)for round 2*blatent awquard cough* that was sh*t(wants to leave a good inpression

as a gyal im dealin with, u'll get treated good an have respect from me so long as u act right. if a female im wiv comes at me dem bars "im stoppin over at a male friends yard" thats fine, they get the thumbs up + wink from me, no long. they could be stoppin at der male friends yard a little more if they wanted to, thats their business. just dont fone or txt my fone at any point in time after u've stopped there cah one ting i dont take... is disrespect. if u an sumbody ment to be deh u shuldnt hav to be told how to act, if u need to be told ur slack.u get treated good til u mess it up for yaself... then u get used or get air

when it comes to any form of relationship, wether we admit or not we all like to be the dominent party.(in regard to the opposite sex) who plays mind games? and what sort of games do you play to get leverage on others and keep them in check?Discuss in great detail

timing and location are key.wait till u are definetly in love b4 u say it, make sure u aint on sum highschool love antix aka lust.also be sure that she feels roughly the same way, cah sayin u love sumone then gettin "awww thanx" in responce, is not the one by far.

eye contac for the first time is nice. its one of the only pure/ honest moment between opposite sex's, cah u kno nothin is going to come of it so ur eyes and body language say exactly wha ur feeling.duno bout goin bk an chattin to dem dow dats long, if i like d girl im flaggin it b4 she walks past. if she already gone its nyc to be noticed bt wouldnt giv it a second thought though

yo blood ur catchin feelings before you've had sex with her, u need to hold it down betta den dat uno. if u did have sex you'd be proper in love an ting absolutely forgettin yaself. from wen shes juglin man u'd get manipulated so bad if she clocked on ur catchin feelings. if u can get your mind in the state wer u can press it like its greeze then go ahead, but if you kno ur gonna fall for her, its best left alone no front is worth broken hearts an headaches an den ting deh.bear in mind if she did finish with her man, she'd be with the "other guy" before u.the whole thing is jus a bag of stress, best left alone.none of these threads are gonna change ur mind really, so just pray on it an see wha revelations are made

At uni, studio and at gigs mostly uno lol nah i see an kno wha ur sayin blood. but yo if i am commin across whimpy an sorry for myself.. bwoi.. it must be in the translation cah in real life im not that guy, no gyal is to peng for me stil, i must not wording my comments ryt .

Ask your self this Liquid.No sendage but girls pick up on things too ya know.And yeah there are decent Wifey's left. And maybe the standards you are setting are too high/unrealistic.standards should never be set lower than the highest, if thats the case then to you the local bosh will seem like a decent wifeyf*ck THAT!theres standards and there is unrealistic requirements most of you want a girl that is sexy and only had 3 men in her entire life yet she can f*ck you better then any girl on the planetdont really compute does itgirls have kinda lowed the MANDEM back in the day girls would NOT go out with a guy with a yute (not as much)nowadays they embrace it and are prepared to HELP guys with kids and even MOTIVATE you if your WASTEthe amount of girls that told me their man was this and that and was on road shotting and the girl came like a mentor in their lifething is i have seen this so i dont know what guys are bitching abouti complain but my only quarms is mixing me with their male friendsAll valid points stil.face off i can see what your saying. everysingle one of us has a history. i kno im not in a position to judge ppl. im not bitching bout there history or whatever. my only real problem is they beg wifey status i.e. they wanna be called wifey and treated like wifey, but same time dey dont act like it. my biggest problem is they beg wifey status bt they dont work for it, they dont make any special effort. basically like u said my only quarms is being mixed in with there male friends. If its just sex the girl wants fine it can be that, but dont beg wifey then treat me like im just any breh. that is what i cant stand.

jus cah i want more from a gyal den sex dont mean im a mug stil. just sex on its own all the time i feel is kinda shallow, bt im sure many of u will disagree. im a honest guy, i dont lie to women an say i wanna wife ya wen i dont just to get sex. sex for me is not a problem. findin something deeper tho IS the problem. im not sayin findin a wifey is number one priority bt it wuld make a refreshing change.O-Guy Just cah im thinkin with more then my d*ck dont make me female blood. If anything it makes me more of a man cah i can control myself.it probly is that my standards are too high maybe.