Would you get into a serious relationship or have your first child with someone who already has a kid?Me personally i wouldnt get into nothing deep with a female that already had a child and would definately not want my first kid to be her second or fourth one.I dont think its selfish to want that, i mean when i'm 50 and i meet a female i cant expect anything less but late teens early twenties, its not unreasonable to want something fresh where u both experience children etc for the first time together.Whats your opinion?