Giles Deacon

Before Kaygee, I was the only girl who spoke since you last spoke Sagat.So where was the need to say:How can EVERY guy here be on the same page and women STILL not get it.Like I'm arguing with you?!You guys have said your piece. We get it!No one has said otherwise.I simply asked if you guys have girlfriends and you're all off on one.This whole 'it wouldn't happen to me' stuff is RUBBISH! Neg me, shout at me all you want but I'm telling you now, nothing in this life is guaranteed except death. that includes, cancer, bereavement, HIV, partners cheating, bankruptcy, promotions, illness, drug addiction etc etc. we can all say never but it's not in your hands.'Humans are not immune to the trials an tribulations of life.'So can we come with mature chat please.And for the record, I'm not going to Napa. Been with my boyfriend for three years and am certainly no link. So don't assume, it make you look unintelligent.

I rest my case

You are f*ck*ng stupidHow ironic.I'm not going to Napa.I'm going to Mexico one of the aforementioned 'allowed' holiday destinations for womenI highly doubt you're my typeA guy calling me stupid based on incorrect assumptions says he would never date me? Bummer.You know this all started 'cause I asked if you have a girlfriend? some defensive guy.lose the anger, its unnecessary

if your long-term girlfriend mentions she may go napa this year with her friend your life is a par??was trying to have a mature conversation.but on that note, goodnight guys

Im not actually looking for any trouble or 3 page convoyou guys are dishing out advice, and I'm asking have you been in that predicament personally.Not once did I say if you haven't it effects you're judgment or advice-giving abilities.I'd rather hear real life stories of how people handled this sensitive subject than be preached to like say your word is gospel.

was only asking.its a thread on letting your partner go to Napa.wondering if you've been in this predicament

do you have a girlfriend mbd?

i usually do that actually, jus put my head phones in

following you on twitter nola, not long started using it only got about 15 followers *tear*

my nails are finally back to a healthy state after acrylics, only took four months!building up my summer collection or polishes now :)going away in a few weeks, dont want the hastle of repainting every few days but my heart sinks at the thought of acrylics.are gels any better?

still dont know the best way to turn someone down without causing an atmosphere or have them thinking you're too nice.these days a simple 'I have a boyfriend' does not suffice.Most you men don't care smh.gets to the point where being polite isn't making you leave, so do I get rude? do I just walk off what??!

same to you. you've said your piece. why do you need 15 pages to say the same thing.Just because you said it over and over (and over and over) doesn't mean people have to miraculously agree with your opinion. Entertain someone else's opinion and move forward with a mature debate*plus, why wont you say if you have a serious girlfriend or not?

It's true though, do any of you guys have girlfriends that you have been with exclusively for over 1.5-2 years? (serious relationship time in my opinion)I could cheat on my man in Liverpool, in London, in Napa, Mexico, Poland, Bali, Congo, Germany boy I could cheat any where, clapham, oxford street, boots in stratford shopping centre.So could he.Can't let that consume you for the rest of your life. Makes for an unhealthy relationship

What if you're a fashionable lesbian?

I do intend to read that, but I'm gonna make a snack and a cup of tea before I start

I need to get out of this situation, it's not good for my sanity

thanks, Heatherette and Mac I couldn't think of a better combo :)and as for the business...it's like I think I've covered everything, then something crops up, then something else then something else etcI don't see myself breaking even for a while let a lone make a profit. It's really come to that point where it's like do or die.I keep pretending to hear Theo Paphitis' voice in my head spurring me on hahaha how sad. whatever works though I guess lol

finding it even more difficult to set up my own business then I ever imagined

^^ So Obama shouldn't have recieved all that media attention for being the first mixed race president, because white people had achieved it years before him? Stop hating

How can you have such a nonchalant approach.You don't deserve to be a dad imo. Some waste attitude

anti-vent 'cause I had good news this week (finally) I got a job *fist pump*

You're preaching to the choir lol

thought I was the only one! I have nearly all the colours they are so lovely for the summer, you really get what you pay for though

yeh it's the dynasty one that keeps getting air bubbles!Ok will try those things thanks for the help.I like the Rimmel brushes the best, the ones that are shaped to the nail, you can literally paint one stroke and your whole nail is covered

girls can anyone help?lately I've been painting my nails and after they've dried they have all air bubbles underneath and it looks awful!I thought maybe the varnish was too thick so I thinned it out with remover, it dried easier but half an hour later...more air bubbles.What the hell is it it's so random :sNail varnishes I've used are collection 2000, Rimmel and Barry M