missBee

i think people are not bothered about asians because they never invaded their territory & enslaved anyone. they pretty much keep to themeselves & they might talk but noone is listening coz its not affecting anyone the day it does they will be taken into account. the white men on the other hand is on trial becuase he had to go do something lol. & correct me if im wrong but that is not the topic we r discussing is it?& please pple dont start with the racist names coz im sure u wouldnt want the white or asian people calling u n****s. so there was no need 4 that...

When you got that frame of mind that you are worse off then it will effect your every day life and you will regard most people around you as against you. Ever thought people might not choose you for something because of your personality or looks and not your race. Its easy to blame yourself not getting a job due to race.i know it is which is why i review every time i dont get a job & i know oh i was just blubbering on on this one, i really didnt know what to say on this one, i didnt want that job anyways. but when im on point & answer every que fully & i know i looked more professional than the other person & had more experience (having spoken to the other person outside the interview room) & when i entered the room the woman looks at me like ima nightmare & the interview is like 5 mins long then i dont get the position & i c the other person working there.. what am i to think?? some things are easier to ignore but at times id rather notIt happens to everyone when you go for an interview. Not saying that race dont come into it but to say every job interview you dont get chosen due to your race is pretty pathetic. It could have been because of your clothes, your hairstyle, the way you speak or a number of things. Its quite silly really that you are blaming all your failures because of your race. It happens but not on the scale you make it out to be.because u dont fully understand i will just agree with u & leave it at that

im not a racist person or bitter. just if u give me something like this i will argue it for u. because if a person is going to come to me & say we are equals & we clearly are not i will tell u. & if u tel me racism is gone & it clearly isnt i will tel u because i have experienced it.but i dont walk around preaching that i hate white pple becuase i dont. i remember my heritage & my history but i just dont use it as a way of viewing other races in a negetive way. but at the end of the day being black comes with the history.& wen i sed successful pple i didnt mean footballers & actors only. i met even pple in uni, doctors, nurses, teachers etc. & i used the media as an example because it outlines it more clearly

i can tell u countless times that i have gone into an interview and could see i clearly did not get the job because of my skin colour if they had not ben able to tell from my name already. if u were to go into an interview with a black boy you are more likely to get it not because of ur skills but because u r white. the only reasons they employ black people is for the look (show me more than 1 black person working in toni & guy) and because racism is a crime now. black is not regarded as beautiful. ask vogue and mainstream cinema. ask estelle im sure in a yrs time she will be caramel when they are done bleaching her. ask whoopi 7 she will tel u y she doesnt get romance movies or a lot of movies now. its espeacially easier being a black man than a black woman when it comes to the argument on beauty. i could carry on with this one. slavery has always been around tribes yes. stronger tribes taking over another etc. guns where not present btw until the white man introduced them to those kings. greed is a sin that many pple possess im not going to justofy that. but sayign destroying a whole nation is ok because they where doing it already i dunno if i can agree with that.regarding the beautiful talk...whoppi is butters full stop...your going on like evry white woman is seen as pengnaomi cambell and beyonce are seen as beautiful no? estelle is ugly not becasue of her skin because of her f*cked head tbhthis whole post especially the red killed ur whole argument and proved my point. i beg someone break it down to him.i will gladly!!! lolnaomi campbell. shud i even start! u know her more for her attitude than her modelling career. what do u c more in papers or magazines? "naomi modells coture etc" or "naomi hits her maid"??? she is the drama that they need to make money. they franchise off her attitude. she is a joke & a picture they are painting of most if not all black women. that they have attitude & love their fake horse hair! kmt! naomi! the nerve u had to drop her name& beyonce! lol. i cudnt even tell the difference between her & shakira in beautiful liar. she is practically white. did u see that the lighter she got the more famous she became? look at writing's on the wall cd she is much darker & more black isnt she??? she is only famous because she is light skinnedwant to drop more names?? maybe you will see the pattern forming.I was with you until the beyonce part.She is not only famous because shes light skin, thats taking the piss outta how hard she has worked.ye i guess she has worked hard & i think she does have a beautiful voice. but imagine her wit darker skin is what im saying. its just made things easier for her

When you got that frame of mind that you are worse off then it will effect your every day life and you will regard most people around you as against you. Ever thought people might not choose you for something because of your personality or looks and not your race. Its easy to blame yourself not getting a job due to race.i know it is which is why i review every time i dont get a job & i know oh i was just blubbering on on this one, i really didnt know what to say on this one, i didnt want that job anyways. but when im on point & answer every que fully & i know i looked more professional than the other person & had more experience (having spoken to the other person outside the interview room) & when i entered the room the woman looks at me like ima nightmare & the interview is like 5 mins long then i dont get the position & i c the other person working there.. what am i to think?? some things are easier to ignore but at times id rather not

what motivates me to be successful is actually that the man expects me not to be. black people that have succeeded are proud for the same reason. & dont think it has all been roses throughout coz ignorance is not always bliss.

i can tell u countless times that i have gone into an interview and could see i clearly did not get the job because of my skin colour if they had not ben able to tell from my name already. if u were to go into an interview with a black boy you are more likely to get it not because of ur skills but because u r white. the only reasons they employ black people is for the look (show me more than 1 black person working in toni & guy) and because racism is a crime now. black is not regarded as beautiful. ask vogue and mainstream cinema. ask estelle im sure in a yrs time she will be caramel when they are done bleaching her. ask whoopi 7 she will tel u y she doesnt get romance movies or a lot of movies now. its espeacially easier being a black man than a black woman when it comes to the argument on beauty. i could carry on with this one. slavery has always been around tribes yes. stronger tribes taking over another etc. guns where not present btw until the white man introduced them to those kings. greed is a sin that many pple possess im not going to justofy that. but sayign destroying a whole nation is ok because they where doing it already i dunno if i can agree with that.regarding the beautiful talk...whoppi is butters full stop...your going on like evry white woman is seen as pengnaomi cambell and beyonce are seen as beautiful no? estelle is ugly not becasue of her skin because of her f*cked head tbhthis whole post especially the red killed ur whole argument and proved my point. i beg someone break it down to him.i will gladly!!! lolnaomi campbell. shud i even start! u know her more for her attitude than her modelling career. what do u c more in papers or magazines? "naomi modells coture etc" or "naomi hits her maid"??? she is the drama that they need to make money. they franchise off her attitude. she is a joke & a picture they are painting of most if not all black women. that they have attitude & love their fake horse hair! kmt! naomi! the nerve u had to drop her name& beyonce! lol. i cudnt even tell the difference between her & shakira in beautiful liar. she is practically white. did u see that the lighter she got the more famous she became? look at writing's on the wall cd she is much darker & more black isnt she??? she is only famous because she is light skinnedwant to drop more names?? maybe you will see the pattern forming.

@thunim not saying that we all use the black card as an excuse. all im saying is that it is clearly an explanation for most things & cant be ignored. it is definately not the only reason for problems. every race suffers but i cannot feel for every race BUT my own but i can only empathise. & even when both white & black suffer you definately cant deny that black is worse off. @ profit2yes many black pple are successful. ask them how hard they have had to work? how many bumpy roads they have come across? im on my way to being successful & trust me young as i am i still get a lot of pple trying to push me down. i have been told i cant do this degree or that degree because i am black. i ave been looking for a job for over a yr but cant get 1 because my uni is in a white are. tell me do u ever get that? that is why i applaude every person of colour who is doing well for themeselves! because it is sooooo hard! easier to give up & do some not so legit stuff.. does that answer ur question about crime in the black community?

i can tell u countless times that i have gone into an interview and could see i clearly did not get the job because of my skin colour if they had not ben able to tell from my name already. if u were to go into an interview with a black boy you are more likely to get it not because of ur skills but because u r white. the only reasons they employ black people is for the look (show me more than 1 black person working in toni & guy) and because racism is a crime now. black is not regarded as beautiful. ask vogue and mainstream cinema. ask estelle im sure in a yrs time she will be caramel when they are done bleaching her. ask whoopi 7 she will tel u y she doesnt get romance movies or a lot of movies now. its espeacially easier being a black man than a black woman when it comes to the argument on beauty. i could carry on with this one. slavery has always been around tribes yes. stronger tribes taking over another etc. guns where not present btw until the white man introduced them to those kings. greed is a sin that many pple possess im not going to justofy that. but sayign destroying a whole nation is ok because they where doing it already i dunno if i can agree with that.

no one is saying lets all enslave the white man now. no. people are just saying they remember and the reason they remember so much is that they are still in somewhat the same situation. we are still slaves its just that you cant see the chains anymore. and at the end of the day who are these elite men? some white men? we are not saying go next door to average joe & cuss him out because he is white lol. we are saying that if you look back the white man changed everything, if you look around now a lot has changed for all of us yes but as a person of colour you are still at the bottom of the chain and try to contemplate what the futre will be like and you will see that not much will change. why? because it is a white man's world. very hard to change that. let obama fight but will a person of colour ever rule the western world? i dont kno. but probably yes but only if the man lets him thats what i think.

i agree. people where fine with their cultures & their way of living & it was all changed by the white man if we should put it that way. i remember being so pissed off when i watched apocalypto at the end when they see the ships with those invaders. i was just thinking u fought for ur life but u died anyways & we all kno y.. even when they had those pictures recently of some tribe i think it was in some jungle in south america. & i was just thinking its over for you lot u r done! soon you will be drinking coke & wearing jeans lol. people didnt need to think about jobs, think about money etc. but i guess things are bound to change & its good we ave all these things now etc. but its like did we have the choice??but we cant be mad at every white man like profit2 says. but at the end of the day you have to understand that even if we are not the ones who were enslaved we are stick feeling the pain because equality still does not exist & the white man stil looks at himself as more superior even after all these years. & even if you were not part of it you are still white & u still get more previeleges*. because u ave to admit that the 'man' owns this world. the white man wrote the bible thats why Jesus is white as well as God etc (but thats an argument for another day lol)when people speak of slavery now they are not talking about chains, being hung, being raped or working in plantations for nothing. slavery is more of a term of how unequal things are, discrimination etc. the chains and the whips are just invisible...anyways thats my opinion & i hope i ddnt get carried away lol

*deletes last sentence*hey that sentence was important!!! coz it shows i dont discriminate BUT i just have preferances!! in other words it was for insurance purposes lol.

probably means the church going type that dont go out clubbing & are easily put in check. the type that probably go to school because it is expected of them but their ambition is to give birth and look after the house and the husband. like luka said..they are rare. u probably have to go to the jungles of brazil or deep in africa to find one.but the word 'normal' anyways is one that is defined by society and at the end of the day who gave anyone the right to decide? that argument could carry on for years.. because everyone usually has their own definitions for normal.

ye a lot of nice white men out there!! i wud BUT theyr always beaten 2 it by the sexy brothas.. even with some of the black guys on white chicks there is stil a fair number of fine brothas left so until theyr all gone i will stick to the yummy chocolates & caramels!! but dont get me wrong i appreciate every race so who knows.. lol

make it hot ?yeahur lucky im not a war monger and that this aint old rwdTbh i don't care what you lot think. It will not effect me in anyway whatsoever.so say what you need to say.i love your style actually. the hairstyle & the colours. thats really nice. & the eye make-up! did u do it urself?? wat make-up did u use it looks really good. & u r pretty. (dont wori im straight!! lol)rich kid = hmmmm (not perving!!)

ooh i hate that 1!! jst dont like pple coming into a room im in & leaving the door open when it was clearly closeddont like pple squeezing the toothpaste from the middle. i cud kill a person 4 this 1!!pple leaving the tap dripping. pple who barely kno u just u speak 2 them sometimes & they see the need to always say 'i kno u, u r like...' it annoys me soooo much coz i just hate when pple assume that they kno me!!pple who try 2 put fake accents on!! like a person with an african accent putting on a jamaican accent. omg!!! that is just annoying 2 the point wer i actually stop listening!!pple coming in2 my room...esp in uni wer my room is my home..& start touching stuff!! esp if i dnt even kno u that much but ur jst ther with my frend as their frend!! pple txting me before 12 midday. if im not at work or in lectures im def sleeping! if im at work or in lectures im def not happy 2 b up at that hour anyways loli cud carry on.... lol

oops double post!! wil leave this 1!!pple that make unnecessary comments on my clothes. like if im wearing shorts & they go 'arent u cold?' NO! if i was would be wearing trousers or probably just tights!! y it bothers them so much i just dont understand...

id choose the top half 2 be a sausage coz i will be 1 of them freaks so least i stil ave a brain & can talk & i can stil ave sex with other top half sausage freaks. lol. but if im bottom half sausage they mite not have any private parts lol. if i was a mermaid.. id be the 1 thats bottom fish only coz it wud look pretier than having a fish head with human legs lol.

lmao!!! this is one of the funniest posts ever!!! u guys r jokes!! lol @ just a corpse!! lol im dying here!!

im not scared of death in a way. whats life without death? its not that i think we are just living to die but i look at it as an improvement coz look at the world we live in.. its better moving on just make sure you lived right because you might move on to something worse..i believe in heaven & hell. if u r good you go to heaven & if u r bad you go to hell. God being the judge.

i kno how u feel i was in the same position!!! i would ave done almost ANYTHING for him! i cant believe i stayed for that looong but the worst bit is he broke up with me!! i should have done it first!! damn! & not for a good reason like marlon over there but because he was messing with someone else!! just makes me feel sick thinking about it! its guys like this that turn a good gal bad... i have truely learnt from this experience!!!

ye did once. but not during sex. called my ex by his best frend's name but thats coz their names are very similar. he wasnt pissed off tho.. he just looked at me & was like wat? & i just said i sed ur name & he looked at me funny for a bit then let it go. their names are soo similar he couldnt even argue it coz he thot i was telling the truth anyways lol! their names r jst too similar tho its like kevin & kelvin ur bound to get them mixed up sometimes! with a memory like mine he should ave been happy that it didnt happen all the time lol.

i had this man say to me "my wife and i divorced and she took the kids so im a single man now." i kid u not!! lol. i just walked away he deserved no responce from me coz dude was actually serious!!& i have had "marry me" loooool. this was wen i was in college & this dude had his family on the 4ne ready to send money etc. worst of all he ddnt speak english, was from some french speaking country, so he had his friend translating lol.& this guy sed to me once in zulu when i was in joburg s.a "u are a bottle and i am water. & im filling u." ddnt get it at first then realised how dry it was & just walked away.if i remember more i will add coz i ave come across quite a number of weirdos!!

i agree with this one!! too long = uncomfortable & too short =wtf?! lol. but sometimes if its long and thick enough = lol. but short & thick naaaahhh.

ooh i had forgotten vegetables! theyr realli good for u & try including them with all your meals. i like sweetcorn or just the mixed veg. the best way to enjoy them is to make them interesting. just steamed they are not that fun although healthier lol. but if theyr really fresh they are nicer just steamed or boiled. not too long though coz it takes away all the goodness(is that the word i wanted??). anyways i like stir frying my vegetables (prefereably with olive oil) which is good especially for those that dont like vegetables. & i put my sweetcorn in the pan and fry it with some low fat butter its gorgeous!!! lol. & instead of potato crisps try plaintain crisps they are lush & good for u. & instead of crisps or other snacks have things like dried fruit or nuts you can just snack on