smaddy Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 blad what do u mean ONLY IF she askedthats deep u knoa womans always wanna get married, thats like the ultimate accolade to a relationship for a woman, a woman is more likely to say yes than a mani dnt think thats fair u kno Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 I've been to two weddings this year of people I consider 'youngers'.It was jokes though, seeing bare goons and goonettes from ends scrubed up to celebrate a wedding.I wish the couples luck because marriage aint like school "You wanna go out with me? " then two days later its done. Also because they're young it wasn't to long ago they were linking or in different relationships like how us young people do. I couldn't bring my friend because he used to smash the smithereens out of the bride. Bun that.One of the married "youngers" happened to be called Michelle?But anywho I find that the one's whoi are marrying are the christians. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 I've been to two weddings this year of people I consider 'youngers'.It was jokes though, seeing bare goons and goonettes from ends scrubed up to celebrate a wedding.I wish the couples luck because marriage aint like school "You wanna go out with me? " then two days later its done. Also because they're young it wasn't to long ago they were linking or in different relationships like how us young people do. I couldn't bring my friend because he used to smash the smithereens out of the bride. Bun that.this is why i aint on marriage sometimes as the girl will more than likely be dumb enough to invite an ex to the wedding i would NEVER do this as i feel it would make her feel a way cos i WOULD if it was me but boy (thats a next story) girls cant be introducing guys to me that were in their past to WEDDINGS and family gatherings its the biggest form of disrespect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 i bet u learnt from that relationship tho innit, learnt something that will help u in the next oneHmmm, im tryna think of something that I did jsut to say yes......I mean, I got to know a little more about the "pshycology of a girl".....that is it I think, but then everyone is different, the ex i mentioned is..nowehre near, AT ALL, like my...current ex lol so I guess anything I leaned might gone out the window...Sex I guess tbh.. one great bonus from not being a virgin when u get marriedi dunno how it endedbut what about, not giving someone 100% when you dont kno if they will do the same?Honestly i have prefered "exploring" with my current girl/ex (its complicated)....dunno how we ended?N....I aint one to dive into relationships so id try to suss out beforehand if i thought they would be someoen who wouldnt give %100, cuz i dont wanna be givin my all but then my girl is not....I agree with face off about that sh*t being the highest disrespect though, inviting ex's anywhere is a big time no-no. the f*ck outta here with that sh*t. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dj ryda Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 i dont wanna get marriedsaid this from wen iw as 6 or suttinthen last week ma gyal goes 2 1 of dem people that read her future off cards or suttinn she said this time next year were gonna be engagedlmfaonow she told me thatam gonna make sure it dont happenbut stil it aint bout gettin engaged and marryin wen were stil in our 20's i told her if i marry u it wont be till am at least 36 1 of ma cousins got married at 21 stil but that was kinda a religious fing no kids b4 marridge even tho she was pregs wen she got marriedlol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 nothing wrong with getting married if you take precautions for it going wrong but doing that comes in the form of a prenup which imo goes against what marriage really is TRUSTbut people do it anyway and then end up in problems again i blame society and the legal system and DEFINATELY the media for this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAMECHI89 Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 blad what do u mean ONLY IF she askedthats deep u knoa womans always wanna get married, thats like the ultimate accolade to a relationship for a woman, a woman is more likely to say yes than a mani dnt think thats fair u knoLOL, nar nar nar... I didnt mean it like that.I meant I wouldnt propose around the age of 20 coz IMO that is still young BUT IF SHE DID then I would accept.No long ting. IF we were together from now untill just say late 20's and westill werent married then I WOULD propose.You get me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 i get youall depend on the individual, i think as long as you get ur career on the way and ur financially stable, theres no problem 25 or 35 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mist Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 i wouldn't consider marrage yet at 21...doe my friend is engaged, age 21 but her man is late 30's..n i dont think its rite i mean she's still young n should b free so its kinda put me off toooo much commitmentevery shud slow down n take it easy... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Onslaught Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 I am currently engaged. No wedding date decided as of yet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
...*Nisha*... Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 tbh i don't think i could get married now...2 me 20 is jus too young even though my mum got married at 18 n thati'd get engaged but the ideal age for marriage is about 25, once i've qualified 2 do what im studyin for and got a stable place of my own Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 20 is way to young, most 20 year olds are not even fully mature yet.Theres 1 girl from my school my cousin told me got married and my 1st reaction was "Thats a bit sad",Dunno why, but if they feel to do it thats them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 id get engaged nowf*ck ittheres always divorce Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 Thing is, for one reason or another, not sure I will live to 25, so its now or never. People always think they have all the time in the world, they do not. Though that does not at all mean do anything rash but...just be aware. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 Thing is, for one reason or another, not sure I will live to 25, so its now or never. People always think they have all the time in the world, they do not. Though that does not at all mean do anything rash but...just be aware.BANG!people always ask me why the f*ck i jus do what i wantcoz if i dnt do it now, i may never get the chance to.dying before starting to or accomplishing what i want to do is my worst fear Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savant Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 I've been to two weddings this year of people I consider 'youngers'.It was jokes though, seeing bare goons and goonettes from ends scrubed up to celebrate a wedding.I wish the couples luck because marriage aint like school "You wanna go out with me? " then two days later its done. Also because they're young it wasn't to long ago they were linking or in different relationships like how us young people do. I couldn't bring my friend because he used to smash the smithereens out of the bride. Bun that.One of the married "youngers" happened to be called Michelle?But anywho I find that the one's whoi are marrying are the christians.Yeah. She aint the bride that got mashed out though, thats a next one. I've been to two weddings this year of people I consider 'youngers'.It was jokes though, seeing bare goons and goonettes from ends scrubed up to celebrate a wedding.I wish the couples luck because marriage aint like school "You wanna go out with me? " then two days later its done. Also because they're young it wasn't to long ago they were linking or in different relationships like how us young people do. I couldn't bring my friend because he used to smash the smithereens out of the bride. Bun that.this is why i aint on marriage sometimes as the girl will more than likely be dumb enough to invite an ex to the wedding i would NEVER do this as i feel it would make her feel a way cos i WOULD if it was me but boy (thats a next story) girls cant be introducing guys to me that were in their past to WEDDINGS and family gatherings its the biggest form of disrespect.Said it. Not in front of Mum. Never. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted November 21, 2007 Report Share Posted November 21, 2007 Cypher it does happen, virgins, i know of some 20 year old Jehova's Witnesses, they are getting married in December, they are both virgins, i admire there commitment From an outside view, as i dont know the ins and outs of thir relationsip. (dont sidetract and turrn this in2 a JW hate thread) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mz Boyage Posted November 22, 2007 Report Share Posted November 22, 2007 id get married now, the way i see it is, im with him for the long hall not some "lets be together 3months and split" if you love someone and really want to spend your life together, then why not?i think its a beautiful way to show your comitment to your partner.whtas the difference in being 20somthing and being married and being 40somthing and being married...either way if its going to work it will, itf its not it wont...simple...somtimes you just gotta go with your heart and take a leap of faith.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAMECHI89 Posted November 22, 2007 Report Share Posted November 22, 2007 id get married now, the way i see it is, im with him for the long hall not some "lets be together 3months and split" if you love someone and really want to spend your life together, then why not?i think its a beautiful way to show your comitment to your partner.whtas the difference in being 20somthing and being married and being 40somthing and being married...either way if its going to work it will, itf its not it wont...simple...somtimes you just gotta go with your heart and take a leap of faith.... and hope you land on ya feet. Life is full of risks though. Some you just gotta take. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted November 22, 2007 Report Share Posted November 22, 2007 But what i want to know is why do people care about if someone is a virgin or not this doesnt make a person you know if they are they are if they aint they aint.what is special is the PRESENTnot the past. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAMECHI89 Posted November 22, 2007 Report Share Posted November 22, 2007 But what i want to know is why do people care about if someone is a virgin or not this doesnt make a person you know if they are they are if they aint they aint.what is special is the PRESENTnot the past. HmmmmI smell some indirect comments here. iJoke. LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Casper Posted November 22, 2007 Report Share Posted November 22, 2007 id get married now, the way i see it is, im with him for the long hall not some "lets be together 3months and split" if you love someone and really want to spend your life together, then why not?i think its a beautiful way to show your comitment to your partner.whtas the difference in being 20somthing and being married and being 40somthing and being married...either way if its going to work it will, itf its not it wont...simple...somtimes you just gotta go with your heart and take a leap of faith.... and hope you land on ya feet. Life is full of risks though. Some you just gotta take.Some ppl feel at the age of 20 some ppl still think they are still too young to make such a commitment...like they want to explore more, do things without regret, have fun...some ppl just ain't ready to lock that part of their life just yet. It works out for some people which is good and it doesn't work for others!At 40 something, I think you wud feel like you have to settle down, find a wife start a family and the rest of it, cause at that age, I don't think you would be able to do some of things you were doing at age 20+....even at 40, some people still feel they need to have fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted November 22, 2007 Report Share Posted November 22, 2007 as for getting married do itbut i would not support my son doing it he can be a man and support himself and show me at that age he can hack it until i see a young buck really fathom the term of commitment and sacrifice i dont see why i should help cos you aint even got the basics. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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