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its an easier read on the website: http://nwso.net/2011/02/22/saving-oral-sex-for-marriage/?“Suck my d*ck!”As much as I enjoy the exquisite art of head, to the best of my recollection, the above sentence has yet to come out of my mouth during the actual act. Mainly because of the negative connotation associated with requesting fellatio in such a manner. Quite frankly it’s rude and ungentlemanly. Plus, there’s the fact that actually asking someone to give you head is kind of corny. I want a chick to be like Lil’ Kim with hers: “I used to be scared of the d*ck/Now I throw lips to the sh*t/Handle is like a real chick…“But I digress….So the other day I was having an IM conversation with a female friend and somehow or other the subject of head came up. Not sure how or why, but it did. I wasn’t asking her to perform it or anything of the sort, it was just a general conversation on the oral arts.Anyway, I’ve heard sisters say they don’t do it or they don’t like it, but my friend surprised me when she said: “I’ll never do it (again) without a ring.”What does a ring have to do with giving head? Is there some fine print in a marriage license that specifies spousal oral gratification that I never heard about? Sure, I understand the underlying basis of her statement—that’s a part of her sexuality that she wants to reserve for someone she truly loves. Of course, you’re husband should get the full extent of your freakdom so I’m not knocking that at all, ’cause who really wants a woman that randomly places penises in her mouth at any given moment? So the idea of being selective about who gets “blessed” is respected, but, once again; What’s a ring have to do with it?You mean to tell me if I’ve faithfully dated someone for two years I’m not supposed to expect head—not even on special days—because I haven’t proposed? GTFOH! If that’s the case, let me know from jump because then I can hold out on eating your pucci until you lose 10 pounds. (Oink! Oink! I know it’s sexist, I just couldn’t think of a better analogy. Sue me).It’s not like I make a habit of going down on just anybody but if I enjoy a little “catnip” and care about you enough to be with you for X amount of time, I shouldn’t indulge myself in pleasuring you just because I don’t see marriage in our immediate future? Sorry, I don’t get the logic. If you’re not into it that’s one thing, but if you enjoy going down on someone or any other sexual act, I don’t see why someone should retire until they get hitched. But to each his or her own.Now after pressing the issue further, my friend added more clarity to her stance on the topic: “It’s degrading.”Pardon? Giving head is degrading? Since when?I don’t know what dudes she’s been dealing with but it’s a beautiful, splendiferous and immaculate act in my book. If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a million times, if head isn’t at least part of my wife’s sexual arsenal we may have a problem. Not saying it has to be an every night thing, but I plan to be married for life and the idea of not having head for the rest of my sexual life is not an option that I’m willing to consider. Sorry, I love it too much. In fact, when done right it can be better than sex itself. (Yes, I did just say that).I feel like I went off on a tangent (happens when I’m talking about something I’m passionate about LOL). Now where was I….Oh, yeah, head is degrading? That one threw me for a loop. But my friend continued to explain that her view goes back to the insulting nature of telling someone to “suck my d*ck.” She likened it to being one step below saying, “F#ck you” to someone. (Funny how two sexual acts have been relegated to insults, but just add “I want to” in front of either phrase and it goes from fighting words to f#cking words). Still, I could see where she was coming from.If a guy callously skeets in a girl’s face and treats her like a porn star when she didn’t want to be, then yeah that’s degrading. But not everyone is thinking about head in that context when it’s about to go down—especially if you’re about to go down too. Insulting you or degrading you is the last thing on my mind at that point in time. In fact, the woman has all the power in that situation. “You want me to take you to out tomorrow? You want me to put on some Timbs and a fitted and twirl a hula-hoop? Sure, anything, just don’t stop what you’re doing, girl.”In the name of all head givers and head lovers I defended the acts honor. Yes, blatantly telling someone to suck your d*ck is disrespectful, partly why I never ask for it and if I do it’s much more subtle than that. (“Come on, just say hello, girl…” LOL) In fact, I can’t even fathom myself uttering “suck my d*ck” in the heat of the moment because I can understand the insult factor in those words if taken out of context. I may say, “I like the way you suck my d*ck” or “don’t stop sucking my d*ck” but where’s the harm in that? It’s just pillow talk, girl.See, I enjoy head—giving it, receiving it, watching it, whatever—because head is a “blessing” indeed. You don’t have to do it for me, just like I don’t have to do it to you, but the fact you are is an added bonus to our physical relationship that is welcomed with open arms (and mouths). Yeah, it can be viewed as a selfish act because only one person is receiving pleasure, but giving my partner pleasure gives me pleasure and I hope whomever I’m intimate with would view it the same way. That’s not to say that just any and everyone should get hit off, but if they are lucky enough to get blessed you better be sure to put your all in. We’re here at this moment to pleasure each other, so let’s take it to the limit. Why hold back? Cause I didn’t give you a ring? Whatever.In the bedroom, I operate under the philosophy that you should do unto others as you would have done unto you. So it’s not that selfish an act on my part. No 68 and I owe you one crap. And trust that I’m not going to look at you in any negative way just because you “blessed” me. I’ll respect you in the morning, noon, night, right now and right after. In fact, I’ll respect you even more if you admit that you enjoy it just as much as me. Own your sexuality and oral skills. If you don’t, then yeah, maybe you shouldn’t be doing it after all. Nothing’s worse than a half-ass blowjob or someone complaining during the whole act (“Is that enough?” “Can I stop now?” UGH! You’re ruining it…)Funny thing is, when I was an adolescent I never would have thought head would be such a big deal. I was under the naive assumption that Black girls didn’t even do that and I sure as hell wasn’t interested in performing it either. In fact, I found an old rap I had a while back that had a line that went something like, “I’ll never eat cat, ‘cause, yo, that sh*t is wack…” Needless to say, I grew out of both beliefs. Cat is far from wack and I know now that almost everybody does it; regardless of race. It’s just a once-taboo act that’s a little less taboo in 2011.But of course you’ll still have a few people that’ll still shun the practice for whatever reason. But to do it for a ring? As much as I enjoy it, I’d much rather someone bless me because they enjoy it and actually want to, not because I placed a piece of metal on their finger. Please don’t lie to yourself or me and say you don’t want to do it (or any other sexual act) at all but a ring magically makes a difference. You don’t just wake up one day and realize you want to give head. You’ve always wanted to do it, but you just don’t want to admit. But if it’s not you’re thing, hey, it’s not your thing. Too bad, that really sucks.Is there a sexual act that you would only do with your spouse? If so, what? Is this sacred act something you actually fantasize about or just something you’d consider if your spouse wanted to do it? What if he/she didn’t want to fulfill that fantasy act for you? Would you regret not having done it while you were single? Do you think it’s disrespectful for a man to ask for a woman to suck his d*ck? Would hearing that just ruin the mood? Was there a time where you thought oral sex was disgusting? What changed your mind? Do you think your oral skills are on point? Do you think good head can be better than good sex?Speak your piece…

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LOL @ wanting to write rhymes & not f*ck that chick./But I agree with the didn't read because I did the same.

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this article looks mad familiar

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Read itI've never personally met a chick who's said until i get married im not sucking d*ckThe rest of it is nothing new tbh

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stopped reading after a couple of sentences cos the author is f*ck*ng moist, started to piss me off. someone want to summarize into bullet points?

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guy spoke to a female friend who gave head and said she would never do again til she marriesthe rest of the article argues how such an objective is silly nlah blah pointless really dont waste ur time

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had 1 of these bicches tell me she wouldn't do it, and could only see herself doin it for her husband. after beatin the couple times i started gettin head, still.then it turned into "if a guy came in my mouth i'd kill him"then it turned to "can You eat sweet things if I'm gonna give You head?"just bicches tryna find a new way of putting "i don't give head"

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Yes, blatantly telling someone to suck your d*ck is disrespectful, partly why I never ask for it and if I do it’s much more subtle than that. (“Come on, just say hello, girl…” LOL) In fact, I can’t even fathom myself uttering “suck my d*ck” in the heat of the moment because I can understand the insult factor in those words if taken out of context.
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imagine life being so empty that you have time to think about and write full length articles about unbeleivably petty sh*t like this

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trust, men acting like bitches, disgusting really. 90% of the internet should be deleted, coming so close to ripping the whole thing out and binning the tv, pure weakness and pussification being pumped into my living room, been threatening to do it for months, think of the other things that could of been done in the time taken to write/read this article.

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trust, men acting like bitches, disgusting really. 90% of the internet should be deleted, coming so close to ripping the whole thing out and binning the tv, pure weakness and pussification being pumped into my living room, been threatening to do it for months, think of the other things that could of been done in the time taken to write/read this article.
C/S the 1st part especially
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jusread the title and it reminded me of a chik i was datinglipsd her up n she told me she felt violatedi was like huhthen she told me she was not on doin anyfing till we get marriedthis was like the 1st week of our datinglockd her off bcoz i werent on a wifey tipbut i saw her the other day n she was looking gawjus, now she dont want me as she thinks i have been used n abused=[

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]Yes, blatantly telling someone to suck your d*ck is disrespectful, partly why I never ask for it and if I do it’s much more subtle than that. (“Come on, just say hello, girl…” LOL) In fact, I can’t even fathom myself uttering “suck my d*ck” in the heat of the moment because I can understand the insult factor in those words if taken out of context.
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Yes, blatantly telling someone to suck your d*ck is disrespectful, partly why I never ask for it and if I do it’s much more subtle than that. (“Come on, just say hello, girl…” LOL) In fact, I can’t even fathom myself uttering “suck my d*ck” in the heat of the moment because I can understand the insult factor in those words if taken out of context.
:D:D:D:D:D:D:D
pmsl :D :D
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