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What do you mean 'wishful thinking'? Wishful thinking to get raped as if it's some achievement to have that happen to you? She's a toad anyway. Who lies about rape once and then does it again..to even lie about it in the first place she clearly has no clue.

This is where a lot of you begin to sound dumb and will never be taken seriously; stop talking about black people and addressing them as if they are a monolithic group with no sense. Thanks.

Lol. That's hilarious.

Reducing it to a fetish is just (really) offensive. It's not every woman in this situation that is into the 'bad boy' relationship thing. There's women out there with men that are just plain Jekyll and Hyde between her and people outside.

His behaviour isn't uncommon in these types of situations. It's manipulation stemming from any one of a myriad of issues. She's probably been scared for what he might do to himself, given that I'm guessing this is someone she once cared about. They both need help really. She needs to understand why she keeps going back and not strong enough and value herself enough to realise she deserves better and in the case above, for example, understand that she can't help him. She probably even feels isolated and embarrassed (esp. if people have written her off) and that it it's easier to stick with him. They both need to make a decision to help themselves, ultimately. but the issues can be deep rooted and tough and long to work through. Especially if it's been going on for a long time. I wouldn't discount sexual abuse in that time frame as well, which has its own impact. She obviously hasn't reached the end of her tether with it for her attempts at leaving to stick. That's the sad thing about these things as you can only watch it form the sidelines and pray that the victim manages to get their self together. And there's enough resources to help her when she does..there's womensaid, (specific) counselling, victim support etc and if she's gonna go to the police she has to co operate with them and stay away, cos it's gonna be harder to deal with if she keeps contacting him.

I do post from time to time but mostly I don't feel like taking the time to explain since I'm just browsing while working..it just means I disagree with something said or posted..big deal..I didn't know that was a problem around here... Already made my case in response to the rest.

The typical response. Smh.It's not that easy for victims of domestic violence. It's deeper than them just being an 'idiot'. Funny thing is this is what the film tried to show, yet these opinions still exist and is part of the reason why some don't have the bravery to come forward and co-operate with the police and other agencies that can support, in their situation. She is an idiot. Shes been involved with the police, been moved etc but yet still shes giving him another chance. He's a psycho and i just hope for her sake she doesnt end up getting killed. I do believe I already made mention of being able to co-operate with the police besides just coming forward to/being 'involved' with them..comprehension of that is fundamental.But like I said, there are more often than not deeper and complex issues at hand than just being an 'idiot'. Statements like that do not help women like her. If anything it validates the reason for the verbal and emotional abuse that they are likely already receiving. And that in turn effs with their mental and emotional strength and ability to honestly stand up for and value their self. Don't worry though, I don't expect you to understand (from what has been said here).

The typical response. Smh. It's not that easy for victims of domestic violence. It's deeper than them just being an 'idiot'. Funny thing is this is what the film tried to show, yet these opinions still exist and is part of the reason why some don't have the bravery to come forward and co-operate with the police and other agencies that can support, in their situation.

i.e. the t.h.o.t. uniform of 2014

Your spiel means nothing as things were completely opposite at my school. It was the African boys that were carrying on bad ways at my school and have questionable lives now. Your venom is actually quite disgusting tbf....it may be that you're still carrying some hurt from what these Caribbean boys did to you or something..I don't know...but you should see someone about that.

Well I can give you one thing about black people across the board; they can always manage to find a way to be devisive..

we are you just can't see cos you're a woman. You really aren't. The amount of dumb actions and words I've seen and heard come from a man or boy is enough to make my soul hurt.

No. Humans don't need milk after the breast feeding stage and that's just nasty. that's your opinion not fact Please don't address me again. You're just foul.

No. Humans don't need milk after the breast feeding stage and that's just nasty. It could be argued we don't really need milk at all (I'm not saying that) Some women find it too painful and the child only gets formula etc... There would be a market for breast milk though. I'd be inclined to believe that if women didn't produce milk to feed their infant, but nature knows what it is doing. There was a time when formula didn't exist..that's man made.

No. Humans don't need milk after the breast feeding stage and that's just nasty.

Soaked and crushed in water

when I said "you" I mea t black people in general. But not every black person in general uses that word and has a right to be offended by it's use, so how are you gonna say 'can't have it both ways', as if it is so...?

to be fair no one would be all that concerned about what happened back then as none of them are alive now.its whats going on right now people are more concerned about.look at what race is filling up the prison system and committing the most crime?us and we need to adress why our morals have gone down the drain in particular the youth they are moving reckless right now and enforcing some dirty stereotypes. It's silly and ignorant to not be clued up on past happenings. History repeats itself and a lot of things never really change; it just comes repackaged. Look at the whole Clipper situation, for instance and that is just one tiny piece of a larger puzzle. In order to address why today's morals have gone downhill, again, you still need to look back (albeit more recent history). Looking at things that went wrong, or right, in the past gives major clues in how progression can be made today. So yeah, there needs to be concern about past events/world history in order to determine the appropriate practical application for today.

World history will show you how much more barbaric and vile the white people are.

What exactly is 'black culture'? Black people aren't some monolithic group.

What's your definition of conventional beauty?

Most women today care for the financial status of a man and how he can provide for a family. They see males as a worker. And thats why many of them care about looks so much. So they can use it as bait to try and catch their next economic opportunity (men). If you have happened to find a women that isn't brainwashed by pro-feminist ideology or doesn't have a consumer based mentality then consider yourself a lucky minority. Brainwashed by pro-feminist ideology because a woman wants to be with a man who can at the very least be responsible and provide for his self and also his family? Ok..

Stop now. You clearly have nothing more to say.

snm LOL. When all else fails, resort to the same, tired rhetoric of 'you're all slaves' or 'slave mentality'.

Case in point. Try to argue your case that uses a broad generalisation, without telling the other person to 'shutup'. It's hardly a component of 'intellectual discussion', is it?