Guest MessyGyal Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 Maybe some of you just skim read.Or you cant read.I have had NUMEROUS conversations with her about the subject. So no, i didnt consult you lot without speaking to her about anything like some snake.Going on like you lot dont talk about ish in your lives, messy you have told ''strangers'' that you have had miscarriage and other things im not tryna go below the belt here. Theres a difference1. Yes im very open on these boards nothing wrong with that due to the following.....2. I NEVER ASK FOR ADVICE ON MY RELATIONSHIPS ON THESE BOARDS3. I WOULD NEVER DISCUSS ANYTHING ON HERE THAT MY BOYFRIEND DIDNT KNOW ABOUT4. MY BOYFRIEND HAS MY PASSWORD AND IS FREE TO PERUSE VIP2 TILL HIS HEARTS CONTENTyour the one whos frantic cos your girl read something that you shouldnt have really written and your wrong when you say you had discussed it with her because if that was fact youwouldnt have asked our opinion on how to break it to her gently.im not even sending but its true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF BEYOND Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 the damage is done now if ya relationship is strong you will get over it after all its only about WEIGHT girls get real touchy when it comes to this thats just how it is but thats due to bare people that sugar the pill around women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Maybe some of you just skim read.Or you cant read.I have had NUMEROUS conversations with her about the subject. So no, i didnt consult you lot without speaking to her about anything like some snake.Going on like you lot dont talk about ish in your lives, messy you have told ''strangers'' that you have had miscarriage and other things im not tryna go below the belt here. Theres a difference1. Yes im very open on these boards nothing wrong with that due to the following.....2. I NEVER ASK FOR ADVICE ON MY RELATIONSHIPS ON THESE BOARDS3. I WOULD NEVER DISCUSS ANYTHING ON HERE THAT MY BOYFRIEND DIDNT KNOW ABOUT4. MY BOYFRIEND HAS MY PASSWORD AND IS FREE TO PERUSE VIP2 TILL HIS HEARTS CONTENTyour the one whos frantic cos your girl read something that you shouldnt have really written and your wrong when you say you had discussed it with her because if that was fact youwouldnt have asked our opinion on how to break it to her gently.im not even sending but its true LISTENThis aint even gonna turn in2 a slugging match between me and you.Frantic! I am hardly in a frantic state. Such words like ''I slipped like a fool on a banana skin' prove this. I thought it would be quite humerous for this info to be shared, that she saw it my original thread.You may not directly ask for advice but im sure you recieve it and it and you take it in, regardless of weatehr you act on it or not. My girl knows i use this site, she dont need my password as she can read everything i wrote. Why should i have not written it. Because she found out? No, i am not even pissed she found out because the issue got addressed, and thigns are still good.No im not wrong when i said i discussed it with her, because i did. WHy would i make up parts to a story. And yes i still wanted to know how 2 break it 2 her gently becaue my efforts were not working. Girls are didgy at the best of times, liek you said you would dump your man if he told you you were putting on weight, some kneejerk reaction. WAHT YOU SAID IS TRUE BUT ONLY IN YOUR EYES you obviously dont understand.Anyway, i dont know about you but me and my girl are fine, its a good thing she aint like you and try dump me over silly sh*t, maybe your man walks on eggshells. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF BEYOND Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 it depends on the guy still you knowthe way a guy handles his girl in the FIRST delicate situation shapes the relationship imoguys should NOT take back what they said cos its what they WERE thinking i know some girls cant take it but if a woman is to truly be a WOMAN she has to and likewise for men there are things i know about my girl and what she thinks that i DONT LIKE but what am i gonna do about itDUMP HER?bah JUST DEAL WITH ITand that is what i think your girl should do gunneryou cheating on your girl, lying to her, taking the piss out of her, boying her off, using her for sex and money>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> you just saying how you feel >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> her dumping you?????????????????????nahhhhhhhh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 it depends on the guy still you knowthe way a guy handles his girl in the FIRST delicate situation shapes the relationship imoguys should NOT take back what they said cos its what they WERE thinking i know some girls cant take it but if a woman is to truly be a WOMAN she has to and likewise for men there are things i know about my girl and what she thinks that i DONT LIKE but what am i gonna do about itDUMP HER?bah JUST DEAL WITH ITand that is what i think your girl should do gunneryou cheating on your girl, lying to her, taking the piss out of her, boying her off, using her for sex and money>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> you just saying how you feel >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> her dumping you?????????????????????nahhhhhhhh lol, its not a problem, it never was a problem, just an issue which i bougt to her attention. Me, i'm dealing with it, as is she. Both gonna do swimming as a hobby now (New Topic), took my lil sister, she shamed me as i cannot swim, and she is 8 and can do, all these different strokes; back stroke, breast stroke, frog, and these others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Messy it dont really make sense you leaving a guy for something so trivial when a guy stays with you after knowing about what you did with someone on fone cam (no argument starting)Dem kinda principles are twisted IMO.I woulda left a girl longtime if she told me that sh*t, I know the same applies to my bredrins aswell.If Gunner says he discussed it with her its more believable than you saying you told your man about that episode if im honest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Casper Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 i would have left you if i was herno liethen told you your penis was smallhate when girls do this sh*tover react over miniscule sh*texactly,aint a bit ting to be honest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest MessyGyal Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 to be honest with you my original statement was made actually in humour (i think the added part about the small penis highlighted that?)if im honest i probably wouldnt leave someone over it but i will tell you this any relationship im in will not have my boyfriend asking for advice on the internet. That was the point i was trying to get across.And Tony to be honest im glad my boyfriend doesnt hold your views along with your bredrins. So your saying because i had a casual relationship with someone for 2 years whilst i was single/not seeing anyone else and during that time i filmed some sexual activities on MY PHONE,which I kept and noone else has seen.....that my boyfriend should not be with me now?oh because it makes me a whore/sket/loose person? And also why would i have held back on informing my boyfriend that this happened?because lets be honest i wasnt with him at the time so why should he be bothred?thats your opinion still but dont try to categorise me in the unwifeable department because your just speaking out of your ass.I bet there are certain things your girl has done which you will never know about and i find that humorous,dont go assuming all is peachy because you think you know everything about your partner.And i guarantee that there are probably things which you have done which would put you in the category for a woman not to want to get with you so please dont come holier than thou your not the complete boyfriend material that you portray yourself to be Gunner like the end of my last statement said i wasnt even sending so a slanging match isnt even needed. I was just trying to put the point across that instead of asking for advice on here you should sit down with your girl and if your relationship is 100% there should be NOTHING that you cant discuss with her,reaction or not or failed attempts before or not. at least i know thats how my relationship is theres nothing i cant discuss or have discussed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 to be honest with you my original statement was made actually in humour (i think the added part about the small penis highlighted that?)if im honest i probably wouldnt leave someone over it but i will tell you this any relationship im in will not have my boyfriend asking for advice on the internet. That was the point i was trying to get across.And Tony to be honest im glad my boyfriend doesnt hold your views along with your bredrins. So your saying because i had a casual relationship with someone for 2 years whilst i was single/not seeing anyone else and during that time i filmed some sexual activities on MY PHONE,which I kept and noone else has seen.....that my boyfriend should not be with me now?oh because it makes me a whore/sket/loose person? thats your opinion still but dont try to categorise me in the unwifeable department because your just speaking out of your ass.I bet there are certain things your girl has done which you will never know about and i find that humorous,dont go assuming all is peachy because you think you know everything about your partner.And i guarantee that there are probably things which you have done which would put you in the category for a woman not to want to get with you so please dont come holier than thou your not the complete boyfriend material that you portray yourself to be Gunner like the end of my last statement said i wasnt even sending so a slanging match isnt even needed. I was just trying to put the point across that instead of asking for advice on here you should sit down with your girl and if your relationship is 100% there should be NOTHING that you cant discuss with her,reaction or not or failed attempts before or not. at least i know thats how my relationship is theres nothing i cant discuss or have discussed.Your last Paragraph : Fair enough, i did do that, but the same way i might ask for advice on something is the same way i just did it, we could be having a good time or not. Because i know that amongst the funny infantile resonses i migth get on here, i will still get some real no biased responses, and even if they are biased, it will make me ponder things i might have not pondered. i can discuss anythign and everything with her.I dont feel no way to ask the 'internet'. In this case i think advice is too much of a brord word, i think suggestions is a better word, i asked for suggestions, even what you said originally helped me about ?ing weather i love her from when its not directly affecting her health. If in doubt, ask! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Casper Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 if my girl saw it, i wud let her carry on screwing face, shud of asked before using my comp/laptop Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peppergrain Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Hi Gunner.I thought you might like this masterpiece I created when I lived in Milford Towers, Catford. I made it over 6 months ago and have been waiting for someone to need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 ^ LOL at that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 ^ LOL at thatHAHA LOL You are funny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 to be honest with you my original statement was made actually in humour (i think the added part about the small penis highlighted that?)if im honest i probably wouldnt leave someone over it but i will tell you this any relationship im in will not have my boyfriend asking for advice on the internet. That was the point i was trying to get across.And Tony to be honest im glad my boyfriend doesnt hold your views along with your bredrins. So your saying because i had a casual relationship with someone for 2 years whilst i was single/not seeing anyone else and during that time i filmed some sexual activities on MY PHONE,which I kept and noone else has seen.....that my boyfriend should not be with me now?oh because it makes me a whore/sket/loose person? And also why would i have held back on informing my boyfriend that this happened?because lets be honest i wasnt with him at the time so why should he be bothred?thats your opinion still but dont try to categorise me in the unwifeable department because your just speaking out of your ass.I bet there are certain things your girl has done which you will never know about and i find that humorous,dont go assuming all is peachy because you think you know everything about your partner.And i guarantee that there are probably things which you have done which would put you in the category for a woman not to want to get with you so please dont come holier than thou your not the complete boyfriend material that you portray yourself to be Gunner like the end of my last statement said i wasnt even sending so a slanging match isnt even needed. I was just trying to put the point across that instead of asking for advice on here you should sit down with your girl and if your relationship is 100% there should be NOTHING that you cant discuss with her,reaction or not or failed attempts before or not. at least i know thats how my relationship is theres nothing i cant discuss or have discussed.lmao what has this got to do with you being unwifeable??I didnt say anything relating to that lol plus you bet this and that, you guarantee this, thats all fraff based on nothing lol.I didnt say your man shouldnt be with you, thats his choice.BUT if youre saying you was joking about leaving a man over something so silly then it renders everything I said void so no need for you to even reply.The point I was making was: you sucking a mans ting on fone cam is 100 times more an issue to a partner than a man talking about an innocent thing about his girl on the net, FACT+who are you to say Gunner hasnt told his girl what he's saying when he's telling you he has? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 ^ LOL at thatHAHA LOL You are funny.huhsure you wasnt supose to quote peppergrain instead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Numero001 Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Maybe some of you just skim read.Or you cant read.I have had NUMEROUS conversations with her about the subject. So no, i didnt consult you lot without speaking to her about anything like some snake.Going on like you lot dont talk about ish in your lives, messy you have told ''strangers'' that you have had miscarriage and other things im not tryna go below the belt here. Theres a difference1. Yes im very open on these boards nothing wrong with that due to the following.....2. I NEVER ASK FOR ADVICE ON MY RELATIONSHIPS ON THESE BOARDS3. I WOULD NEVER DISCUSS ANYTHING ON HERE THAT MY BOYFRIEND DIDNT KNOW ABOUT4. MY BOYFRIEND HAS MY PASSWORD AND IS FREE TO PERUSE VIP2 TILL HIS HEARTS CONTENTyour the one whos frantic cos your girl read something that you shouldnt have really written and your wrong when you say you had discussed it with her because if that was fact youwouldnt have asked our opinion on how to break it to her gently.im not even sending but its true IMO first crime is worst than the other 2, well when you've said what you've said on here.I dont see whats really that bad about what he did. Obviously I can see that she would have taken it in a bad way and yes he slipped by letting her see it, but he never went about it and cussed her out. He went about it in a nice way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Thankyou Numero, some minor innocent ting.If the girl took it in a bad way then it means her weight does bother her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flat Eric Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 Hi Gunner.I thought you might like this masterpiece I created when I lived in Milford Towers, Catford. I made it over 6 months ago and have been waiting for someone to need it.LMAOLIES! you made it this morning..alie?just say yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 LOL @ this situation. Females over react all the time, especially over weight. If she really knows you she knows you have her best interests at heart, so there isn't a big problem. It will smooth over in time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted October 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 LOL @ this situation. Females over react all the time, especially over weight. If she really knows you she knows you have her best interests at heart, so there isn't a big problem. It will smooth over in time.Everything fine from the same day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF BEYOND Posted October 10, 2007 Report Share Posted October 10, 2007 to be honest with you my original statement was made actually in humour (i think the added part about the small penis highlighted that?)if im honest i probably wouldnt leave someone over it but i will tell you this any relationship im in will not have my boyfriend asking for advice on the internet. That was the point i was trying to get across.And Tony to be honest im glad my boyfriend doesnt hold your views along with your bredrins. So your saying because i had a casual relationship with someone for 2 years whilst i was single/not seeing anyone else and during that time i filmed some sexual activities on MY PHONE,which I kept and noone else has seen.....that my boyfriend should not be with me now?oh because it makes me a whore/sket/loose person? And also why would i have held back on informing my boyfriend that this happened?because lets be honest i wasnt with him at the time so why should he be bothred?thats your opinion still but dont try to categorise me in the unwifeable department because your just speaking out of your ass.I bet there are certain things your girl has done which you will never know about and i find that humorous,dont go assuming all is peachy because you think you know everything about your partner.And i guarantee that there are probably things which you have done which would put you in the category for a woman not to want to get with you so please dont come holier than thou your not the complete boyfriend material that you portray yourself to be Gunner like the end of my last statement said i wasnt even sending so a slanging match isnt even needed. I was just trying to put the point across that instead of asking for advice on here you should sit down with your girl and if your relationship is 100% there should be NOTHING that you cant discuss with her,reaction or not or failed attempts before or not. at least i know thats how my relationship is theres nothing i cant discuss or have discussed. the highlighted bars are VERY true i for one back messy on this cos ive seen the other side of a lot of people whos middle name is "IM NOT LIKE THAT" its topics like this where people like ashman gets my ratings cos even after KNOWING his girl was a bad girl ONCE UPON A TIME he has put his typical male pride aside (which amplifies when other guys get opinionated on it when they know too) and married a woman he lovedimo that is a MAN but at the same time toney s NOT chattin sh*t still in some of his talkand further more what is wrong with asking for advise on here i beg mandem dont go on like they are gods above other users if ya a daily user of this site its safe to assume that the opinions on here are somewhat valid so dont go there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swiftie Posted October 11, 2007 Report Share Posted October 11, 2007 ^ LOL at thatHAHA LOL You are funny.huhsure you wasnt supose to quote peppergrain insteadIf you didn't clock the meanin then boy..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spawn Posted October 12, 2007 Report Share Posted October 12, 2007 The only way to counteract this situation is to be OVERLY righteous about it. And straight out tell her she is letting herself go and that she needs to do something about it. And then offer to go gym together. Or help her work off a few pounds in the bedroom. And tell her to stop acting like a crybaby and sulking. Then air her. Don't show weakness! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted October 13, 2007 Author Report Share Posted October 13, 2007 The only way to counteract this situation is to be OVERLY righteous about it. And straight out tell her she is letting herself go and that she needs to do something about it. And then offer to go gym together. Or help her work off a few pounds in the bedroom. And tell her to stop acting like a crybaby and sulking. Then air her. Don't show weakness!In the process...! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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