DINKY Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 do the people on here count as a circle? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Casper Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?it depends on the ppl you chill with and how close you are to them, People cud have been let down nuff times by ppl they have trustedso now they have developed the mindset of never trusting any1 again, i know sum1 who don't even trust his family members Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Train Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?it depends on the ppl you chill with and how close you are to them, People cud have been let down nuff times by ppl they have trustedso now they have developed the mindset of never trusting any1 again, i know sum1 who don't even trust his family membersIve never really given it too much thought to be honest. Im never really been in a position where I would have to trust a friend. (Sounds wierd init)9I think to say you dont trust someone is a MASSIVE statement to make, especially to a friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?cos then u cant get hurt or be overly suprised when you get let down Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Train Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?cos then u cant get hurt or be overly suprised when you get let downThat sort of negative thinking is what f*cks up childrens minds. Children are positive and happy by nature, so when you see CHILDREN saying sh*t like that, its very upsetting. Also, the word 'trust' is being used FAR too loosely when made in reference to friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SCRAPS Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 There's like a few circles I have, and there's the occasional overlap between those circles, when one person knows someone from another circle or whatever.So all in all, I have a pretty large circle of friends.I don't really understand why though, I'm a d*ckhead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revs Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?innit. i also noticed the british attitude of 'bredrins' was so flimsy too. people 'know' each other for 5yrs plus, but dont know their last namewould not be able to call any member of that 'friend's' family if there was an accident they needed to alert them of. other stuff i had to struggle to get to grips withare you american now? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Casper Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?it depends on the ppl you chill with and how close you are to them, People cud have been let down nuff times by ppl they have trustedso now they have developed the mindset of never trusting any1 again, i know sum1 who don't even trust his family membersIve never really given it too much thought to be honest. Im never really been in a position where I would have to trust a friend. (Sounds wierd init)9I think to say you dont trust someone is a MASSIVE statement to make, especially to a friend.neither have I, if i get on well with the ppl I chill with, then I don't really need to say 'I really trust this person or I really trust that person'If some1 I know always flops in situations then they just get cut, nothing big reallyTo be honest, I don't think its too big of a statement, cause its understandable that getting hurt by friends ain't the one...so its like a safety barrier being put up when sum1 says they dont trust any1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?cos then u cant get hurt or be overly suprised when you get let downThat sort of negative thinking is what f*cks up childrens minds. Children are positive and happy by nature, so when you see CHILDREN saying sh*t like that, its very upsetting. Also, the word 'trust' is being used FAR too loosely when made in reference to friends.im not a childand a child is only as happy as his/her environment will allowtrust is a natural thing when your young, you dont know any better than to trust the people around you until something bad happens and you're let downyou may realise it as a child or you may realise it a bit older, but it is naive and stupid to jus go around trusting peopleAND if people are using the word trust to loosely, what is trust to u? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lofa Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 'Trust everyone, but cut the cards' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpe_Deum Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?innit. i also noticed the british attitude of 'bredrins' was so flimsy too. people 'know' each other for 5yrs plus, but dont know their last namewould not be able to call any member of that 'friend's' family if there was an accident they needed to alert them of. other stuff i had to struggle to get to grips withare you american now?lol, no but didnt grow up in london so i found it strange that people knew so little about each other and say they are friends.like i remember asking my friend what happened to his dad cos he never mentions him, and he said i was the first to him ask that when hes had 'friends' from primary schhe's still with.!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lofa Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Carpe, that is because people are reserved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?innit. i also noticed the british attitude of 'bredrins' was so flimsy too. people 'know' each other for 5yrs plus, but dont know their last namewould not be able to call any member of that 'friend's' family if there was an accident they needed to alert them of. other stuff i had to struggle to get to grips withare you american now?lol, no but didnt grow up in london so i found it strange that people knew so little about each other and say they are friends.like i remember asking my friend what happened to his dad cos he never mentions him, and he said i was the first to him ask that when hes had 'friends' from primary schhe's still with.!!the culture in england is very reserved tho innitpeople dont like to PRY in an obvious way even though they might be noseyits a bery much "keep yourself to yourself vibe" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurious Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 not even a trust thing is about being realno point jamming with u if we're guna be fake around eachother its 2 much work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpe_Deum Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 ye thats what i had to find out for myself. so i also have few different circles, for different wavelengths Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Clichy's Pocket Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Not even so much as friends, just people I know.I know people from all over the place (well London anyway) who don't know each other so my circle changes depending where I am or what I am doing.I don't have one definitive group of friends that I socialise with all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revs Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?innit. i also noticed the british attitude of 'bredrins' was so flimsy too. people 'know' each other for 5yrs plus, but dont know their last namewould not be able to call any member of that 'friend's' family if there was an accident they needed to alert them of. other stuff i had to struggle to get to grips withare you american now?lol, no but didnt grow up in london so i found it strange that people knew so little about each other and say they are friends.like i remember asking my friend what happened to his dad cos he never mentions him, and he said i was the first to him ask that when hes had 'friends' from primary schhe's still with.!!ahhh ok. Didn't realize you never grew up in London. The thing is i know that we as a nation are perceived as reserved. However i didn't think the gap was that huge compared to the US for example. Going over there a few years back was a real eye opener. Talking to strangers was nothing and not weird at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Casper Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?innit. i also noticed the british attitude of 'bredrins' was so flimsy too. people 'know' each other for 5yrs plus, but dont know their last namewould not be able to call any member of that 'friend's' family if there was an accident they needed to alert them of. other stuff i had to struggle to get to grips withare you american now?lol, no but didnt grow up in london so i found it strange that people knew so little about each other and say they are friends.like i remember asking my friend what happened to his dad cos he never mentions him, and he said i was the first to him ask that when hes had 'friends' from primary schhe's still with.!!ahhh ok. Didn't realize you never grew up in London. The thing is i know that we as a nation are perceived as reserved. However i didn't think the gap was that huge compared to the US for example. Going over there a few years back was a real eye opener. Talking to strangers was nothing and not weird at all. yea, alot of ppl who have been over there has told me this,saying how u can walk up to strangers and talk to them like its nothing,but over here, its not so easy doing that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Train Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Why do people think its a good thing to not trust anyone?cos then u cant get hurt or be overly suprised when you get let downThat sort of negative thinking is what f*cks up childrens minds. Children are positive and happy by nature, so when you see CHILDREN saying sh*t like that, its very upsetting. Also, the word 'trust' is being used FAR too loosely when made in reference to friends.im not a childand a child is only as happy as his/her environment will allowtrust is a natural thing when your young, you dont know any better than to trust the people around you until something bad happens and you're let downyou may realise it as a child or you may realise it a bit older, but it is naive and stupid to jus go around trusting peopleAND if people are using the word trust to loosely, what is trust to u?Thats what I mean 'go around trusting people'. Since when was that a bad thing lol. Not trusting EVERYONE, but most people. End of the day, if you grow up with the mindframe of deliberately setting out NOT to trust anyone, your f*cking yourself over more than them. Fair enough its a barrier, but barriers aint good things. In my experiance the people that jump on this 'nobody is to be trusted' bandwagon usually grow up narcissistic, pretensious reclusive people. Im someone who trusts people, but dont necessarily put my trust IN people. BIG difference. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skam! Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 I have three genuine friends and no circle. f*ck a circle.Im a loner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurious Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 thats y i get bare air from old fogeys over here they r 2 moany in the west indies u see an old lady ur like 'good morning/eve/night'and she will have big convo with u about life in generalhere nowold ppl just kiss their teeth or look at u like 'get out of it'scurry away like the shook little burdens they are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Clichy's Pocket Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Aye Jamal.It's fashionable to be misanthropist.I have to say that I do get along with people very easily so naturally I do trust people in general especially as the vast majority of people I've known have been (as far I know) trustworthy.I know everyone says it but I can honestly say 99% of my acquaintances are good peoples, I generally attract good people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Train Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 Aye Jamal.It's fashionable to be misanthropist.I have to say that I do get along with people very easily so naturally I do trust people in general especially as the vast majority of people I've known have been (as far I know) trustworthy.Yea man, same ere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DINKY Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 thats y i get bare air from old fogeys over here they r 2 moany in the west indies u see an old lady ur like 'good morning/eve/night'and she will have big convo with u about life in generalhere nowold ppl just kiss their teeth or look at u like 'get out of it'scurry away like the shook little burdens they arenah i disagree old people in general i have good relationship with they always talk to me when im in the park at the shop or nethingoh yeah kurious u were spotted slipping down west end on monday Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurious Posted December 26, 2007 Report Share Posted December 26, 2007 loool who spotted me allow me it wasa madness xmas eve west endme and my freind were just barging thru heads Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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