Strictly Business Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Very long story, will cut it short, basically we all went to school together me my ex and her friend, me and the firend had a little thing FIVE years ago in schoool but then i got with my ex after (my ex, was with her for 3 yrs , been finsihed for 2) altho I kno she stil feels for me and loves me, has only just got with some typical bait in the last few months (but its now over as she basically said he didnt match up to me and how we were) took her near enuff 2 yrs to get to that point, AnYWAYS all the old school group of us got together couple weeks ago for a special occasion aint seen the friend for over 2 yrs hardly really spoke during my 3 yr relationsship cos i think she was a bit jealous of me taking her best friend away from her ( girls why do you all get jealous of your friends man ??? ) Anyway at the dinner i notice she was payin me baare attention and seemed proper ona catching - up level chattin all night wanted pictures taken with me etc, SO at the time i though nothing of it just thought she was being friendly, now she rings me last night chattin bout she feels funny doesnt kno wat it is and thinks she is statring to feel me again, then she told me a whole heap of stuff bout how she has always wanted to be with me and wished she was the one in my-ex's shoes. That the jealously i percieved was actually resentment for me choosing the ex and not her. There was tears 'n all. Anyway she sayin that she cant speak about it with any of the group of friends cos she thinks the ex wont understand and it will ruining their ffriendships etc which it probably will but ...MY QUESTION to you, my fellow VIP'ers, is should i really care about their friendship? Women u are emotinal creatures you will always get upset at things ur ex's do so i might as wel have some fun? The Ex has kinda found sum1 else altho not now so surely shes over me and shouldnt care? Ladies do u tell your friends that ur ex man is eternally off-limits to them? would u ever go out with ur best friends ex man?*Ps Mashing it on the sly isnt an option , this girl is emotional cant keep anything a secret. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 So i gather your feelin the girl back then?! What exactly is your intentions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strictly Business Posted July 16, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Im not sure if i want a relationaship with her, as like isaid we've harldy spoken in last 2 yrs so i dont really know her in a sense of the person she has become although i can still see shes very much the same girl i knew b4, but shes buff an ive always felt a sexual chemistry with her... So my loins are tellin me to jus do the dam thang. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 I was in a near identical situation not so long ago...Lock it off, save yourself the bother Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 I was in a near identical situation not so long ago...Lock it off, save yourself the bother Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doug Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Go tru and hit thatyou only live once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF BEYOND Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 she sayin that she cant speak about it with any of the group of friends cos she thinks the ex wont understand and it will ruining their ffriendships etc which it probably will *Ps Mashing it on the sly isnt an option , this girl is emotional cant keep anything a secret.okay so read whta i have highlighted and you tell me if you are up for the mix upim suprised j lovely aint already told youDONT DO IT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taurus Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 i would mash it, standard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accra Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Your ex is not your responsibility. Her feelings are not your problem. However, they are her friends and her friend should avoid hurting her. Especially if she already knows that it will cause a rift between them and your ex still likes you.If her friend is down to be that snake, then do what you gotta do. But know that she is not loyal to her long time friends, so her loyalty to you in a relationship will be questionable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strictly Business Posted July 16, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 she sayin that she cant speak about it with any of the group of friends cos she thinks the ex wont understand and it will ruining their ffriendships etc which it probably will *Ps Mashing it on the sly isnt an option , this girl is emotional cant keep anything a secret.okay so read whta i have highlighted and you tell me if you are up for the mix upim suprised j lovely aint already told youDONT DO ITits funny cos i kno what the answer to my question SHOULD be, however I reached a point in my life wher i shundt b giving a flying f*ck, i live my life for me not for someone else. Does this make me overly selfish? Maybe. But im tired of always thinknig of my ex's feelings first, puttin how she feels over how i feel, I always put her first when we was together but it aint that season no more. End of the day her frined is HER friend so if shes willing to sleep with me then mayb im doin my ex a favour by showing her as a snake friend?(Lol @ my own twisted reasoning just to beat it) But also if she sleeps with me does that really make her a snake friend...cos she genuinly likes me i.e wants to be with me not just a swift juicing in the back of my car so would this make the ex more understanding...it has been 2 yrs ffs aint it time she got over me , maybe this is what she needs...My male genes are tellin me to mash and dash but my head is tellin me it aint worth the headache that will inevitablly come my way. But then my head is also sayin "WHY DO YOU EVEN CARE IF IT CAUSES A BIT OF TURBULANCE YOUR R HELD ACCOUNTABLE TO NO ONE ??? !!!"hmmm....more opinions pls Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seriouss Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 If she would snake on her mate like that she can't be a nice girl. Allow her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Jr. Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 Go tru and hit thatyou only live oncelmao hol tite Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treacle Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 BARE mix up. Leave it alone, doesn't sound worth it. You left your ex's friend before so why would she be any good for you now?? Plenty other girls around for you to not have to be getting into these kinds of situations.I personally would never do that to any of my friends. Like Accra says, if she can't even be loyal to her long term friend, how loyal will she be to you??... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
L Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 You see this girl one night for the first time in 2years (?) and she's fallen in love with youAre you stupid..?'low it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strictly Business Posted July 16, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 You see this girl one night for the first time in 2years (?) and she's fallen in love with youMy Power levels are high son.Anyway you lot are goin on as if im talkin JaggedEdge lets getmarried or Next bemywifey talk. Narr mate.Im just looking have sex with someone who Iv always wanted to wok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF BEYOND Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 You see this girl one night for the first time in 2years (?) and she's fallen in love with youAre you stupid..?'low itget meits bait she has spent her time being a link all her life and now wants to find the FIRST thing she thing is good cos she aint even venturedcomes like one of them girls that say "I DONT HAVE A TYPE" cos she has no preference and no standards as she is always the beta femalemashing this chick is long just mash a next ting bruv its not like she he only girl in the world girls what come with issues should be thrown down a well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego Posted July 16, 2007 Report Share Posted July 16, 2007 long thatbare unneeded drama Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Q Posted July 17, 2007 Report Share Posted July 17, 2007 If you want the uneeded stress then proceed... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest roskie_07 Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 move to it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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