Brum Guy Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 this situation has just been brought to my attention from a bredrin here goes:Your linking a girl but shes got a kid, starts off as jus chillin out together and sexin but then you find out she really likes you (wants to be wifey),and at the same time you find out that you are also liking this girl back even tho shes got a kid,Obviously your weary because of EX babyfather and you dont wanna have to be dealing with a third wheel,so you question the girl bout her EX, she says '' we broke up around the time time the baby was born and we dont speak'',So you think ok atleast deres no guy whos gonna be interfering,SO your chillin out in the yard as usuall but then her phone is constanlty ringing, shes says its her baby father and bearing in mind its her new number! Your now gettin suspect and question her she says '' i dont know how he got my number'',THEN a car pulls outside and its Mr babyfather! she goes outside the try and get him to go as soon as possible,But then you here him come inside and the girl says ''hes come to see his kid and is staying the night'' (remember he drives and so called hasnt spoke to her since the birth)You say ure dipping because your heated that 1 guy just walked in the yard upstairs and is staying (But its the kids father and you cant stop him from seein his kid)She says phone me tomorrow and ill explain!Do you phone her to her to hear the explaination or just lock off (bearing in mind you like this girl)Just want to hear what you would in this situationDiscuss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Superstition Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 Getting with a woman with another man's kid is just no-go area. Your mate just found out one of the many reasons why. He should cut his losses and step out of their lives and drama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O.Man Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 LOCK HER OFF Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
time_bomb Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 many more fish in the sea, leave it alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roots Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 Bun the trouble, I'd leave, never about a pre-made family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bayy Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 unless its a LOVE thing and she is well buff like christina milian... allow it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taurus Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 nah lock her offthe baby father situation will soon get annoyingi bet she wants to be wifey so your boy can financially support the kid coz the baby father isnt there half the time and dont give a sh*t, shes gonna use your bredrin trustsmhf*ck them chicks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brukfoot Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 sh*t, you dont fone her anyways, she fones you, the proper question to ask is: do you 'llow her and pick up the fone, or do you air her off?personally i woulld air her off but i dunno,guess if you like her you would probably let her explain still but i dunno, i've never been with any girls wid kids Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brum Guy Posted August 17, 2007 Author Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 I told him to lock it, but the guy is onit man sayin hes gonna phone her to see wot she has to say Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brukfoot Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 tell him to let her fone him, he's lookin like the bitch now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tuppatopbrer Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 Quit before you get too deep and reach the point of no return. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Galt Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 Let her call. Answer the phone. Let her explain herself.When she's finished, tell her cool. Drop the phone. Never speak to her again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 Think about it. Do you want some random guy around your yout? I would not be amused. He will take his anger out on your bredrin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacardi_Up Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 Cut losses and leave. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removal Man Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 i could never get involved with a girl like that, even the thought of f*ckin a woman who's squeezed a baby out makes me cringetrick situation tho, i'd still llow it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R-Style Posted August 17, 2007 Report Share Posted August 17, 2007 shud neva hav got involved wiv a gal wiv a kid in the 1st placeit aint about raisin sumbody elses kid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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