Telling the truth

[Em Dott]

dont do it because you expect the same back or just because you feel a bit guilty or ya scared ya gonna get caught do it because ya built like that because you wont be getting a pat on the back for admitting itYOU STILL DID SOMETHING WRONGso with that being said dont expect a thing.

But if you are built like that, you are going to feel bad and would expect the same. I believe in being real and have always said if I was unfaithful I would tell my girl, because I owe her that level of respect and honesty. And to be quite honest, I would ahve to be prepared to lose her, because I obviously didn't really care enough to want to dedicate myself to her. There is no excuse for cheating. And I would like it if I was given that same honesty, because I would rather axe that weak link from my life, than let her continue to be part of it and slowly bring it down with her dishonesty.

but that is YOU not goldcoast me or anyone else on this forumwould YOU ask the forum what to do on this subject judging by ya preaching i doubt it.i commend you for your views its what most would call "admirable" but not what some would do heck even some that talk just like you do the opposite in reality.

I wasn't trying to preach, I just thought you were addressing my post.

[Benicio del Toney]

Man f*ck the truth.Yeah I wouldnt wana be lied to but f*ck that too, the truth can go to hell if its gona turn my life upside down.Certain niggaz need to learn how to keep things lowkey.

[Seth Rollins]

I would be honest. I have morals and intend to stick to them, and I would want for my other half to do the same.

Even if that means losing them?

You know it's gonna be "that forever sh/b]it" when she knows EVERYTHING there is to know about you, and she still wants you.There's no better feeling.No one should take away your right to make a decision in your relationship. Keeping secrets from your partner does this. You should always know at all times what type of person you're with.This right here is one of the main reasons NOTHING lasts forever anymore. I strongly believe this. It's not just what you do, it's the lies that come with it. It shows you have no respect for the person you're with and you're extremely selfish, keeping (probably) a good person in your life unknowingly against their will.

[smaddy]

sometimes honesty ain always the best policyyou need to weigh up the consequencesif the persons gna find out anyway tell thembut dont hurt someone to alleviate your own conscience

[Seth Rollins]

sometimes honesty ain always the best policyyou need to weigh up the consequencesif the persons gna find out anyway tell thembut dont hurt someone to alleviate your own conscience

It is. What you mean is, it's not the best policy for YOU.Selfishness, that's what it is.He could be perfect. Does he deserve YOU?*YOU = The person who's done wrong.

[smaddy]

sometimes honesty ain always the best policyyou need to weigh up the consequencesif the persons gna find out anyway tell thembut dont hurt someone to alleviate your own conscience

It is. What you mean is, it's not the best policy for YOU.Selfishness, that's what it is.He could be perfect. Does he deserve YOU?*YOU = The person who's done wrong.

no one is perfect goliathwe all make mistakesno matter what you tell yourselfwhen you really care about someone, you need to think about their feelings and the entire well beingits not as simple to say, well you never thought about it when you did that "wrong thing" but dont mean you cant change and know the error of your waysif you think they will be better off without you, really and truly, then tell themits about not being selfish from both sidesi would like to say that i myself, deserve the truthbut whether i really want it, depend on the situation, is a totally different storyargh its very complexpoint is as i said, everyone makes mistakes, no one is perfect

[Seth Rollins]

Mistakes? Sexual intercouse with another person (if this is what we're discussing here) is NOT a mistake. It's a selfish and disrespectful act putting your partners sexual health in danger.I'm not perfect, but I owned up, learned, and i'm a better person for it. (I'm not talking about cheating).Honesty is the way forward. Or simply don't make FOOLISH mistakes.

[smaddy]

Mistakes? Sexual intercouse with another person (if this is what we're discussing here) is NOT a mistake. It's a selfish and disrespectful act putting your partners sexual health in danger.I'm not perfect, but I owned up, learned, and i'm a better person for it. (I'm not talking about cheating).Honesty is the way forward. Or simply don't make FOOLISH mistakes.

your rightand your partner should be given the chance to make up their own mind about the situation rather than you decidin whats best after cheatinhonesty is the best policy, i take back what i saideven though truth hurtsLove prevails, pain is love etc etcsad world

[Em Dott]

People are saying honesty isn't always the best policy if it can f*ck up sh*t on a grand scale. That is plain selfish thinking. You think by not owning up to it, and her/him finding out later means it won't be as bad? Seriously, it's not about having yoru time wasted, or wasting other people's time. YOu re treating them like dirt everytime you attempt to justify your actions.Smaddy, everyone makes mistakes, but sleeping with someone can only be a mistake if you aren't commited. How you goig to say it was a mistake/accident when you particpated in act willingly? It's not like you were counting money and gave a person teh wrong change, you made a conscious decision to deal wiht someone other than your partner.It's selfish, and plain badmind, even more so when you contemplate or do not tell your other half.

[Cipher]

Mistakes? Sexual intercouse with another person (if this is what we're discussing here) is NOT a mistake. It's a selfish and disrespectful act putting your partners sexual health in danger.I'm not perfect, but I owned up, learned, and i'm a better person for it. (I'm not talking about cheating).Honesty is the way forward. Or simply don't make FOOLISH mistakes.

your rightand your partner should be given the chance to make up their own mind about the situation rather than you decidin whats best after cheatinhonesty is the best policy

c/s both of those.People talking about the truth hurts, NO, its the ACTION behind the truth hurts.If you dont want the hurt, dont commit the stupid aciton in the first place.

[smaddy]

People are saying honesty isn't always the best policy if it can f*ck up sh*t on a grand scale. That is plain selfish thinking. You think by not owning up to it, and her/him finding out later means it won't be as bad? Seriously, it's not about having yoru time wasted, or wasting other people's time. YOu re treating them like dirt everytime you attempt to justify your actions.Smaddy, everyone makes mistakes, but sleeping with someone can only be a mistake if you aren't commited. How you goig to say it was a mistake/accident when you particpated in act willingly? It's not like you were counting money and gave a person teh wrong change, you made a conscious decision to deal wiht someone other than your partner.It's selfish, and plain badmind, even more so when you contemplate or do not tell your other half.

yh man i see what your sayingi always think to myselfwhen someone cheats on someone, first of all they have to think about it to do itit never JUST happensand you see when your having sex, and you put the condom on, that point if any point at all, gives you a long time to think in the scheme of the situationwhat is goin on here...innit, i always think that, like its calculated, not like you tripped over etc

[Cipher]

LOL"She tripped, fell, and landed on his d*ck?!"

[Yoshie]

*I wouldnt do it *But I would tell her. Simply because I beleive its the right thing to do...

[En Sabah Nur]

i hav no problem lying neva hadwat she doenst no cnt hurt her

[FACE OFF]

some people are being unrealistic if you ask me there is honesty and there is stupidity.

[Cipher]

If you could shift back and forth through time, wouldnt you just 1 on 1 the chicks, instead of bringin your mans tru?

[smaddy]

some people are being unrealistic if you ask me there is honesty and there is stupidity.

people are sayin that the real stupidity is the act that you have to lie about

[FACE OFF]

some people are being unrealistic if you ask me there is honesty and there is stupidity.

people are sayin that the real stupidity is the act that you have to lie about

people are GOOD at saying that about 3rd parties even people that did it themselves thats why i say some people are being unrealistic.

[Em Dott]

some people are being unrealistic if you ask me there is honesty and there is stupidity.

Elaborate?

[LIQUID]

some tru speeches in them posts there. but same time not all ppl are equip to handle the truth an prefer to live the lie. if u cheat u f*cked up an u deserve the consequences, u reap what u sow. but it does depend on the individual cheated on. if it'd hurt them more telling the truth dont tell dem. if u think they can take it tell them. but since ur in the wrong u golla put there feelings first.tbh the best thing would just be not to cheat in the first place. if u wana sex different gyal hav a open relationship, simple tings. but its not about breakin sumone elses heart cah u cant keep ur sh*t unda control. its defo a tuff situation once ur already in it, but wither way u go from there u are>>>>>>

[FACE OFF]

i dont think i need to titan your one of the brightest guys on this forum i wont have you using your honesty to cloud ya own common sense deep down your a MAN and you know full well what i mean.not even strictly talkin bout infidelity here a man MUST HANDLE HIS BINNISSsmaddy is right stupidity begins when you do the act but then ya gonna come out and say it for the sake of being HONEST? lmfao if ya sane enough to confess cos you done wrong you should of been sane enough to not do it in the first place unless you can make common sense in a microwave.allow comin clean like its some form or repentance that you deserve a reward for (not you before you fly off the handle) some people confess cos they are not bold enough to handle their OWN actions.i call that BITCH MADE.no sendage to ANYONE but that is the truth.

[LIQUID]

i hav no problem lying neva hadwat she doenst no cnt hurt her

skeeeeeeeen

[Cipher]

i dont think i need to titan your one of the brightest guys on this forum i wont have you using your honesty to cloud ya own common sense deep down your a MAN and you know full well what i mean.not even strictly talkin bout infidelity here a man MUST HANDLE HIS BINNISSsmaddy is right stupidity begins when you do the act but then ya gonna come out and say it for the sake of being HONEST? lmfao if ya sane enough to confess cos you done wrong you should of been sane enough to not do it in the first place unless you can make common sense in a microwave.allow comin clean like its some form or repentance that you deserve a reward for (not you before you fly off the handle) some people confess cos they are not bold enough to handle their OWN actions.i call that BITCH MADE.no sendage to ANYONE but that is the truth.

Yes. Some poeple confess because they beleive it is a form of redemption. It isnt.But the point is the confession itself is right to do, many people chat sh*t about mistake this and didnt mean to that, thats a log of whaleshit.You owe the person you f*cked over at least the decision to dump your stupid arse.About coming like YOU dont wanna lose them after you been f*cking next gyal/man.Once you do that you give up your rights.Its like murdering someone, then expecting leniancy cuz you confess, f*ck that sh*t. (even though that does actually happen, but meh)IMO, the cheating in the first place is a bitch move.Lettin your genitals take control of your mind. From when you know right from wrong and you choose wrong, you've phailed yourself + everyone else.You wanna f*ck bare gyal, relationshiip aint for you, no matter how much you think the songs about "wifin a down ass chick" sound cool.

[Cipher]

i hav no problem lying neva hadwat she doenst no cnt hurt her

skeeeeeeeen

:lmfao:

[FACE OFF]

lmfaocipher how long will these rules remain parrallel to the years you have left on this earth?its real talk and sounds great and would make a good love story but fam this isnt a soap opera its real life what you put there is more like a guideline for some (go ahead and say me for the sake of confrontation if you will) basically these rules shouldnt be preached they should be BACKED and when they are TRULY BACKED it will show in society around us.now you look around YOU and you tell me if what your saying is just a HINT of a myth only way them rules can really exist is if ya spend most of ya life in bed and dont interact with people.im playing devils advocate here but i kid you not.dont shoot the messenger