LuLu Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 She will catch feelinsg whatever way you put it so it's just about tact and subtlety...ye weight can be quite a sensative issue for a girlso if a boy was to tell u that you was getting a bit podgy , how would you expect him to say iti dunno maybe suggest going to the gym together ? i remember when a boy called me fat one time ,it made me cry lolif he saw me now though, he could so not be in a position to call me fat now try what removal man said, just be honest with her but be nice when doing so, you are just looking out for heatlth and what not . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sleeze Posted February 19, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 She will catch feelinsg whatever way you put it so it's just about tact and subtlety...ye weight can be quite a sensative issue for a girlso if a boy was to tell u that you was getting a bit podgy , how would you expect him to say iti dunno maybe suggest going to the gym together ? i remember when a boy called me fat one time ,it made me cry lolif he saw me now though, he could so not be in a position to call me fat now try what removal man said, just be honest with her but be nice when doing so, you are just looking out for heatlth and what not .ill try removal manz method still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 good lucktry and make sure it isnt that time of the month for her when you tell her though because she may not take your advice to well and might just bite your head off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 Either way she's gonna catch feeelins no matter how nicely you put it... so just dooo it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted February 19, 2008 Report Share Posted February 19, 2008 ...No.I found out this.I made a thread about it.My ex saw it.She got upset. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
violet Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 the girls is quite a sensitive bitch , there are some girls which you can say anything to and there are some that you canttake one of her pies, and RUN, by the time she catches you she will have lost 50lbsLMAO...joka! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 if you love her and her health is not at risk it shouldnt be an issue for you.If however she is slipping with her appearance and wearing unsuitably fitting clothes that dont compliment her change in figure then i believe your in a place to suggest she change the way she dresses. her weight however should not bother you. if it does bother you as, ive said in prev threads maybe you dont think of much of her as you think as you obviously hold her physical aspects of greater importance than her intellect and emotional qualities.Which loosely translated deems you as shallow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunner Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 if you love her and her health is not at risk it shouldnt be an issue for you.If however she is slipping with her appearance and wearing unsuitably fitting clothes that dont compliment her change in figure then i believe your in a place to suggest she change the way she dresses. her weight however should not bother you. if it does bother you as, ive said in prev threads maybe you dont think of much of her as you think as you obviously hold her physical aspects of greater importance than her intellect and emotional qualities.Which loosely translated deems you as shallowYou treid to tell me this, this is not always the case. man just wants his chick to look good all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 if you love her and her health is not at risk it shouldnt be an issue for you.If however she is slipping with her appearance and wearing unsuitably fitting clothes that dont compliment her change in figure then i believe your in a place to suggest she change the way she dresses. her weight however should not bother you. if it does bother you as, ive said in prev threads maybe you dont think of much of her as you think as you obviously hold her physical aspects of greater importance than her intellect and emotional qualities.Which loosely translated deems you as shallowYou treid to tell me this, this is not always the case. man just wants his chick to look good all the time. you dont have to have a perfect figure to 'look good all the time'im HUGE right now and i look very good and even before i was pregnant i was never slim and i Always kept my appearance impecable and presented myself well and at times believed i often surpassed 'looking good'problem with many boys is they are out of touch with reality and dont realise that their current wifeys figures at 18 are subject to change as they have not grown fully so any changes and they think they are putting on weight and its the end of the world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bane Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 Tell her ur gona be in the gym alot and you wont be able to spend much tym with her unless she goes with you.....Ok cook more for her lyk healthy food if ur dat desperate to wok it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
claire-louise Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 i agree with messy, wish i could have that opinion about myself though but we are our own worst critics.too many girls obssess over weight, if you live a relatively healthy lifestyle them who cares about a few extra curves.i think you can be something like a 14 or 16 and still be healthy and look good.you could drop hints like you love sporty girls who give new things a try, see what sports she used to like when she was younger and encourage her too start up again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davicious X Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 She will catch feelinsg whatever way you put it so it's just about tact and subtlety...ye weight can be quite a sensative issue for a girlso if a boy was to tell u that you was getting a bit podgy , how would you expect him to say iti dunno maybe suggest going to the gym together ? i remember when a boy called me fat one time ,it made me cry lolif he saw me now though, he could so not be in a position to call me fat now try what removal man said, just be honest with her but be nice when doing so, you are just looking out for heatlth and what not .So what your saying is that his lyrics worked? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supernova Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 If its wifeysay ur gunna go on a diet urself...and ask her for some moral support Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 She will catch feelinsg whatever way you put it so it's just about tact and subtlety...ye weight can be quite a sensative issue for a girlso if a boy was to tell u that you was getting a bit podgy , how would you expect him to say iti dunno maybe suggest going to the gym together ? i remember when a boy called me fat one time ,it made me cry lolif he saw me now though, he could so not be in a position to call me fat now try what removal man said, just be honest with her but be nice when doing so, you are just looking out for heatlth and what not .So what your saying is that his lyrics worked? in a way ye,lolcos i just looked at myself and thought eurgh, hes right, your lookin kinda fat lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyOG Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 The best thing to do however, is show by example...Uh HuhIf your man's looking on point you're gonna want to rep for him... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badman Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 The best thing to do however, is show by example...Agreed this is the best way,if the bitch wanted to lose weight she will do it withought you suggesting it in the first place,them controllers there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davicious X Posted February 20, 2008 Report Share Posted February 20, 2008 The best thing to do however, is show by example...Uh HuhIf your man's looking on point you're gonna want to rep for him...I hear you but some folks have a skewed view of themselves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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