is there anyone here

[Ankle Murda]

*hand is risen*my secret fear is that my dad is actually a cool guy and my mum has just been chatting sh*t to besmirch his name all this time. used to bother me alot cause I would see all these nuclear families on t.v, going out to kick ball, dads giving their sons the car talk, sh*t like that.one thin I know is i'm gonna be the illest dad ever, suttin like michael from my wife and kids but with more hair and the original tischa campbell not the wierd one with the laugh.

thats the one gd thing i got out of not having a dad around tbhmade me see that i shud b better than that prick

Believe. That's my motivation right there, and believe I won't let my kids see him, man won't be able to tell me nothing then.sh*t, he can't tell me sh*t right now, if he even does I'll buss his head open.

nah nah u know what murks it yeamans gone n started off a whole new family with a next chicknot even new, rebore familycheck it, i gt an older sister, 1.5 years olderhes gt an 8 year old daughter n a 6 year old son or some sh*tmans jus went a did the same thing in a less cuntish way (i presume, as she's still with him)n the wife (never a step mom ting) is a PRICKKKKKK, livin in my mums shadow n sh*tn he try come on some humble sh*t, tellin man bout God be with u n goin churchhe can see my kids its nuffin, but they'll know exactly who he is n why im better than himf*ck it, imma go visit him next year, see what this nigga's really sayinmum dnt know i speak 2 him from time 2 time doe, lol he try say "send my love to mum" i tld him str8 she dont want n none of them like u, n even i dont liek you but i jus you to get sutin for me coz ur my actual dad n i dnt want mum knowin bout iti gt issues man

Rah that's deep still.But with me, I just hate him.He didn't start a next family though, he just moved back to Naija and carried on running his business up there. But he just wasn't there for us since he left, he calls every now and again but I just threaten him and slam the phone. He wasn't there when we had our problems but we pulled through, and he's tryna gwarn like things are all good KMT ijot. My brother and sister don't really feel that much hostility towards him but I just hate him.And what's funny is one of my aunties was tryna get me to talk to him like 4 years ago when I was in Naija. All like ''(Naija accent) forgiiive him nooow, life is too short, eeeEEH?!''. I was just like SO f*ck*ng WHAT. Forgive him, FOR WHAT??!!Bruv I'm getting mad just thinking about it, next time I see him ITS ON!!

u gt it good bruvthat nigga WAS my problemsstill is infacti dnt even get mad i jus fink... c*ntthen try n b better than him

Not gonna lie though, when I see youngers walking happily with their fathers, even my relatives, all talking about ''I love my dad, don't know what I'll do without him'' and so on, I do get a bit jealous, sometimes mad.

[Soca Junkie]

Only seen photos of him. Im assuming he touched me when I was born... but that doesn't count.I feel kinda jealous in a way because my sister and brother from him have had some sort of relationship with him and I havn't. What kills it is his parents must think I only came looking for him because I want money??! wtf! 20 years why now?Before I leave to go to uni Im going to write them a letter spilling out my guts... so they feel like d*ckheads... then drop it off personally.f*ck*ng racist d*ckheads.

[MacDaddy]

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[Guest David Braund]

Only seen photos of him. Im assuming he touched me when I was born... but that doesn't count.I feel kinda jealous in a way because my sister and brother from him have had some sort of relationship with him and I havn't. What kills it is his parents must think I only came looking for him because I want money??! wtf! 20 years why now?Before I leave to go to uni Im going to write them a letter spilling out my guts... so they feel like d*ckheads... then drop it off personally.f*ck*ng racist d*ckheads.

ur parents are racist 2 u?

[jellybone]

i met my dad 4 years ago

[LuLu]

do you lot think that your life would have been different if your father had been around ? or that you would be a different person to the one that you are now ?

[Grafter]

do you lot think that your life would have been different if your father had been around ? or that you would be a different person to the one that you are now ?

most definitlywithout a shadow of a doubt

[Guest David Braund]

nah i woulda been worse probi best i wasnt brought up by that guy

[banger]

Black man in my Grandad Generation >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Black man in My Dad generation

[Grafter]

our parents generation done f*cked up, selfish an carelessain paved the way for us whatsoevergenerally speakin likeim doin jus fine

[Ankle Murda]

do you lot think that your life would have been different if your father had been around ? or that you would be a different person to the one that you are now ?

Hell yeah

[LuLu]

do you lot think that your life would have been different if your father had been around ? or that you would be a different person to the one that you are now ?

most definitlywithout a shadow of a doubt

its the same with me, im so bitter and arghhhh inside, i should forget about it and move on with my life but even though i hate to admit it, it kinda hurts that he was just never about much and now im just not in contact with him at all.sometimes i think, one day il put aside my stubborness and get in contact with him but then i think whats the f*ckin point, he would of been contact with by now if he wanted to amend things.the guy doesnt even make an effort to see his grandaughter, its not even like my brother is not allowing him to either, he said he would be civil with him for her sake.

[Guest David Braund]

Black man in my Grandad Generation >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Black man in My Dad generation

thats so f*ckin truemy grandad is a G, best dude ever, gt like 14 kids but sees them all n all by the same womanblessest guy ever aswellhe's frm my mums side doe so i guess that jus shows the good blood

[Mic Man]

FAO: ALL those who have never met their father..Serious Question:Do you ever question what kind of woman your mum is, seeing as she decided to have a child with a wasteman?Cos if they were in a serious stable relationship, i doubt the father would run off without even seeing their child

[Grafter]

FAO: ALL those who have never met their father..Serious Question:Do you ever question what kind of woman your mum is, seeing as she decided to have a child with a wasteman?Cos if they were in a serious stable relationship, i doubt the father would run off without even seeing their child

first of all, allow insinuating that a woman is waste because she is a single mumsecond of all, allow assuming that everyones dad jus ran out, few people in this thread who havnt seen their fathers have stated the reason whywhatever the reason, this was 20 odd yrs ago, wondering what kind of woman your mum is dont make no sense, for the fact that u kno who she is an whats shes like from living with her for your entire lifereally gets on my last nerve, certain people with both parents think that they are some how better people or come from better families than single parent families

[Numero001]

Its unfortunate. I think Dads should always see their kids from my perspective, but you never know what you man's/girls mums were like as far as grief and problems. I know bitter mum's that tell their kids lies about their fathers. I know it as fact that mum's spit sh*t about the dad 'cause they dont like the dad for whatever reason.I think certain times mum's get too much credit and too much anger is directed at the father. Even if you were to ask your dad why he doesnt see you, he may never tell you the real reason 'cause he doesnt want you to hate or cause any problems with you and your mumDo any of you ever think of that? Infact, thats a rhetorical question. Dont answer 'cause people will take the personally. I'll leave it there for those who dont mind reading it.disclaimer: I know and live with my Dad, but I'm saying this as a man and future father, fingers crossed, all with the same babymother and the person that I spend my life with, but not everything runs smoothly.

[Guest David Braund]

FAO: ALL those who have never met their father..Serious Question:Do you ever question what kind of woman your mum is, seeing as she decided to have a child with a wasteman?Cos if they were in a serious stable relationship, i doubt the father would run off without even seeing their child

LMFAO

[Twirl]

FAO: ALL those who have never met their father..Serious Question:Do you ever question what kind of woman your mum is, seeing as she decided to have a child with a wasteman?Cos if they were in a serious stable relationship, i doubt the father would run off without even seeing their child

wow lol

[Twirl]

Its unfortunate. I think Dads should always see their kids from my perspective, but you never know what you man's/girls mums were like as far as grief and problems. I know bitter mum's that tell their kids lies about their fathers. I know it as fact that mum's spit sh*t about the dad 'cause they dont like the dad for whatever reason.I think certain times mum's get too much credit and too much anger is directed at the father. Even if you were to ask your dad why he doesnt see you, he may never tell you the real reason 'cause he doesnt want you to hate or cause any problems with you and your mumDo any of you ever think of that? Infact, thats a rhetorical question. Dont answer 'cause people will take the personally. I'll leave it there for those who dont mind reading it.disclaimer: I know and live with my Dad, but I'm saying this as a man and future father, fingers crossed, all with the same babymother and the person that I spend my life with, but not everything runs smoothly.

i hate parents that bad mouth eachother to the kids. my parents know not to do that

[Mic Man]

FAO: ALL those who have never met their father..Serious Question:Do you ever question what kind of woman your mum is, seeing as she decided to have a child with a wasteman?Cos if they were in a serious stable relationship, i doubt the father would run off without even seeing their child

wow lol

im not joking tho... im intruiged to hear responses.But ill probably just get sent for :S

[Guest David Braund]

my mum had 2 leaveso she's kinda a better woman for leavin, but still gotta question her judgement in the first place, but i dnt care bout hat, she's been good 2 me

[Mic Man]

FAO: ALL those who have never met their father..Serious Question:Do you ever question what kind of woman your mum is, seeing as she decided to have a child with a wasteman?Cos if they were in a serious stable relationship, i doubt the father would run off without even seeing their child

first of all, allow insinuating that a woman is waste because she is a single mumsecond of all, allow assuming that everyones dad jus ran out, few people in this thread who havnt seen their fathers have stated the reason whywhatever the reason, this was 20 odd yrs ago, wondering what kind of woman your mum is dont make no sense, for the fact that u kno who she is an whats shes like from living with her for your entire lifereally gets on my last nerve, certain people with both parents think that they are some how better people or come from better families than single parent families

I didnt say anyones mum is waste because they are single parents. I just cant get my mind round how a man could walk past there child on Street and not know because he's never seen them. That makes them seriously waste-- and surely if you are in a relationship with a wasteman, you must be able to spot itTherefore im asking the question- HOW Can a woman have a child with a person like that???

[Soca Junkie]

Only seen photos of him. Im assuming he touched me when I was born... but that doesn't count.I feel kinda jealous in a way because my sister and brother from him have had some sort of relationship with him and I havn't. What kills it is his parents must think I only came looking for him because I want money??! wtf! 20 years why now?Before I leave to go to uni Im going to write them a letter spilling out my guts... so they feel like d*ckheads... then drop it off personally.f*ck*ng racist d*ckheads.

ur parents are racist 2 u?

No... my grandparents.

[Soca Junkie]

FAO: ALL those who have never met their father..Serious Question:Do you ever question what kind of woman your mum is, seeing as she decided to have a child with a wasteman?Cos if they were in a serious stable relationship, i doubt the father would run off without even seeing their child

first of all, allow insinuating that a woman is waste because she is a single mumsecond of all, allow assuming that everyones dad jus ran out, few people in this thread who havnt seen their fathers have stated the reason whywhatever the reason, this was 20 odd yrs ago, wondering what kind of woman your mum is dont make no sense, for the fact that u kno who she is an whats shes like from living with her for your entire lifereally gets on my last nerve, certain people with both parents think that they are some how better people or come from better families than single parent families

I didnt say anyones mum is waste because they are single parents. I just cant get my mind round how a man could walk past there child on Street and not know because he's never seen them. That makes them seriously waste-- and surely if you are in a relationship with a wasteman, you must be able to spot itTherefore im asking the question- HOW Can a woman have a child with a person like that???

Tbh I don't see what is so hard to understand... the relationship may have been rosey before the pregnancy and things may have gone belly up during it... resulting in him leaving or the mother leaving. I don't see why I should look at my mother any other way because of this... unless of course she is the one who stopped him from seein me... which isn't the case... but does happen.

[Blackstock]

Its unfortunate. I think Dads should always see their kids from my perspective, but you never know what you man's/girls mums were like as far as grief and problems. I know bitter mum's that tell their kids lies about their fathers. I know it as fact that mum's spit sh*t about the dad 'cause they dont like the dad for whatever reason.I think certain times mum's get too much credit and too much anger is directed at the father. Even if you were to ask your dad why he doesnt see you, he may never tell you the real reason 'cause he doesnt want you to hate or cause any problems with you and your mumDo any of you ever think of that? Infact, thats a rhetorical question. Dont answer 'cause people will take the personally. I'll leave it there for those who dont mind reading it.disclaimer: I know and live with my Dad, but I'm saying this as a man and future father, fingers crossed, all with the same babymother and the person that I spend my life with, but not everything runs smoothly.

c/s.