Gettin dropped in the shit at work

[Vtec]

Just had one I guy i supposedly work as a team member try f*ck up my position and make me out as not doing my job correctly... Felt to smash the geeza in his face. But need to find a way to exact revenge but in a smart way... and get him f*cked over or better still sacked.Ever since i've started at my new job, i've sense an air of either contempt/jealously and just general dislike for some unknown reason. (though I suspect it's racial issues he has) He's supposed to be training me up and also working together as we have to manage certain projects together. Man just don't communicate or keep me in the loop, expecting me to keep running after him like some lap dog.Not takin the immediate route of grassin up to management just yet, but already asked him whats ya problem in a (polictically correct manner) To which he fronts as if he is cool with me. But in front of management he starts lickin ass hardcore.Im a patient guy and fairly tolerant, but now i have started to lose my cool after this sh*t this morning. But don't want to jepoardise my position at work at the same time. Frustrated!!what would u do?have u been in situations like this? at work or uni? or wherever?

[Flojo]

Take time, an opportunity to expose him will arise.

[Frank Furta]

No offence but you must be a bit of a mug, otherwise he wouldnt think of trying to get away with liberites.

[Vtec]

No offence but you must be a bit of a mug, otherwise he wouldnt think of trying to get away with liberites.

erm nah, he is trying to take me for a mug. And know nows what time it with me. But he is abusing his position... knowing that I can get dismissed from work at anytime. Still probationary period at work. I don't expect to be making friends an all that at work, but at least get on in a civil manner. Which he has not even attempted in the slightest. He either scared of competition or nex insecurites which I cant figure. I clocked this behaviour after 5 days into this job...now it seems to be escalating..

[Lenny]

Take time, an opportunity to expose him will arise.

thisgotta ride it out tbh

[Snoop]

He probably watched Eastenders on tuesday and got vexed.Do you work in an office Vtec?

[Frank Furta]

No offence but you must be a bit of a mug, otherwise he wouldnt think of trying to get away with liberites.

erm nah, he is trying to take me for a mug. And know nows what time it with me. But he is abusing his position... knowing that I can get dismissed from work at anytime. Still probationary period at work. I don't expect to be making friends an all that at work, but at least get on in a civil manner. Which he has not even attempted in the slightest. He either scared of competition or nex insecurites which I cant figure. I clocked this behaviour after 5 days into this job...now it seems to be escalating..

Then i sugest you get another job, this ones going knowhere.

[Vtec]

He probably watched Eastenders on tuesday and got vexed.Do you work in an office Vtec?

lol. yeah

[Connoisseur]

This could possibly be a test to see how you cope under pressure and when things aren't going your way. Let it slide this time, but if it happens again, don't be afraid to sit down with him and discuss what's on your mind. Let him know that his communication towards you is lacking and that you feel "out of the loop." If you talk to him in a professional manner you have nothing to worry about. If you keep quiet, things may not eventually go your way and could possibly get worse. Don't try and expose him, that will probably get you sacked.

[Grafter]

Take time, an opportunity to expose him will arise.

thisbut what hes doing is bullying u kno, whatever u do dont make it get to youand if its jus a job i.e not a career move keep urself moving

[Guest Lemons]

Jab him in the leg with a spork.Got me where I am today.

[Vtec]

No offence but you must be a bit of a mug, otherwise he wouldnt think of trying to get away with liberites.

erm nah, he is trying to take me for a mug. And know nows what time it with me. But he is abusing his position... knowing that I can get dismissed from work at anytime. Still probationary period at work. I don't expect to be making friends an all that at work, but at least get on in a civil manner. Which he has not even attempted in the slightest. He either scared of competition or nex insecurites which I cant figure. I clocked this behaviour after 5 days into this job...now it seems to be escalating..

Then i sugest you get another job, this ones going knowhere.

nah i can't bow out like that and make him win. have to stand up to this, but where to start is where im stuck. He is like the Golden child amongst management here. For now just keeping my back and all angles covered, to counter strike him.But I wanna get him caught out big time.And not as if jobs are freely going out there at d mo. I got bills to pay

[morninghasbroken]

Whats a spork? I like the sound of it.Does it combine a spoon and a fork by having short prongs and a slight bowl shaped area?

[Vtec]

This could possibly be a test to see how you cope under pressure and when things aren't going your way. Let it slide this time, but if it happens again, don't be afraid to sit down with him and discuss what's on your mind. Let him know that his communication towards you is lacking and that you feel "out of the loop." If you talk to him in a professional manner you have nothing to worry about. If you keep quiet, things may not eventually go your way and could possibly get worse. Don't try and expose him, that will probably get you sacked.

true... I like this repsonse... advice taken on board.

[morninghasbroken]

OoH I likes it.

[Vtec]

Take time, an opportunity to expose him will arise.

thisbut what hes doing is bullying u kno, whatever u do dont make it get to youand if its jus a job i.e not a career move keep urself moving

safe, yeah this is a career and not just a J.O.B. but still bills gotta be paid... aint got time for faffin around.(Y)

[Vtec]

OoH I likes it.

im eatin some fruits wid a spork now as well lol

[Gunner]

Boy im reading the 48 laws of power, very interesting book.bide your time.Findout his weakness.Play a sucker to catch a sucker, seem dumber th your mark.Read this book ingeneral you may find sme inspiration from it, trust mit is quite insightful. But it may turn you cold. My heart is half black already.

[Mic Man]

OoH I likes it.

lol, serious is back in full effectPS. Nice pum

[Grafter]

i remember someone posted the 48 laws of power in brief on here sometime agoreally disagreed with that type of behaviour, in my eyes it promotes brown nosing underhandedness and not having any pride

[Vtec]

Boy im reading the 48 laws of power, very interesting book.bide your time.Findout his weakness.Play a sucker to catch a sucker, seem dumber th your mark.Read this book ingeneral you may find sme inspiration from it, trust mit is quite insightful. But it may turn you cold. My heart is half black already.

Looks good! order placed.

[Gunner]

i remember someone posted the 48 laws of power in brief on here sometime agoreally disagreed with that type of behaviour, in my eyes it promotes brown nosing underhandedness and not having any pride

on 1st glances i can see why yopu say that, but its just abut having all opions available to you so you can fully understand a situation. The game is being played weather u play, and or like it or not. And in fact there are no ''nonplayers''

[Gunner]

Boy im reading the 48 laws of power, very interesting book.bide your time.Findout his weakness.Play a sucker to catch a sucker, seem dumber th your mark.Read this book ingeneral you may find sme inspiration from it, trust mit is quite insightful. But it may turn you cold. My heart is half black already.

Looks good! order placed.

It is i had a long wait 2 get it, borrowed it form the library, currently reading it.

[VENOM]

beg u lot stop coming here complaining about your work..unless its fun stories.who gives a f*ck wheter ur dropped in the sh*t at work? did i interview you? did i make you apply for that job?did i say you shouldnt go and tump ur manager in the boat?if u dont like ur work.. quit. burn the place down, refuse to do the work etc etc. LIKE SERIOUSLY... WHAT DO U WANT US TO DO???

[Grafter]

u kno when someone jus shows demselves up, they dont even realise