Flojo Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Over the past few years I've witnessed numerous people around me being violated in ways that nobody should tolerate, what makes this worse is that said people aren't the type I'd ever expect to tolerate such f*ckery. All these people have one thing in common - they have children with the person who violated them.(when I say violations I mean cheating, public disrespect, f*ck*ng up man financially)All the people I'm talking about have said almost immediately after that they're done with the violator etc but they have always ended up letting things slide for the sake of the children growing up in a relationship with mother and father present. Anytime I challenge this the response I get is I don't understand because I haven't got kids but I fully believe that my core principles aren't negotiable.So what I wanna ask the parents on here specifically is do you think you've compromised your principles in a relationship for the sake of your children?To the people who don't have kids I want your input on this as well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hhhhhhh8 Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Yeah of course. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flojo Posted June 4, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Yeah of course.To what extent? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hhhhhhh8 Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Yeah of course.To what extent?Cheating = Divorce. Pretty much anything else in moderation goes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 IM QUITE DIFFERENT FRM MY AGE GROUP BEENFRU LOTS OF sh*t SEEEN IT HAPPEN ALL MY LIFE-------------SO I WUD LIKE TO THINK THE COMPRIMESES I MAKE R SOLEY TO B A BETTA PARENT-----IT WUDNT MATTA WAT THEY R KIDS CUM 1ST------ALLWAYS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flojo Posted June 4, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Yeah of course.To what extent?Cheating = Divorce. Pretty much anything else in moderation goes.So if you were unhappy you'd stay together for the sake of your children?This is the standpoint of one of the people I'm talking about but surely having your child grow up in a relationship where both parties are unhappy defeats the whole purpose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hhhhhhh8 Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Yeah of course.To what extent?Cheating = Divorce. Pretty much anything else in moderation goes.So if you were unhappy you'd stay together for the sake of your children?This is the standpoint of one of the people I'm talking about but surely having your child grow up in a relationship where both parties are unhappy defeats the whole purpose.In moderation. If it got so much that it was becoming obvious to the child then I'd end it. I'd like my child to grow up with the best advantages in life, and having both parents and both of our incomes will help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Its so hard out there for some guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flojo Posted June 4, 2009 Author Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 IM QUITE DIFFERENT FRM MY AGE GROUP BEENFRU LOTS OF sh*t SEEEN IT HAPPEN ALL MY LIFE-------------SO I WUD LIKE TO THINK THE COMPRIMESES I MAKE R SOLEY TO B A BETTA PARENT-----IT WUDNT MATTA WAT THEY R KIDS CUM 1ST------ALLWAYSSo where would you draw the line, would you overlook your partner cheating? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 noand ill tell all young parents thisthe SOONER you say no to whatever it is the easier it will be from there on after. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 Its so hard out there for some guys.TrustMy heart bleed for certain man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carpedeum Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 young people these days are less ready to resolve matters and just want out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Posted June 4, 2009 Report Share Posted June 4, 2009 No my core principals have remained the samei would NEVER stay with my boyf for the sake of our son because children are not stupid they will read a situation like a book. id rather my son experience a healthy relationship then a destructive one and if that meant a single parent situation then so be it.its like young people actually like drama nowadays i just dont get it,like its fashion to be in a f*cked up relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Triple XXX Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 no point draggin a deadout relationship for the sake of kids, sometimes it may be better for them to jus split up than grow up in a disfunctional familyi grew up in a single family household n hae no holdups about it, i dnt feel it inhibited me in anyway, infact i think it worked out better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 lol @ working it out for the sake of the kids while some next man is tappin ya wifey and some next woman is getting screwed by the dad and you tell ya kid them people are friends of the family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ari Gold Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 It's like some people don't get this.I split up with my babys mum due to her lack of common sense & people chat to me like I should stay with her for the sake of my daughter.Are you f*ck*ng dumb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 It's like some people don't get this.I split up with my babys mum due to her lack of common sense & people chat to me like I should stay with her for the sake of my daughter.Are you f*ck*ng dumb.I know the feeling famdont get angry at it this dont happen no more cos since then she moved on and had a child with someone else etc and its long breaking it down to people why you dont do it.usually tends to be women and manginas that ask these questions alie? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K121 Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 It's like some people don't get this.I split up with my babys mum due to her lack of common sense & people chat to me like I should stay with her for the sake of my daughter.Are you f*ck*ng dumb.yh i get where you comin from people ask bare questions if someones not wiv their babys mum but i think the baby misses out tho still, especially gyal they need their dad init Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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